Without looking needy? At least theoretically, us guys LOVE a girl who needs us. How often does THAT happen?
Well it's his job to approach you, but maybe he hasn't noticed you. I say you should first think about sending him subtle signals that you're interested, and if that doesn't work, to approach. But be careful, if he doesn't do it, then he's probably too shy and you might not like him that much because of this.
If you decide to go up to him, then you should be relaxed, like it's no big deal... make some small talk, gauge his interest... send them signals (more and more intense if required). If you feel like he's interested but he doesn't take the first step, you can suggest something very light, like going for coffee. But you have to have some degree of comfort together. Asking for his number would be a bad idea, I think, unless there's a good reason to do so.
I remember a girl asked me for my number, and I talked to her the first time she called, then I didn't answer the phone anymore. I know it ain't cool, but it's also very weird for a girl to do the guy's job. There must be something wrong with her if she does that. At least this is what the first impression tells you.
Now I personally like it when a girl makes the first move, if it's not a very bold move. Something small. But she has to do it with total confidence. You girls say you like a confident guy? Well, guess what? A confident girl is a huge turn on, at least for me. I mean the girl has to be sure of what she wants, not to second-guess.
I think more important than showing him that you're into him, is focusing on attracting him. That means getting him to be INTO YOU. Cause there's no use if he knows you like him, but doesn't feel the same. The same with girls. So many guys think that if they can just show the girl they like her, she'll magically fall in love with them. And you know this isn't true. But once he's attracted to you, it would help to make him notice that you're also into him.
Honest opinion and advice. I hope it helps.
Good luck!
2007-07-26 17:13:56
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answered by andrei . c 2
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I being a guy love it when a girl makes the first move.. you know that she is there for you and to help you have a good time. Its great when a girl can do that... and it usually doesn't turn out where she seems needy.
2007-07-26 23:22:53
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answered by Anonymous
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I'd love it if the girl made the first move, as for how I guess some kind of flirting would work but it really depends on the situation
2007-07-26 23:23:23
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answered by Billy 5
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Talk to him about anything. Doesn't matter what, and it's okay if you come off as shy or nervous. This will show him that you're interested, which is what you want.
Touch him. Hold his hand, hug him, whatever. Just touch him.
2007-07-26 23:22:58
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answered by Mike M 4
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i do like it when they make the first move. takes the pressure off of me, since i usually have to do it, and also makes me feel very desirable, which is a nice feeling. can make me a bit uncomfortable if i dont like her, but it's no big deal.
flirt! touch his arm when you talk. make lots of eye contact. joke/tease with him. pay total attention to him. that should show him how you feel pretty unmistakably, but you won't seem too forward.
2007-07-26 23:22:49
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answered by a c 4
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Hello, my name is ****** and I'm interested in knowing more about you.
That should get your point accross without you seeming too needy or pushy.
2007-07-26 23:25:47
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answered by the_shadowdancer_serine 1
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ask him if he has time to talk, then if he says yes find some place at least kinda private so he isn't likely to show off for his friends, then tell him how you fell
2007-07-26 23:26:53
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answered by me 2
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just talk to him --- if he is interested he will keep talking and as you talk you will both know from the body language if there is a mutual attraction
2007-07-26 23:26:12
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answered by Waterdragon 7
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