im 16...he gave me his shirt a ring and a necklace and a cookie monster do I give it back?
2007-07-26 15:04:24 · 27 answers · asked by ♠SHADYdUhh♠ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how you guys broke up. I would say you don't have to if it means something to you or if you think he would've liked for you to keep it. If you guys ended your relationship on bad terms then I'd try to get rid of his stuff. Just because you don't need those negative vibes in your life and they can bring back unpleasant memories, preventing you from moving on.
2007-07-26 15:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Naka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummm first ask your self this question.. Do these items cause you pain is some way bring back memories that you don't want or need if so then give em back or toss em away. Then again if the give you good memories then keep em cause there is no price for a peace of mind . He he but if you ask me i would drop the shirt and the stuff animal and pawn the jewelry
2007-07-26 22:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Someguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him back his stuff..but keep the gifts. Unless the ring and/or necklace had some attachment meaning to them...like an engagement ring or promise ring.
2007-07-26 22:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jaab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned, you don't have to give back gifts, no. Those are yours to do whatever you want with. But, if you're talking about CDs or other junk and belongings he left at your house at some point in the relationship, those you should give back.
2007-07-26 22:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Caitie123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you do not have to, they were gifts to you. It may be nice of you to give back the jewelery if it was expensive. You can however keep it if you like. Do not give back everything then it looks like you don't or ever did care for him at all. I mean you do want some memories.
2007-07-26 22:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question! I have mixed feelings on this one. Possession is 9/10th of the law. BUT ,For what ever reasons you broke up. If it causes more unwanted contact for you or him. Then the gifts are not doing anyone any good and it's not the gifts he wants back or you can't let go. If he asked for them give it back if he don't keep them. ......
2007-07-26 22:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by thebaked 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its over 4 good then yea but if thers a chance u will get back 2gether then keep em i did but sweetie ur still young u've gott ime 2 find a rite guy 4 u its ur decision
2007-07-26 22:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by The Evil Genius 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by law the only thing you have to give back is an engagement ring because it a conditional gift.
2007-07-26 22:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Katrina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i dont think that he would want a ring or necklace, but if he says he wants them back you should give them back.. you dont have to give any of that stuff back to him unless he asks.... also you dont have to keep that stuff if it makes you upset
2007-07-26 22:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to give anything back but why would you keep his shirt? That I would definitely give back, if he asked for it. Otherwise the rest is yours to keep.
2007-07-26 22:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by sdavila42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋