Singles & Dating - 29 July 2007

I'm 23 and still a virgin. I refrained from sex because i believe/d that i'll meet my "dream woman" and lose it to her (also being a virgin), basically, to one i would one day marry. But its all looking bleek at the moment and i have doubts that i'll never ever get to find that one person. (as people keep saying "you'll find her, just wait"). Well i just think thats craap now.

Its not that i haven't had any opportunities to lose my virginity, i've had plenty, but turned it down everytime (be with random people, or friends). But i'm getting to know this one person well, and she's a nice person, but i dont see any future with her (as we're both from different castes etc, basically, it'll never work in the long run). Should i take the opportunity now? i really want to but my mind always stops me. i dont want to be in the situation where i'm 32 or so and i cant even "get with" anyone anymore because of my age, and still have my viginity.

mature posts only. no stupidity please.

2007-07-29 03:20:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 14, but turning 15 in about a week. A sophmore in high school.

2007-07-29 03:19:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not long ago I asked what a guy met when he told me he'd father my son, he ended up telling me he loved me for a year and we're dating..

Thing is, how do you know if someone is your soul mate?
When I first saw him again after a few months of not seeing him, my heart sunk and I knew I wanted to be with him, I guess I could say I loved him. But now that we're together, I find myself wanting to push away, for any reason. But This time, I can't. It's odd

My son's dad, abused me for 4 years, I've broken away and it's taking me, 2 years to heal,

Also is my feelings telling me that he isn't right for me?
Or could he be and it scares me cause of what happened to me?

I love him, and he's great to me and Caleb, better then anything I've had, but still.. It's hard..

2007-07-29 03:14:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've gone out with this person a few times. They're quick witted, intelligent & personable - not to mention handsome. Definitely not the GQ model type; however in my eyes they are perfect. Due to our professions & life experiences we are both jaded. He has a small spotlight in the public eye & therefore has shared with me that most of the interest he receives has something to do with his status rather than his off screen person. My interest is sincere yet I'm not quite sure how I prove it. As a side note & I know that this SHOULD NOT matter; however I will just say that while we work together, we are in separate departments & I have more earning potential than he. I say this to avoid any comments regarding me being after monetary things. I just want to get closer to this incredible man & hope that perhaps 2 jaded singles could create a safe relationship together.

2007-07-29 02:52:47 · 6 answers · asked by 343 Remember 3

I bought her a diamond necklace a year ago, she said that she lost it but she went to the doctor last week and he found the necklace embedded in her neck under her skin. I can't take this anymore.

2007-07-29 02:46:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 02:42:03 · 21 answers · asked by danny g 1

so if you check my previous questions, there was a guy that i was going to ask out and i did. we went to see a movie, and i think he was a little shy, or confused to why i asked him, since his friends were making fun of him on the last day of school and would go back and forth asking us questions. they would come up to me, and ask, "was he flirting with you, were you flirting with him?" and i said maybe, maybe not. i was gonna clear stuff up with him, but the end of school was only an hour because they had to make up time for a bunch of snowdays. i don't know what to do!!!

2007-07-29 02:33:36 · 8 answers · asked by skigrrrrl 3

Last night I was supposed to go dancing with some people but (last minute) friends cancelled and I ended up with ony 1 girl friend and 2 guys from work. On an empty stomach I stupidly got drunk too quickly. THEN my friend started "going at it" with one of the guys. The other took this as his cue to kiss my neck and try to do stuff with me. Mind you, I've drank a little too much so I didn't exactly stop it 100% at first. However he kept trying to do more and more. He tried to touch me and have sex with me but I pulled away and wouldn't let it happen. He managed to touch me a few times got inside, but in seconds I pushed him out. I told the guy I had a boyfriend and that I can't. He listened. Then my boyfriend started calling and I panicked and didn't pick up. He left messages nervous about where I was. At this point i left the house and told the guys to take me home. Telling my boyfriend would DESTROY our relationship even though I stopped things from happening. What to do?

2007-07-29 02:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by lalalady 3

This was Wednesday, he fessed up last night. He said I was right, she was inexperienced and get this "too fat anyway".

2007-07-29 02:10:24 · 1 answers · asked by Girly Girl 1

what does it mean when a guy thats a stranger to you acts normal around other girls.he doesnt talk much. when you go near him or when he sees you coming he acts all weird and looks down gets real quiet or darts across the room....we dont talk to each other cause were strangers but we did say hi once or twice ages ago.. i feel awkward around him,,,his friends are looking when i go past and have that look on their face..i ran into him the other day and i just looked away cause i felt uncomfertable,he turned his back...weird..what have i done to this hottie to scare him like that?

and how do i stop being akward around him>what do i do..

2007-07-29 02:02:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were going to go out tonight, and she bought a dress for the occasion.
We were just ready to go in the car when she asked;
'Do i look Fat in this?'

... I gave her my honest opinion about how she looked in the dress, she's not fat at all, quite skinny (size 10 i think). It was just how the creases on the dress looked on her body.
Any who. She Flipped. Wham... and then all of a sudden she's chucking a tantrum, bringing up things that i've done wrong in our relationship and she kinda hit me.
It was the wrong decision, saying my honest opinion.
Questions;
Should I have lied instead of telling the truth?
How to get me in her good books?

2007-07-29 01:56:39 · 24 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3

What topics can you talk about in a date online?
I'm 14 by the way.

2007-07-29 01:42:07 · 17 answers · asked by Lily R 6

I know, a little manners goes a long way. I say my pleases and thank yous.

Its just etiquettes. You see, I am a firm believe of well, expressing one self if needed. And well, when you get into a relationship all the packaging of the initial dates will start to corrode and the BURPS, FARTS, BAD EATING HABITS appear.

Just for the blokes, what sort of standard should a girl aim for with dining etiquettes. Do you expect top notch performances? Or a girl who's... more down to earth (but still has her pleases and thanks yous)

2007-07-29 00:53:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think what ever they did to the poor defenseless animal(s) done to them! or shot! Makes me sick...

2007-07-29 00:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i said the following words to the man i love:
*if i walk out of this club now, you will not ever see me again!*

what do you think. any chance we will ever be together-? story is, we dated more than for one year. had lots of fun. laughed, talked, appreciated each other. he liked me. love i don't know. falling in love yes :) he asked to move in with him! and he could change his ways for me... wow. but circumstances for a real relationship were on both sides bad. plus he has got lots lots lots of girls. he is a player. a guy dating lots of girls at same time. so i found out. i think that he did love me. but not enough to stop his ways. he intentionally made me jealous. kissed a girl in front of me. kissing me.. walking over to her and kissing her.. i kept cool until i exploded and my heart froze. i walked over and told him what a jerk he is and that it is over finally. he said nothing. just tried to hold me

what are the chances?

2007-07-29 00:20:03 · 9 answers · asked by india18 2

i feel ugly cuz i have neva had a boyfriend before. i am 17 and neva kissed a boy or even gone out with one. i feel very unpretty and no worthy of anyone. im going to college after the summer and i am usually shy around boys..how can i change my perpective of maybe going out with one??

2007-07-29 00:16:49 · 19 answers · asked by exotic 2

okay so i really like this guy. we hooked up a long time ago. and we are friends now. he has a girlfriend and all. so he starts making out with her in front of me then goes "are you lonley?" that really ticked me off. and that makes me feel like his girlfriend is going out with my ex but is just the rebound girl. he looks at me like im the most speacial person in his world and i love that about him? his girlfriend is having a B-day party and she invited me but dont think i should go what do you think about the type of guy he is and me going to the party?

2007-07-29 00:10:58 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy 1

He is the army in ASIA (nothing to do with Iraq or th US service) he knows I love him and he left on his IM ID welcome to my world and crazy in love..but he doesn't talk. He clammed up. When I found him already he was already in the army. I know him 5 years and i told him I had been in love with him for 5 years. But he is not an American and is shy. Every week I send him a care package but he doesn;t have much vacation time and I haven't had the chance to see him yet. He ill leave his cell phone on to get my text messages I told him I wanted to share all my dreams with him. I even am taking classes to learn how to cook the food so someday I can cook for him but right now I don't kno what he is thinking I know he cares about me because he told me he could never get angry at me. Now i just text him to tell him how much I miss him and love him. I just want to be with him!

2007-07-29 00:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous