okay So i really like this guy but i feel im to tight like before when he tried to kiss me i backed out :S
Please tell me how i can become untight :)
We've bin going out a month now
Please help!
2007-07-28 05:33:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably have a low self-esteem and are afraid of rejection. Ironically, by being uptight, you are setting yourself up for rejection anyway. He wouldn't still be with you if he didn't like you.
2007-07-28 05:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, we need a little background first. How old are you? How old is he? Have you had any hurtful relationships before? Any heartbreaks? Did he come in too fast? Is his hygiene good? What exactly do you mean by uptight?
Come back with these answers; would help us answer you.
2007-07-28 12:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sacrificial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not force yourself into intimacy if you are not ready for it. I appreciate the kind of girl that you are if you continue being like that. Being conservative is not a sin, if it is a self-imposed principle, then go for it. =)
2007-07-28 12:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by rhodamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before kissing, remove all thought from brain, then let nature take its course.
2007-07-28 12:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Greg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could loosen up by smokin' some rocks. Judging by your spelling and screename ( shudders in disgust ), you're either black or a whitey wanting to be black. No I'm not racist I have no problems with blacks in other countries. They act like normal human beings in the UK hell even in African countries.
2007-07-28 12:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Donny Q 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he went to kiss you then he really likes you so you should just let him!!
2007-07-28 12:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by mnm16685 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow. if he cant handle that then kick him to the curb. you are who YOU are.
2007-07-28 12:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋