Singles & Dating - 29 July 2007

I need to know how to get my girlfriend (who i think is going to break up with me soon) to like me more so that she doesn't wanna break up with me. Please help!

2007-07-29 20:15:42 · 11 answers · asked by Jake 2

I met this women this summer, then I had to go back home and get ready for college. when I first left and got back home, we talked a lot. now she's given me her e-mail and myspace address, I even send text messages she used to answer but lately, I've got nothing back. I've e-mailed and got on her myspace page, still nothing. evertime I call her we talk and a minute later she is putting me on hold what is going on? I'm about too just yell at her or something I think she met another man? but I don't wanna jump the gun!!

2007-07-29 20:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think that people choose there friends as best answer .cause ive notice that they'll choose someone that has the same answer as mine even though ive answerd first.
HAVE YOU NOTICED THIS TOO?

2007-07-29 20:05:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have vitiligo and im curious if guys would be grossed out by it (its not contagious) BE HONEST PLEASE!

2007-07-29 20:03:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months.

He cheated on me once while he was drunk, but I loved him enough to forgive him. But then he started doing drugs, and it always seemed like drugs and his drug addict friends came before me, and I hardly ever got to see him.

He promised me that he'd quit doing the drugs, but he never even showed any sign of slowing down. I still love him so much, but I just don't know what to make of him anymore.

Now he's extremely depressed, and I'm afraid that he might become suicidal if I don't take him back. He told me he'd quit, but that's what he said when I threatened to break up with him a while ago.

I don't know what to do. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

2007-07-29 20:00:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes 21 im 14 we ahve been friends BEST friends for the longest time now...we always hung out going fishing and stuff...then he started coming over and going swiming...ok we fell in love...its obvious. and well first mom n dad didnt ever care...we hung out all the time it was all good...well now mom dosent want him coming over, my older sister went through my txts and found the details...so mom thinks she knows were in love...well we started getting physical...sneakingout to the lake and making out for HOURS at a time and just laying there all night long. i love this man to death, he is still a virgin and i dont think sex is anything in our near future...at the same time i feel bad like this all has to stop and i need guys my own age, but i dont know what to do...its like i want to stop but i dont want to lose the friendship and i do love him he has always been here for me...HELLLLLLLP and please dont just chew me out about it

2007-07-29 19:56:32 · 5 answers · asked by Mel051293 2

please only girls. My wife and I are separated due, there are some complicated issues difficult to explain, but although we love each other we can't be together, I think soon she'll ask me for divorce. Right now, we're living in different cities and recently we saw each other and I took her and her family on a quick vacation. The thing is I've been feeling very lonely and really need to be with someone. I don't mean sexually (although it's really difficult being lonely in that way too), but mostly I need someone I can share things, go to the movies and to eat out, talk and have fun.

The other day I was in a mall, and I saw this beautiful girl, she kind of stared at me a little. And I felt the impulse to talk to her and maybe after get to the point to ask her out, nothing specific really, the thing is I've been thinking about her, and today I almost went to that mall. I probably wounld't have talked to her. I would like to know women's thoughts on this? Is it so bad I feel like this?

2007-07-29 19:45:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

talking and joking with you, treating you out to lunch or buy you things, etc. Just treat you like his girlfriend. How would you react to him and how should you treat these types of men? Would you like the attention and fall for him and believe him ? What would you say or do everytime he flirts with you? How do you prevent yourself from getting hurt from him?

2007-07-29 19:44:37 · 15 answers · asked by . 1

For some reason everytime I have sex i'm extremly sore for at least three days. I had sex two days in a row and it was awful b/c I was sore from the previous night. Am I doing something wrong? Why am I getting hurt while having sex?

2007-07-29 19:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 19:40:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey, i just got into a relaionship with this guy whos a few years older than me. hes 25 and hes in the band playing bass. i....dont think im ready to have sex yet and he respects that. but i think its unfair to him. what else can i do to make him happy?

2007-07-29 19:36:32 · 13 answers · asked by xSELENEx 2

basically this guy is married. we were in love. he tried to hook up w/ me as an extramarital affair. i got mad and threatend to tell his wife in an email. i sent another email with the link to the public record from the county assessor's office saying " Look how easy that was to find your address" ( I know a bit scary/psycho towards him). Anywyas i still want to maintain a friendhsip. would i be too much of a weak coward if i was to write and apologize and tell him i want to be his friend still?

2007-07-29 19:20:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls seem to always play head games and try to run me around in a circle.
When I don't know them, they usualy say something like, "Hey. My friend likes you."
Is that another trick? a conversation starter? or is it usualy just the truth?

It never realy bothered me before, but I went to the Simpsons movie with one of my older cousins and in the parking lot someone was calling "The guy in the brown jacket! My friend thinks your hot! Heeyyy!!"
Then I realized how often people say that....

2007-07-29 19:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Unsichtbar_Brennt 2

we've been going out for maybe 2 months now? and lately it seems like he doesn't really want to talk... like on msn he'll say like one letter words like: tired, lol, okay,etc. and when i txt him he won't reply...
whats happening to us?

2007-07-29 19:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 19:14:53 · 7 answers · asked by simply wanting to teach 2

I'm in love with a boy. Point blank, I'm in love. It's a weird feeling, but I know it's real. My only thing is, I can't justify it. He's always asking me how I know, how I can be sure that he's not like my last boyfriend. And that's my problem. How the hell do I explain all my feelings? I try, and everytime I do it's like words are caught in my throat. I'll literally sit there, and open my mouth like I should be saying something.

But nothing comes out. And it gets me down. Because I don't want him to think I'm lying about my feelings in any way. I know I'm not. Emotional movie cliches aside, I can feel it in my heart. I've tried to explain that I suck at putting it all into words, but I don't think he gets it.

2007-07-29 18:58:00 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy 2

I make good money at a job making about 4000 to 5000 a month and the economy now is unstable and i think money will be harder to come by in the future.....love cost money and so does a marriage that is stable without financial hardships....should i put love first or money first....cause love is hard to come by sometimes too but it seems people will be desperate for money in the future cause wages will decline and people need money to make it through....seems times are getting tough and you have to make the right decision for yourself cause i think any man can get any woman at any given time

2007-07-29 18:54:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean if a guy keep on begging you to come back on him then suddenly you'll get a news that he already have a new girlfriend?...does it mean that he already forgot me and don't love me anymore???

2007-07-29 18:50:29 · 4 answers · asked by h 1

How much older or younger would you go?
For me...I'm 20...I would go 8 years older and 2 years younger.

2007-07-29 18:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

A long term friendship with one of my best friends is finally developing into something more. We talk constantly, spend so much time together, with friends, our families..he talks about our future and how much he cares for me....but he still won't touch me! I don't even mean sexually, I mean at all. He says he's attracted - he looks at me as though he's attracted - but he won't cross the line. I'll reach out for his hand, and within minutes he finds some reason to drop mine. He hugs me like a china doll. He has yet to kiss me since we've deepened our relationship despite numerous opportunities. I am a very affectionate person, crave even the most casual of touches. I'm starting to feel rejected, but when I discuss it with him, he simply says that he's wanting to take it slow. We've taken it slow for eight years now, how do I make him see how much I want to be close to him? Are we doomed already?

2007-07-29 18:44:05 · 1 answers · asked by Alexis P 1

is it hard for u guys to go slow when u have sex

2007-07-29 18:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by jessicacd91 2

I am developing a crush on this guy and it is freaking me out a little because I dont know him very well. I mean, I realize it is normal but I dont want my emotions to get the upper hand. How can I calm and control myself?
Thanks!

2007-07-29 18:41:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy at work that has been trying to talk to me. He asked to use my cell phone. This Other Guy that I used to like and talked to for awhile was there too. Other Guy and I used to be really close but now we are not talking anymore because he has been really disrespectful. So guy #2 askes for my cell, makes a call, leaves the number in my phone. The next day he asks me why I didn't call him b/c the number he dialed was actually his. I asked him why he didnt just give me his number he said that too many people were around. I told him no one was around but me and my friend, and he mentioned that Other Guy was around too. I told him that I didnt care about Other Guy being there. He said that he knew me and Other Guy used to be close so he didn't want to ask me in front of him. I asked how did he know this he said that he had asked Other Guy about me and Other Guy told him that we used to talk but we don't anymore. Why did Guy 2 ask O.G. about me at all? What does this all mean

2007-07-29 18:35:17 · 6 answers · asked by klf_the_aquarius80 2

How many dates(3,4,5?) does it take before you can have "the talk" or how many weeks of knowing each other?

2007-07-29 18:33:33 · 9 answers · asked by PAboy05 1

2007-07-29 18:29:50 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

So I have been with this girl for 1 month and it has been very rocky, we are always fighting and then two days later we are good and we make up. she is a bit of an acholic and has 2 dui's and has not drivin a car in 4 years, also her brother died 2 years ago and she is very emotionaly distant from me and has trobule talking about her feelings. she blames her brothers death on her self. On the plus side she is atractive and has a great senive humor at times and we get along great when all is going well. We got in a big agument and didn't talk for 2 days she called me and apoligized, the next day she called and told me she is pregnate. I went to her house to comfort her and talk to her, she realy didn't seem that upset and she told me she wants to get an abortion and told me she has had one in the past (when she was 22, she is now 27, I am 24) The problem is I want her to keep it and don't know how to tell her or what to say to convince her. I love kids and feel i would be a great father

2007-07-29 18:28:40 · 19 answers · asked by jess m 1

I'm beginning to wonder if my boyfriend is bipolar or something. He can be happy at the start of the night, and be telling me he loves me and trying to hold me, then out of nowhere he turns into a jerk. He'll push me away when I go to kiss him, say ok If I tell him I love him, ignore my questions, and basically act like he would rather be anywhere else. But then he'll go back to being the sweet boyfriend I love a few days later! I'm just confused about what to do. Its getting very hard to deal with an unpredicatable boyfriend- I never know whether I will thrill him or make him furious just by touching him. Its almost embarassing, he has gotten on to me in public for holding his hand. Also, I feel so deprived of affection. He only wants to kiss and hold me when he wants more, and never asks what I want or anything. I'm just very worn out, and tired of discussing it with him (all he says is thats just who he is)

could it possibly be me? Is he just tired of something I'm doing maybe?

2007-07-29 18:26:25 · 8 answers · asked by laura 1

I was just wonted to know.

2007-07-29 18:23:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

a lot of people have told me that they had sex around 14-20. but does having sex in ur teen years damage u mentally? cause i dunno about other ppl but my hormone levels r hella high rite now and im getting more sensitive to guys. i find myself really desiring this one guy whos 10 years older than me. so all im asking is wat the consequences for having sex rite now are. (besides pregnancy and diease and stuff) is there any downside mentally?

2007-07-29 18:22:39 · 8 answers · asked by xSELENEx 2

I told this guy like a week ago that I liked him cause I did and I was pretty sure he liked me. I was right and we've been talking for about a week, but haven't hung out yet and he hasn't asked me out yet or anything. I feel like he's moving too fast and he's like saying things that I'm not ready for yet. but I don't want to tell him! do you think if I ignore him he'll get it or should I tell him? what should I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings

2007-07-29 18:22:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous