2007-07-28 05:29:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is with you for sex then he don't need to be with you, if your not ready, , its not cool to be with you for just that your better then that, and you don't deserve that,
i hope it works out for you take care :))))
2007-07-28 05:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case then he is using you and you need to get out of the relationship. You deserve to be loved for who you are, and not for sexual reasons. You really should dump him, things aren't going the way they should. Find someone who doesn't care that much about the physical, but is more in love with your personality. Sex, if used in the relationship at all, should be a bonus, not a priority nor an obsession. Hope I helped! Good luck!
2007-07-28 05:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well this is critical...listen to ur heart...do u really love him? or u too think that its just upto sex n nothing more than that ? give it a thought...if u still think that he's going out wid u just 4 sex,i shud say that u better dump him.after all he likes ur body...he likes feeling n touching ur breast,ur waist,ur hands n legs but he doesn seem to feel n sense da soul ,the beautifull mind inside the ur body.n plz question urself that if u turn pregnant while having sex wid him...will he take the responsibility of ur unborn child? if u think da answer is "no", then turn ur back on him and tell him dat u need someone more deserving,more affectionate and someone who can understand u better and someone who can take gud care of u.....gud luck !
2007-07-28 20:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? if your under 25 how far do you really expect the relationship to go? Might as well have fun while your young and save the using and the abusing untill your later in life.
2007-07-28 06:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off....if he is goin out with u only for sex, then ur degrading yourself. u derseve better, someone who will love u for u, not just ur body. my advice would be to look for a guy who cares more about your personality and mind instead of ur chest and behind. that way, u kno he will love u for u first before he can actually love u....good luck!
2007-07-28 05:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by BNizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably doesn't make you feel very good if you think your boyfriend is just going out with you for sex. And there's probably a reason why you feel like that. I suggest that you get out of that relationship. No, relationships aren't always happy, but they shouldn't make you feel like crap either, and thinking that someone only wants you for sex will make you feel like ****. Good luck! Do what will make you happy, and I don't think that staying in that relationship is making you happy.
2007-07-28 05:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Speak 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
The obvious answer is to stop having sex with him and see. You already know what is up, btw. If you want to stop living in denial, stop the sex.
Next time wait for a committed relationship and marriage.
2007-07-28 05:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him that he needs to spend more time together with you alone like going to the movies, park, parties instead of the bedroom.
2007-07-28 05:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex and see how important you are to him. For a man, sex outside of marriage is like having an unpaid prostitute.
2007-07-28 05:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by Suzy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My opinion is that it's OK if you also enjoy copulate action with him. but remember well I want to tell you that don't buy him any expensive present.
If you don't like to copulate with him, you should tell him the true and consider that maybe you will part company with him.
2007-07-28 05:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Eiffel Tower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋