Singles & Dating - 28 July 2007

There's this guy who looks as creepy as michael jackson (because of a birth defect) and he has a crush on me. He gave me a note and necklace and keeps smiling at me whenever I see him which is every week cause he goes to my church. I feel sorry for him because I'm probably the first girl he's liked and I know he has really low self esteme and is really shy because of the way he looks. But the reason I don't like him is not the way he looks but because we have absolutely nothing in common- he likes movies, tv shows, and books I can't stand, he listens to music I would never listen to, plus (and this is a big issue) he speaks a entirely different language- litterally. So how do I tell him as kindly as I can that I don't like him???

2007-07-28 23:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by generic 3

2007-07-28 23:19:47 · 27 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3

could this lead to some disaster ?
or would it be advisable to confine her problems to another girl instead?

2007-07-28 23:18:07 · 24 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3

well i posted a question 'how do you know if a guy really loves you' and got some good answers and well many wanted to know my age. well i 17 and he is 20 and i met his granny and his aunt and i like them and him alot. but now my ex wants me back..........well my ex and i dated for about a year and then he popped the question and i ran away. oh and in our country lots of people get married young.......why do i always attract th 'commited' guys? it sucks really because all i want is a boyfriend. maybe i should move out of south africa! what do you guys think?

2007-07-28 23:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by MISSKINKY 3

I do have a BF and I never asked him what he thinks...is it too proud to ask him what he thinks?

2007-07-28 22:29:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 27 year old guy, and have had a lack of romantic relationships in my life. I get VERY few opportunities, and on occasions I have been too shy to take those opportunities.

I have become increasingly frustrated, and saw a counsellor who gave me some advice, including "not pursuing women who were already attached to guys".

A few months back, I was acquainted with this girl, who was interested in me. She asked me to help her with school assignments, and at one point grabbed my hand and put it on her thigh. But, she was dating another guy at the time and this discouraged me from reciprocating her interest (even though I was attracted to her).

Eventually, she lost interest in me and I am now out of touch with her. These days, I blame myself everyday for not having responded positively to her. I also blame my counsellor for confusing me (by advising me to not pursue girls who are already attached)... I am feeling depressed and feel like I lost my only chance... how do I cope?

2007-07-28 21:27:37 · 22 answers · asked by average_joe 1

We've been close friends for 3 yrs - he's liked me from the very beginning. We talk about everything and he's always been there for me. Friends say he's always "adored"/respected me.
Earlier this year, i realized i fell for him and he still felt the same way. He's a "late bloomer" - he's never had a girlfriend, kiss, physical contact, etc...until me. We decided that it wasn't the "right time" to be in a relationship right now b/c he wanted it to be the "right time": "long lasting, serious, and real."

A few months back, he lost someone very close to him. During those months, i've reached out to him, let him know he was there but avoided me completely. Now that we're starting to talk again, i know there's been something on my mind because he's been avoiding me (woman instinct). We had a "convo"and pretty much it's been him pushing me to be with other guys...i KNOW for a fact it's just a cover up for him probably feeling he can't be with me...but he wouldn't tell me straight up. Fr. how he was talking, his ego was talking, talking like he knew the "game" of dating when in reality, he's never "had" a girl. He finally sent me a TXT msg explaining that i shouldn't "wait for him", and that i'm "grown enough" to hear this it was his deciding factor that we should "still be friends no matter what".

i feel completely DISREPSECTED bc this drama wouldn't have happened if he didn't tell me this right away. and who said i was waiting for him? i reached out b/c i was worried about how he was dealing with the death. If anything, he would have the manners to stop avoiding me, talk to me face to face and not assume and decide our status. b/c of the fact that we've been friends, i felt that he handled this situation poorly.

What do i do?

2007-07-28 21:09:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl is a little younger and a little less mature than I am. I am 25, but she is great. She's fun, sassy and crazy about me. I'm a big dater and have know many different types of girls. This one seems different. How do I know? What makes her the one I should really put time into? Yes I like her but I've been hurt before and I do not want to waste time or be hurt again. She stands out from the rest of the girls I've dated, which is a very good thing but how do I know?

2007-07-28 21:07:52 · 5 answers · asked by macgyverc3 2

When she says what happens in vegas stays in vegas what the hell does that mean? Am i being jelous? She went with her crazy girl friends and are going to go club hopping till the sun comes up. I also noticed in the last day or so before she left she was not the same would not say i love you just bye like i was some stranger. I dont trust her. She never invites me to go clubbing with her friends. And when she does she doesnt introduce me as her boyfriend. She also always says i feel bad as if she did something wrong the next day. Should I dump her?

2007-07-28 21:04:07 · 6 answers · asked by etniesbiker 1

i love one girl who has engaged but she is also love with me but she fear about her family & her fiancee what should we do?

2007-07-28 20:55:27 · 22 answers · asked by sam 1

2007-07-28 20:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by anusul 1

2007-07-28 20:47:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 20:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by Trouble 2

I never really get to meet these type of guys. I always meet the cheaters, liars, and the controlling ones. (No offense) Are there really good ones out there?

2007-07-28 20:38:28 · 13 answers · asked by kjcs_angel 3

how do you stand out to a guy by not being a SL*T or anything, how do u try and be different but still be 15, whats the best way to get his attenetion even when he doesn't know you exist!! i have flirted, gave him compliments, everyone else knows i like him but y cant he see

2007-07-28 20:36:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 20:34:29 · 7 answers · asked by Trouble 2

the reason y im asking coz i like to know ur opinion bout this coz i really love someone and i know she know it but she already has a boyfriend and i can't forget her, i don't know wat to do?

2007-07-28 20:33:05 · 10 answers · asked by cute dude 1

I like this guy is 6-7 years older than me....too old?
And to be honest with you all the guys my age seem to be soo immature.
Thanks for your answers ahead of time.

2007-07-28 20:27:38 · 22 answers · asked by _WhiteRose 3

Me and my bf have been together for 2 years... before we met he was with the wrong people and was doing drugs, however he stopped he went to cali in rehab and everything. Anyways he is 23 and I am only 20 so I can not get into bars and he wants to go really bad w/ his friend...this friend does all of this stuff still and I do not want him going w/him alone...just because he tries to get my bf to do it again and I do not want him mixed up in it...he gets mad and says I don't trust him...I do trust him I know he would never cheat on me & all of that I am just scared bc I know he would give into this guy...I have no problem hanging out w/this friend when were together...am I wrong for doing this or should I let him go??

2007-07-28 20:17:14 · 17 answers · asked by *Proud mommy* 2

I asked a question and the answerers said HE MIGHT BE GAY...what do you think?
THIS WAS THE QUESTION AND THEY ANSWERED THAT HE MIGHT BE GAY!!! THE PPL ON YAHOO SAID THAT...not ppl who actually know him...

Friends VS More than Friends?
When a guy friend speak to YOU first before speaking to anyone else?
Does that mean anything?
If he enters the room...he's saying my name.
If he walks up to the group...he's saying my name.
If he leave the room, I get the goodbyes.
He can't walk past me without saying my name or a name he makes up off my name. Lisa Pisa or Lisa Lisa.
And if we are going to be apart for a long time...like a vacation or long holiday...I get a hug maybe two hugs.

Is that guy friend behavior or is he telling me something?!?!


AND THE REASON IT'S MY BUSINESS...IS I LIKE HIM!

2007-07-28 20:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

From a good man sick and tired of being ignored by all the ladies out there. Tired of being used by a brainless girl.

2007-07-28 20:13:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 20:11:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 20:08:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am from Bangalore. Been working hard and traveling around he globe so i was wondering about this stuff! how does dating happen in Indian cities? I don't go to pubs / disco / etc... then how else does this happen?

2007-07-28 20:08:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 20:07:38 · 6 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3

2007-07-28 20:06:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had a crush on the same guy off and on for 3 years. I know he doesn't like me. I knew he didn't like me before he got a girlfriend and he's been with the girl for a year now. I just can't get him out of my head. I keep wondering about if I had done something differently. How do I get him out of my heart. I know in my head it's never going to happen. So how do I keep from thinking it will.

2007-07-28 19:55:35 · 7 answers · asked by carboncopy 1

I wish S N could understand ENGLISH, apparently he does not understand " no stupid answers". She is not asking for a greencard, she has a a valid education visa good for 6 years.

2007-07-28 19:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by Keith S 2

2007-07-28 19:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 19:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous