I think I have emotional problems.don have enough self confidence... I'm 21 year old.
2007-07-28 03:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by omid borhani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make freinds with someone. Marriage to anyone youa re not madly in love with will be a big mistake.
I was the same way at your age. I had been made fun of in high school and people had been so mean to me all throguh the years that when I got out I found myself very self concience , shy, and suspicious of everyone.
It will take time to think of yourself more worthy. It will be experience and time.
2007-07-28 03:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs J 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to set goals for yourself in order to be satisfied. It sounds like your getting bored, and thats just depressing you. I used to have self confidence problems. Mostly because of the people I was around. They couldnt stand me for that, and i couldnt stand that they wouldnt help my insecurity. Just think that your satisfied in your own world. Dont let anyone tell you your not good enough. Everyone is equal. You have to pin point what exactly your insecure about! If i knew what that was, i could help you better. Right now i think you need to set goals for yourself to get you out of this sad faze. And thats all it is....a sad faze. Your not going to be sad forever. Your going threw it, not with being sad. Help yourself! The more independent you are too....the more confident you are with yourself! I hope i helped!
2007-07-28 10:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Psychgrl77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awweee. Make some friends! You can always try to go for yoga classes, that will help your self esteem and make you more confident. You need to start talking to people more and make more friends because you need to talk. You need to realize that people do like you and you are perfect the way you are.
And Id wait until you were done university to get married.
2007-07-28 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by thedumbone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just focusing on what you doing right now, and for the marriage, when you graduate, got a jobs, and you will have a good family, don't worry everything going to be fine!
2007-07-28 10:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Socialize.
2007-07-28 10:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join social groups/societies to help build your confidence and provide you with more opportunities to meet other people.
Don't rush things, take your time and you will find the right people this way.
2007-07-28 10:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by doctorwand 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just wanted to comment on the first answer . LoL. Dude that's just wrong.
you just need to get out and make some friends. Have some fun.
2007-07-28 10:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is find an organization in your university.. find a club that does what you enjoy most,, like a booklovers club or a tourism club.. anything that would help you find friends and socialize more! ok? good luck and hope my answer enlightened you!
2007-07-28 10:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start going out for a date
2007-07-28 10:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? viena ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't dating anyone, how the hell are you going to marry? or are you in some country where they just pawn you out to someone your age? get a friend. get a hobby. get a life!
2007-07-28 10:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋