Singles & Dating - 29 July 2007

Knew her for 9 years. She was my highschool crush. Lost contact for a yr or 2...then ran into her at a niteclub n she looked mor beautiful than ever. Was instant flames rekindled for both of us. At the time she was in a r/s that she had bn holding on2 for 2 yrs...but she was getn abused n treated like **** all the time from him n was really not happy. We chatted on msn nearly erry nite...n she came 2 me wit her problems. She soon left that dickhed...n we started seein eachotha alot, within a MONTH we agreed 2 go furtha n bcum an item. Everything was SO gud.. thur was 100% trust, communication, fun, understanding, loyalty n we jus had everythin in common. It's her last yr @ TAFE n i kno it means alot to her to pass. The las time i saw her we wer exchanging words bout the things we luv bout eachother n why...then the week afta she sez "i dnt kno wot has come ova me...i think i jus need time...2 lern bout myself agen. I thort i cud do it" Wil she come bak t me? N is thur nethin i can do?

2007-07-29 23:09:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a very good male friend.We r so perfect together and everyone says so.The problem is he has a girlfriend and they have been dating for almost two years.Once we have talked about our relationship.He said he didn't want to lose me,but he couldn't break up with his GF.We know what other side is thinking about and we say something same at the same time often.And we go out for dinners or walking sometimes.What should I do?

2007-07-29 23:02:59 · 14 answers · asked by Gaea 1

Like how I feel right now. And my girl is miles away. And I'm at work.

2007-07-29 22:53:01 · 13 answers · asked by stfu 2

The girl who is serious and smart, or the girl who is funny and goofy/cheeky.

2007-07-29 22:44:02 · 3 answers · asked by Angel 4

I've been practising over the weekend..how to smile nicely in front of the mirror. I wanted to give a friendly smile to this 'special person' (if we ever make eye contact). I was ready and then I saw my special person today and God I was really nervous, scared, etc. I couldn't do it! Oh no..

Why is it so difficult to do one simple thing?

I feel sad because I have failed. I want to try again tomorrow without getting scared and stuff. Any ideas?

2007-07-29 22:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have some good nice friends, friends that are friendly and humourous. And like to have a good time. Although they sometimes act like animals. Which I mean is a guy always trying to look for girls girls and girls. Most of the time in my life, girls ask me out or for my phone number since high school, and my personality is easy to talk to and understanding. However, I'm not always thrill to go "girl hunting" which are my firend's terms. They always ask me to try to talk to the girls or do something like dance. because I can dance really well, from my friends. But I have a girlfriend who will one day be my wife. Me and my girlfriend love each other with strong trust and heart. But I tell my girlfriend, my firends always try to make me be the opener for them. My friends tell me that talking to girls is not hitting on them, you just acting like a friend. but I see some of my friends in a relationship, still talking to another girl or dancing. Maybe not going far to intercourse, but still.

2007-07-29 22:35:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a difficult situation at the moment. I have been going out with a girl I really like for the past 6 months. We get on really well and we have talked about moving out and are due to go on holiday next month.

The thing is my so called best friend has gone really weird over this. I have known him for ages and before I met my girlfriend we used to go out drinking every weekend however we both got tired of this. He is continually complaining saying I never do anything anymore, even though I make a point of seeing him at least once a week. But recently I have become really fed up with his behaviour, he has gotten a job in Switzerland and I am pleased for him but he now slates me and everybody I know for still living in their home town and having s**t jobs. Yesterday he asked me to do something but I was having a family meal to which he again said I never do anything anymore even though I saw him last Friday. Not sure what to do, as he is testing my patience, my girlfriend

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says he is being childish. My parents say he is jealous and my sisters think he is not being a very good friend and to ignore him. Whilst I value all of their opinions part of me doesn't want to lose contact with him but another part of me thinks I may be better off without him but feel guilty for thinking this. Any advice?

2007-07-29 22:31:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 26 years old and he is 19 years old. He works at the same place I work . I was told he likes by one my friends that works with me. He also told her that he is afraid to ask me out on a date.

2007-07-29 22:29:52 · 14 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1

I hate the stereotype that men only think about and want sex.I think I could go forever if I dont ever find anyone. I am almost 19 and never kissed a girl or had sex or any of that. I just dont think the right girl is out there for me. I need an athletic girl(cuz I am really really athletic and one who love boxing like I do, I dont think I am that picky) Also why is there a big stereotype about men only wanting sex and all that, I have never had sex and want a relationship not just sex. I dont get why most people hold that stereotype to be true. When I already prove and alot of guys prove it is untrue. I might never find the one that is right for me thats fine, I will just keep looking until then I wont be kissing or having sex with any girls.

2007-07-29 22:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1

Ok, i like a girl. I met her through my friend, hes fine with it, but my ex is one of her good friends, what should i do? HELP!!!

2007-07-29 21:59:16 · 16 answers · asked by peter_griffin3000 2

i want to love him, but i cant love him.

the first answer, YES or NO will tell me what I should do.

You will shape my future, with your answer.

Im going with fate. I dont know you, you dont know me. Just whatever you feel, say it: Yes or No.

Thankyou.

2007-07-29 21:47:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this amazing guy named Luke and he is 2 years younger then me but I have problem because I am head over heels for someone else. I mean I like Luke and all but I just don't if he's is the to help me get over this other guy. Any suggestions?? And yes I would like to be Luke's girlfriend but I also don't want to hurt him. What should I do??

2007-07-29 21:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends brother jake think i'm "his girl" so he tries to put his arm around me or kiss my cheek.I told my crush Todd that i didn't like Jake doing that to me and Todd asked why i wouldnt want to kiss Jake and i told Todd that i think he's self centered and i don't find him attractive.Then Todd told me that nobody likes him (but i like him,but he doesn't know).I'm wondering why he would want to know why i wouldn't want Jake to kiss me or put his arm around me,possibly Todd wants to kiss me or put his arm around me but he wants to know why i wouldnt let a guy like Jake do that?Or maybe he was just curious..Then 5 minutes later he brought up about how my cousin Richelle told Todd that i wanted to make out with him (why would he bring that up?)

2007-07-29 21:32:10 · 1 answers · asked by Brenda 1

ok i have this guy friend and he is hot and i love him but he loves another gurl and its like i feel safe around him and i can tell him anything what do i do...

2007-07-29 21:31:57 · 14 answers · asked by Rebel 16 1

its been happenin ever since she saw me. she doesnt care about me goin around with her daughter but she wants me badly.

2007-07-29 21:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by dude f 1

2007-07-29 21:19:58 · 1 answers · asked by zakeya ? 1

2007-07-29 21:02:30 · 6 answers · asked by ladyjinx63 2

Okay well its my boyfriends birthday in august, and hes turning 13. and we've been dating almost 6 months. so i want some ideas for a great gifttt...

2007-07-29 20:51:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa C 2

I just started dating this girl (aprox. 3 weeks) and it is her birthday. I feel it too soon to "go all out" as it were, however I should do something.

Here are some stats:
She is an art major and eventually wants to be an art therapist. Comes from an affluent family but is not materialistic. 21 yrs of age. Short and petite. Kind of silly (okay can be really silly).

Any help you can give me would be great!

2007-07-29 20:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by msuetonius 2

2007-07-29 20:44:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 20:41:41 · 10 answers · asked by sexycinderella 3

ok i really like my girlfriend and i think i love her BUT there are a few thigns about her that i just cant get over certain things from her past.(like for example she had sex with her ex and thid bothers me because i am a virgin and when we first started dating she told me she was too.)so ive been talking to a few people and i've been told that if i cant get over sucjh stupid things then i probably dont really love her. does this make any sense?

2007-07-29 20:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I liked a guy who I met at the begining of the year we noticed each other then started to to talk with one another he was soo sweet and we became best friends. During Social studys we would fool around like talk, make jokes and sometimes just stare in each others eye 4 some time (don't worry we did our work). One day in math i droped my pencial and i rolled over to his seat (what a cowincidink) and he laguhed and so did i so he thew the pencial to me playfully and we both laughed about it. Later on this girl (who iz on of the popu. pepz and my friend who didn't know i liked him) asked him out and he said ok. Now they broke up and i feel i' still so much in love with him he makes me feel safe.
Should I ask him out and how should I HELP!!

2007-07-29 20:34:08 · 6 answers · asked by ^___^ 4

2007-07-29 20:33:50 · 1 answers · asked by X 3

ok so when i lose weight people notice. obviously. but 2 people so far have commented on my "weightloss" but i have GAINED weight this summer!!! i don't get it!!!

is this a mind trick??? are they blind??? what?!

2007-07-29 20:30:59 · 1 answers · asked by dancing_angled_angel 2

I can't seem to have a real realtionship. I have too many mood swings. People say I am ugly and I even say it but I know that I am really kind of pretty. I don't know what to do. I need dating advice too. Plz HELP ME!

2007-07-29 20:29:22 · 13 answers · asked by hisbabygirl95 2

I love to buy sexy lingerie for my girl friend. I've about exhausted the sources I'm familiar with. Where do you buy your sexiest, fun lingerie or where do you buy it for your SO?

P.S. She's not plus size or any of that. She has a fabulous body.

2007-07-29 20:28:34 · 1 answers · asked by Net Rider 3

And for how long of a duration?
What do you do when you see them?
and How long have u been in the relationship with them ? (please also state your age and theirs).
I ask because my long distance bf just moved to where i live a month ago and we have been seeing eachother literally every day for hours a day. and i wonder if thats overkill? i am 22 and he is 26. also, i am running out of things to do with him. what are some couple things to do out on the town?

2007-07-29 20:26:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 20:24:32 · 1 answers · asked by pojita 1

hi i am 15 years old and it seems like all my friends have boyfriends and i'm the only one who doesnt! i'm in highschool and i feel left out am i ugly? i dont know maybe something is wrong with me? i'm asian/filipino i'm about 5'6 i have medium lenght dark brown hair with side bangs i'm sort of tan i'm not that skinny but not that fat either i dont have the biggest boobs but i do have a butt i feel really sad i think ppl find me unattractive or something but it kind of bothers me wat do u think is wrong with me and do i seem ugly or is it maybe because of my personality???

2007-07-29 20:24:16 · 18 answers · asked by SMILE! :D 1