i said the following words to the man i love:
*if i walk out of this club now, you will not ever see me again!*
what do you think. any chance we will ever be together-? story is, we dated more than for one year. had lots of fun. laughed, talked, appreciated each other. he liked me. love i don't know. falling in love yes :) he asked to move in with him! and he could change his ways for me... wow. but circumstances for a real relationship were on both sides bad. plus he has got lots lots lots of girls. he is a player. a guy dating lots of girls at same time. so i found out. i think that he did love me. but not enough to stop his ways. he intentionally made me jealous. kissed a girl in front of me. kissing me.. walking over to her and kissing her.. i kept cool until i exploded and my heart froze. i walked over and told him what a jerk he is and that it is over finally. he said nothing. just tried to hold me
what are the chances?
2007-07-29 00:20:03 · 9 answers · asked by india18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look up "JERK" in the dictionary, and you'll see his picture.
Look up "BACKBONE", and if you don't see your picture, get one. Hold your ground.
You are much better off without someone like that.
The Rat
2007-07-29 00:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a player - and you want exclusive access to him - i`m afraid you need to move on.
Otherwise you will either get hurt, again and again - or end up as "one of the ladies" - with nothing special attached to it.
Yes, he is a jerk. If you are with a lady on a date, you DO NOT kiss other ladies, especially in front of your date - unless you want to give a clear signal "i am no longer interested in you".
Accept the loss, mourn a bit, then move on.
2007-07-29 07:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very unfortunate. I know a year is a long time, but you do not want a player for a boyfriend, most definitely. I am fairly certain that if you give him another chance he will do it again, but cannot be certain. Just go with what your heart tells you on this one, no one else can answer this for you.
2007-07-29 07:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got phone?
Say the following words to the man you love, "I've changed my mind. Come round to my flat and we'll spend a night of searing passion in each other's arms."
Works every time for me.
Accept that he has occasional affaires. You come first, obviously, but let him have his girlfriends. It's his nature and you won't change it. It's best not to treat affaires as a big deal.
2007-07-29 07:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And just why would you want this jerk in your life? If you want a man to change before you move in with him, you just lost the ballgame!
2007-07-29 07:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? how old are you? of course this isn't a recipe for a successful r'ship and i'm betting any damn 10 year old would even know that!!!
2007-07-29 07:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-07-29 07:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time ? Do you have any self respect at all ?
2007-07-29 07:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
zip, zilch, nada.
2007-07-29 07:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by freespirit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋