Do long distant relationships turn out bad?
2007-07-28 05:07:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey hun,
It depends on the conditions and how serious your relationship is. My best and most serious relationship was long distance. For me, as long as he didn't make out or have a sexual relationship with another girl, I was cool. Just make your relationship as open as possible. My boyfriend told me if he grabs another girls boobs or bum. And I would tell him if some guy grabbed my asss at some party. Don't have double standards or you'll screw everything up.
He had many close female friends, and i would let him go out with the 2 that i knew that nothing would happen.
As for me, i had a couple of good guy friends. I know one of them liked me, so i never hung out with him much.
Good luck
xoxox
2007-07-28 05:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Rache 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 16:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age, and how serious you truly are. If this is your first real relationship don't hold your breath. Most people get their heart broke from their first love and it really teaches you a lot. Don't put your whe heart in it if you can only to protect yourself. Learn from the time together. If it grows into something stronger than fantastic! If it starts to fade, let it go...God has a different path for you. It can be hard but it will make you a stronger person and allow yourself to have a standard to what you ACTUALLY want. Not just what comes along. In closing, don't tie yourself down to a guy if you both honestly WANT AND SEE each other together for LIFE. But for real, I don't regret any good or bad love I had. I learned a lot and it led me to my perfect guy today :)
2015-08-16 20:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by amberann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and the first 1.5 years was long distance. He lived in England ans I lived in the U.S. But yes, it depends on your level of commitment and seriousness. My boyfriend and I are still happy together. The long distance was the hardest thing we ever did, but if you can stay loyal and love each other through that, you can make it through almost anything. If I was you, however, I would think long ans hard about if I am willing to sacrifice everything in order to go to wherever they are and so does your partner. Like any relationship, it requires a lot of sacrifice. So just make sure you're ready for a lot of frustration and giving. If you can pull through the times you're apart, it makes being together even more special.
2016-01-15 08:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by tyna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a long distance realtionship can only endure and be strongly united if both partners are commited to fully trust each other with this distance and will never be TEMPTED to cheat. If a story is very strong, temptation will never happen between one of the partners, and so a long distance relationship could survive until both finally unite again.
2015-01-05 04:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Massimo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Love is love and if it's meant to be it will be under no circumstances. I was recently in Phuket for a holiday and I believe my relationship was ruined because of it, because I came back single.. But as I said if it's true love it will work. Just like my boyfriend and I. We worked things out once I got back...
It's only going to work if you's put in the same amount of effort and truly want it to work. Involving trust and loyalty
2016-01-10 14:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe long distance relationships can work out. Don't have doubt in your relationship. There is Skype, phonecalls, letters, emails, Facetime (I'm not sure if you can overseas). Social media overall. Whatever the type of relationship that it may be you stick together and anything is possible. God bless you!
2016-02-04 18:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend lives a forty minute bus journey away and it dosent bother any of us it is working perfect and we both love each other to pieces x it really depend on how strong the feeling are and how serious you want the relationship to be x you also need a lot of trust coz you won't be with that person everyday
2014-08-23 11:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am technically in one now. I lived in PA and he in MI but he travels for work which is how we met. Some months later when it was time for him to go home he told me I should visit. So I did. Then he asked me to move in with him. So I went home and gave my two weeks notice at work. And now I live with him. I have lived here almost two years now. In August it will be. we have an eight month old son together. He still travels for work which is why I say I technically am. He is in MT right now. You just need to trust each other and really love each other. True sometimes they end bad and with cheating. But you don't want to not take this chance. It could work out. You won't know if you don't try.
2015-04-22 16:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on you! If you two love eachother enough then it can turn out to be amazing, but if you don't then things could be alittle tough. You have to decide how much energy and effort ou want to put into it and go from there! Make sure both people are on the same page as to how things are going to work, like are you going to date other people or what not
2016-02-26 16:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kylie Box 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋