From a good man sick and tired of being ignored by all the ladies out there. Tired of being used by a brainless girl.
2007-07-28 20:13:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most women don't realize that the nice guys are the ones they're meant to be with while they're young hence "nice guys finish last". You don't have to necessarily be a jerk to get a girl though
2007-07-28 20:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, i am not brainless but i can fall for the
"bad boy". I have a nice great guy for a boyfriend. One of his friends is a "bad boy" type. It takes practice not to fall for them. I want to fall for him but i just think of my boyfriend of how patient, how he talks to me, how he makes me feel, and i look at his picture and all that he says and does feels real to me.
It is the excitement of how the bad boy talks, what he would do, that we fall for them. I feel all his talking is not real.
The bad boy type, i believe is like he is out there to conquer what someone else has and when he gets it, he leaves it. Of course we think they are just so much more interesting, more daring.
I stayed away from the bad boy and got to know my boyfriend after a long time.
Yes, we don't give you guys a chance to be the bad boy because we don't know that you can become the 'bad boy' that we are secretly admiring!!
That is where communicaton and taking the time to learn about each other comes in. I did not think my new boyfriend would do or say all the things that a bad boy usually say....but i am glad i got to know him and he got to know me and now i do have a bad boy!!!
So when you meet a girl, express yourself, talk, and let her talk and you listen and maybe you can become the bad boy for some girl.
2007-07-29 03:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by ttwobearsplusone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brainless girls think bad boys are exciting / hot...
These girls usually wind up abused , divorced with no future
and a couple of kids to take care of while working two
minimum wage jobs...
It is a waste of good women...
2007-07-29 03:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that trend usually happens in high school and college. But after the girl becomes a woman and reorganizes her priorities such as building a family, then the "bad boys" aren't so attractive anymore.
2007-07-29 03:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by invisib0l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this one is from my blog
It's amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it's not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT'S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they're after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn't want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don't realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don't see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn't THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don't say, "Oh he's hot" or "I want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don't need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the **** end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn't he paying attention to me?" so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, "I've let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass". It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can't turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a "listener" you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn't work like that. The girl wont "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren't looking for nice guys… they say they are but they're not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don't treat you with respect, that don't listen to you, and that don't care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.
2007-07-29 03:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Salvador C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the bad boys are what we go for untill were ready to settle down, when a girl is ready for the one .....they no longer look at bad boys as an option.
2007-07-29 03:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by queenbre6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because usually the good one, are shy .. the bad one not be afraid to step up, also girl like attitude guy over a polite.
2007-07-29 03:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
becuz those kind of girls r bored wiht there own life and want some more adventure. i think girls like that r trulystupid becuz u can find just as much advnture wiht a caring and nice guy.
2007-07-29 03:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by jessicacd91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the way it is. I've seen women get the crap beat out of them. Get rid of that guy. And the next guy beats the crap out of her. There's a saying. All the best ones are married.
2007-07-29 03:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by Old Man 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
really
it isnt really about if a guy is good or bad.
it is personality...
but sometimes it could be bad or good...
some girls hate guys who do drugs or drink or steal mean
and
some girls hate when a guy is senstive nice perfect
I think it is all about PERSONALTY!
I like whats inside!
<333
2007-07-29 03:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋