well i posted a question 'how do you know if a guy really loves you' and got some good answers and well many wanted to know my age. well i 17 and he is 20 and i met his granny and his aunt and i like them and him alot. but now my ex wants me back..........well my ex and i dated for about a year and then he popped the question and i ran away. oh and in our country lots of people get married young.......why do i always attract th 'commited' guys? it sucks really because all i want is a boyfriend. maybe i should move out of south africa! what do you guys think?
2007-07-28 23:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by MISSKINKY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time, don't jump to the first guy that proposes. What does your heart say? Are you in love with the guy that proposed?
If not, I'd wait till the right guy came along, and trust me when I say this, you will definitely know it.
I was engaged to be married to a man I didn't have those crazy, tingling feelings for and when we separated, I felt a sense of relief. That told me right there that I was no longer in love with my ex-fiancee. -I had only been in love with the thought of Marriage. Later I saw and met this very handsome gentleman and I told myself, he is going to be my baby's daddy. I never had feelings like this about a man. God knew I didn't want children, but something struck me about this man. -I knew I would marry this man.
He proposed to me in the second month of dating and I said "YES!!!" -We are still happily married and going strong.
We even have a little addition to the family. -God has truly blessed me.
I wish you the same. -God bless.
2007-08-05 12:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be with a bloke and not have to get married you know. If you still love your ex and want him back, let it be on your grounds. Tell him that you don't want to get married yet and you will only get married when you want to. If you want the other guy, then really you don't need to be asking this question. Follow your gut feeling, whats it tell you? Think carefully before jumping though. Good luck, mate, and i'm sure you will make the right decision.
2007-07-29 06:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by ryles72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, I am not a guy but I could understand u, girl. Don't marry them before u date them first. The perfect bf 4 every girl is that the first time u see em, butterfly's ll start in ur heart. Thats when u know he's the one. Break a leg.
And don't forget to put this question to vote cuz there is alot of great answers. Trust me u don't want to put the wrong best answer. The voters will give the best answer for u. Have a great summer.
2007-08-06 05:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by ErC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is too short just to waste it on the wrong one. Just wait for the perfect time. You dont want to be committed? then tell the guy that you dont want to. ^_^
I think moving out just because of that is a shallow reason
tell him that you are too young and you have plans for yourself and getting married is not part of your plan yet. If that guy really likes you he will respect your decision. It is a good thing that you attract guys like them, it only means that you are a nice woman thats why they want to spend their whole life with you.
But of course as I've said, your too young for that. And I admire you for your disposition in life.
2007-08-06 05:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by ayabrea_09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay where you are, just let these guys know you feel much too young to be in a committed relationship, you are a young woman with too many plans you have yet to even start and marriage is not exactly in those plans.....yet
2007-08-06 05:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is amazing. Some girls die without ever having been proposed to.You have been proposed to twice and you panic. All you have to do is be upfront as to what you want out of a relationship.
Good luck!
2007-08-05 18:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Chulis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i don't blame ou for runnung-lol but whi say you can't have a boyfriend i mean if you don'tlove him(dude who asked the question)then you should go out with him(the other guy)
2007-08-05 21:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by hawii_girl25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one that you like the best! No one can tell you who to be with! You have to make that decision yourself!
2007-08-06 05:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mike G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep tasting the buffet until you find something you want to put on your plate.
2007-08-04 13:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Randy C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing he will find another.
2007-08-06 02:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jam_jelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋