Singles & Dating - 28 July 2007

I wrote the ? "Does my boyfriend just want sex or does he like me" and i got great answers. i have another ?
It seems to me all he wants is sex (thanks to the answers to my other question) but when we went to his house i would try to think of other ideas rather than havin sex. I would say somthin like "lets go to the beach" then beg him for half hour, then when he finally gave in he'll say "well get up so we can go" (cause hed always have me sit on his lap so thats why id have to get up first) and then when id try to get up he'd hold on to me and wouldnt let me get up and id really try to get up too but hes way to strong for me and i cant move. then he'd say something like we have to do "somethin"(sex) before we could go
he does this in a joking way more or less but its kinda scary that he does that, and knowing i cant get away if he really did get mad or was drunk one time if i told him i didnt want to have sex that nite is scary
could his "harmless messing around" turn bad

2007-07-28 05:40:04 · 11 answers · asked by Ash 1

Looking for a few more opinions on this. Just looking for a few more opinions. How has it affected your relationships? Do you find it difficult to communicate with the people in your life that you love the most, and find yourself cutting them out of your life? More specifically, have you had to end a relationship because of it, but couldn't bring yourself to communicate any further with that person even if they were offering support and help?? I've found myself in this situation, and don't know what to do to help him. I'm trying to be a friend to him, but he's not very responsive to me and I don't know if I should leave him be or keep offering support and letting him know I am there so he knows that I haven't abandoned him. I'm just having a hard time trying to figure out his unresponsiveness. He doesn't seem to want anything to do with me

2007-07-28 05:38:09 · 5 answers · asked by dohnnyjepp 3

okay So i really like this guy but i feel im to tight like before when he tried to kiss me i backed out :S
Please tell me how i can become untight :)

We've bin going out a month now

Please help!

2007-07-28 05:33:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 05:31:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

but then he disappeared...with occasional cryptic emails popping up here and there. he does have bipolar (on medicine). How could I be SO wrong about him being into me? His actions showed it... he gushed about it, too. he jst stopped calling me. just like that. Why was I so convinced -- am I a silly girl?

2007-07-28 05:30:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 05:29:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 05:23:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do long distant relationships turn out bad?

2007-07-28 05:07:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 05:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by LovelyDiva09 1

I recently asked if you guys would kill a baby to save a million people, or to save yourself (the scenario doesnt matter; there is no other choice than to kill the baby or let millions die)

Most people said they wouldnt kill the baby, because that would be murder. Wouldnt it be murder to let 1 million people die rather than just 1? Like i said before, Who these people are or why this is happening doesnt matter

2007-07-28 04:58:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so my boyfriend currently lives about 1000 miles away. His birthday is in 4 days. I have no clue what to get him. We have been together for 9 months. I don't think I will be able to mail him anything because I think it will take too long to get there. I do have a webcam. Any ideas would help. PLEASE...

2007-07-28 04:54:25 · 1 answers · asked by Chelsea 3

2007-07-28 04:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by George p 1

if u had no choice but to see the girl u used to love alot(perhaps u'd even consider marrying her) and not loved you back and u already forgot about her but there is somethign that keeps on tickling you when u see her wut do u do !

2007-07-28 03:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by z Z 1

I think I have emotional problems.don have enough self confidence... I'm 21 year old.

2007-07-28 03:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by omid borhani 1

It is bad... my boyfriend has left me...

but you all know this.....
....I love him very much.
Now he is friendly.... but he doesnt want me back.

I am so very sad....

What do you do, to be happy?

2007-07-28 03:37:28 · 20 answers · asked by Indamo 7

2007-07-28 03:35:56 · 7 answers · asked by frogz626 1

me and ma guy we been together only one year . but feel like ages.... so how bout u guys ? jus curious

2007-07-28 03:31:16 · 26 answers · asked by Oshi 3

we lived together for 5 years and it was great for the most part. it did end very bad and i don't know how much to blame on being young. i recently ran into her, invited her over... and she has not left yet. it's been over a week.

2007-07-28 03:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by stone_fish6 2

why is it that boys call our boobs "knockers, or jugs"? i don't understand, is there something wrong with saying "boobs, breast, etc... why? please answer me! i need to find out... and quick!

2007-07-28 03:09:03 · 1 answers · asked by famlychick 1

no jokes please...... attemt this question only if you think you know the answer..........

2007-07-28 03:01:24 · 7 answers · asked by Billa. 2

It started when we go to our province, I see him standing in my relative's house.. first, I thought he is not my cousin but when our clan reunion started.. he really is my cousin. We didn't get close but I'm kinda flirting(slight) with him.. but now, we get closed because of text messaging and we know each other by "text" and previously we are close now.. Next year we will go there again and I will gonna see him again.. I am really excited and nervous.. I really don't know waht I will do and say when he is standing in front of me.. Is my feelings for my cousin right? If not, how should I treat him as cousin only??

2007-07-28 03:00:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 02:53:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 02:39:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girflriend and I both go to college together, we are pretty serious, we have been going out for about a year.

Things are becoming really difficult for us, we are both really sensitive, our feelings are hurt, we are very vulnerable because we cant really be there for each other.

What do we do for the next 4 weeks before she comes back to school? I can tell she is really frustrated with me because im being a bit of a jerk, but its because shes not around and I dont know, i dont even feel like im in a relationship because in a relationship one needs to be there physically and mentally and all that for the other person.

What can I do to make sure that Im there for her, and what can we do so we dont drive each other nuts?

2007-07-28 02:29:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think he smokes pole everyday

2007-07-28 02:06:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who was a christian..

if you didnt beleive in it?

2007-07-28 02:00:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-28 01:43:25 · 8 answers · asked by thiny72 6

2007-07-28 01:38:18 · 2 answers · asked by gunateeth 1

My daughter was what I would call typical in High School. Her Dad and I separated 4 years ago. He refuses to sin the divorce papers. She went to college and lasted 2 weeks before coming home. Hasn't kept a job but helps out around the house. Went to live with her Dad 3 months ago but still is at my house all day and at friends all night. I told her that I wouldn't continue to pay her car insurance(she was supposed to be paying half, not) and that she would have to pay for her own cell phone at he end of this month. She just stares at me when I try to have a conversation with her. I told her I loved her but that it's time that she becomes responsible for things. Her Dad pays for nothing and lets her do whatever she wants, it's not good parenting. I'm frustrated and worried. She's very angry and withdrawing from those around her..What to do????

2007-07-28 01:36:46 · 14 answers · asked by Mary H 2

I had a male friend who had a foot fetish & also liked to tickle people. I hated when he pinned me down to lick my feet or forcefully grabbed my feet & tickled them & wouldn't stop. That was TORTURE! & he also liked anal sex but was afraid of vaginal sex. He made me feel very uncomfortable. Some people told me that they thought he was gay, but he swore up & down he wasn't gay, but he acted feminine & liked football. I wasn't ever able to figure this guy out. Is he just weird or what? & he used to ring my phone off the hook.

2007-07-28 01:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous