It is bad... my boyfriend has left me...
but you all know this.....
....I love him very much.
Now he is friendly.... but he doesnt want me back.
I am so very sad....
What do you do, to be happy?
2007-07-28 03:37:28 · 20 answers · asked by Indamo 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can .. and you should
if you really loved him , you should remember the happy feelings and other things that you've lived those times ..
if you loved him , your love will keep alive in your soul ..your love is your love .. not his .. I mean it is your emotions and feelings , never mind to whom they were given .. as the matter was put to an end ..
the relationship ended .. but love in your soul is still great and alive ..
2007-07-28 03:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by akadmus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal Tobe sad.
It takes time, to get over this.
But you will get over this. You will be batter for it and some day consider it as a lesson learnt.
Here are some trick:
Break it off clean.
Put a distance.
Do not think about it or any thing associated with it.
See a funny movie, comedy, read a joke book.
Go for a walk.
Go to museum,library, use this extra time wisely, learn to enjoy the Little things in life, do things to improve skills.
Enjoy the company of family members.
Finally I have this thing written for people like you, read it and see what you can do.
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General Advice to Young People
By
Minootoo
This is my general advice to all.
You sound very young and if you are under 29, then study hard if in school or college, stay and finish it.
Build a carrier, youth comes but once take full advantage of it. Study hard, play some enjoy friendship, and then at age 29 if still unattached then try the sites like.
yahoo.shadii.com
2007-07-28 10:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think, it could be very worse, you are lucky he is still friendly. It is possible that you love a person and yet you are not in any sort of partnership. I love my best friend, shes a girl, that doesn't mean that I want to sleep with her or that I'm not straight. He might still love you, and you can always find more guys. The trick is to stand tall and keep your chin up, there is ALWAYS a tommorrow, and be happy, because this day will never come again. Look at the brightsides of life, the glass is half full, and most importanly, LIFE GOES ON.
Hope it helped, xoxox, MICHELLE
PS- Boys come and go like seasons
2007-07-28 10:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 1st thing that i would like to mention here is these is not THE END.the world is so wonderful,n y should we waste our time just by thinking these kind of small matters?we can't follow our hearts needs all the time n i will be glad if u understand this.in this atomic world we shouldn't let other people interrupt our mind. WHAT IS SLEEPLESS FAITH?IT'S A BEACON_LIGHT 4 THOSE WHO R SAILING IN THE GOLDEN BOAT TOWARD THE GOLDEN SHORE
2007-07-28 10:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by ASHUVARTHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you go to shopping with your friends or watching movies with your mom or sister.Or go to travel with your family or friends or go to beach for the outings with your friends.Don't think of it when you feel sad and you must be happy because your family and friends were always be there for you and you can feel a relax to spending time with your family and friends and I guess you must be to try move on your relationships with your partner and I'll hope you must be happy and don't be sad and someday you'll be a realized that you are not alone anytime and they always be there for you.
2007-07-28 11:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Clarisse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Some people are happy to be sad. Look at all the people who watch serials, especially the ones that start with K.
2007-07-28 14:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by penjoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide to NOT be a reactor. Seriously... go do something new. IT's summer and there are lots of things you could be doing. Just start a new hobby, take a LONG drive to somewhere you've never been, etc. And one thing very important... don't beat yourself up over this. Guys come and go. Keep working on yourself... you'll be fine!! Be positive! :)
Best of luck
2007-07-28 10:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by mustbekiddin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the melodious song of Geeta Roy Dutt - Babuji dheree chalna, pyar mein zara sambhalna..Ho gayi hai kisi se jo unbun, tham le doosra koi daman, zindagani ki rahen ajab hain, ho akele to lakhon hain dushman. It is as true as it was when sung in l950s.
2007-07-28 11:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by BDG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man! I am a boy and same case with me! Well, I am also very depressed but you know I've learnt that life's nothin without love......but all that love you can also get from your closest friends. You may think that that's rubbish but I also fell in love and it works for every NORMAL person.
2007-07-28 11:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by swarnavo ghosal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life doesnt end in one rejection. Keep moving on and you soon forget about the past.
2007-07-28 11:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by catchjsq.ifyoucan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋