hi i am 15 years old and it seems like all my friends have boyfriends and i'm the only one who doesnt! i'm in highschool and i feel left out am i ugly? i dont know maybe something is wrong with me? i'm asian/filipino i'm about 5'6 i have medium lenght dark brown hair with side bangs i'm sort of tan i'm not that skinny but not that fat either i dont have the biggest boobs but i do have a butt i feel really sad i think ppl find me unattractive or something but it kind of bothers me wat do u think is wrong with me and do i seem ugly or is it maybe because of my personality???
2007-07-29 20:24:16 · 18 answers · asked by SMILE! :D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just haven't found the right person for you. Don't worry about it. It's very normal. There is nothing wrong with you.
2007-07-29 20:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Gornographic Headache Machine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never had a real bf in high school either, so I know that feeling very well. Trust me hun it's nothing to do with your looks. Ordinarily I'd say chill out and let it happen, or you'll start sending out desperado vibes which is a real romance killer, but if you really really want a bf try this - look at your behaviour. Are you open to talking to guys? Are you shy? Are you always with your friends? You have to send out a 'receptive' vibe for guys to want to risk making a move on you.
Don't worry about it if you are shy, wait until you're older. I'm not saying you'll grow out of it, but the guys will be more mature and start noticing the shy ones.
2007-07-29 20:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not ugly. Just take your time, as you mature into your body and your mind and personality you will become more attractive to other people. I would not worry about it when you are a teenager. Just keep meeting new people, make new friends and try to find guys that have similar interests to you. I am sure you will meet the right man when the time is right. I would not worry about dating or relationships until you are in college. Take time to get to know yourself right now, without worrying about taking care of someone else right now.
2007-07-29 20:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by sensei ronald j.f. panlilio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look guys are guys they'll come around. It's tough when your a little bigger, big boned I should say. Guys usually like the skinny, flaky girls at that age. Don't worry just have a positive self image, work on your grammar a bit too while your at it, and you'll have a guy in no time. Best of luck.
2007-07-29 20:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Indira B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's that you're insecure and you just think and talk all the time about how you look. Be confidant and radiate that, and people will want to be around you. Read the book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" to know how to be with other people. And, all those girls with bf's may not be all that happy, they may just feel peer pressure to have a bf. It's too soon to settle down with just one person.
2007-07-29 20:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young! You have a whole future before you to date guys! Personality matters so much more than looks. We are all going to age and get wrinkles but one thing that stands the test of time is your personality. Just be the way you are, and don't let what others say about you affect you. You are unique and special!
2007-07-29 20:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Miss C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first let me tell you something there is nothing wrong with you, build up your confidence cause people can see that, second let the person find you , so what they got boyfriends you dont want to end up pregnant by the 12 grade, trust me i was just like you and i wish i can go back in time to change things cause all i got was a broken heart through out high school and nosy people all up in my relationships, so dont rush things trust me
2007-07-29 20:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by diamond_gold22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girll ... i think you need to have a little more self estem . dont be worring about wether not ur as pretty as the other girls at school . or if something is wrong witih you. to me you sound pretty and im filapino too ... and were pretty cute dont you think! but the more happy you are witih your self the more other people will be attracted to you!!! ... and your 15 dont worrie about wether you have a boyfriend or not just have fun! and be with your girls go hang out places and hey if a guy comes along go for it .. but dont worrie about a boy .. ugh im 16 and been going out with my man for a year and belive me soemtimes its not always great!
2007-07-29 20:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Star_Dust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wrry nothing is wrong with you, ur time and right guy just hasnt come by yet so its nothing to stress about (: dnt lower ur self esteem just becuz u dnt have a bf..i know its wierd at times wen all ur friends have boyfriends and u dnt but if u stop thinking about it too much it won't bother you as much and u can focus ur attention to guys and get to know them better, instead of thinking ur abnormal for being single (: best of luck! im shur you'll find ur right guy soon (:
2007-07-29 20:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by jEsSnIcKeR`S ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you just want to jump on the boat with your other friends. You should be enjoying high school, not worrying about whether you're ugly or not. All that crap comes after college. Trust me.
2007-07-29 20:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋