Singles & Dating - 29 July 2007

im talking to this hot white guy who is into the d&s lifstyle(dominance &submission).
he says he loves to be controlled and told what to do and that he loves taking orders and he need a girlfriend who he can worship.
he told me that his last girlfriend was his ruler but she begin to get abusive(slapping,punching e.t.c)
he told me that his last girlfriend ordered him to sleep on a hard floor with no sheet...and like the OBEDIENT submissive guy he is he did it.he loves to be at a woman's beck and call 24/7/365.i asked him just to test him...i said to him ..."if i called u at 3 am asking u 2 drive up to ohio from new jersey to see me would you do it and he said yeah cause he love to be obedient.i dont live in ohio though i just ask him that to see what he say.
now this sounds like fun to get involved in something like this but at the same time im not used to being controlling but i wanted to try it....what u guys think...should i try it.....you only live once?

2007-07-29 08:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been "friends with benefits" with this guy for over two months now. But it's been a while since the last time we hooked up, and I saw him on a party. Most of the night we ignored each other, but I wanted to end up with him so badly that I asked my friend to talk to him. She told him that I wanna hook up again, no emotions involved and no strings attached...of course, she told him how I told her that he was awesome in bed. everything went great cuz he made plans for us to meet and hook up next saturday. but I didn't know that cuz I went up to him before talking to my friend. While we were talking,I was standing so close to him, I was a bit drunk, and I just couldn't resist and I kissed him. then I went home, and my friend said that he was a bit angry and said "you women are all the same"... so now I have no idea what to do...it's not like I'm in love or anything, but I just want to have sex with him so much and now I'm afraid that I've ruined everything...please help. any advice?

2007-07-29 08:34:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you find yourself looking at more physically fit people?
do you not mind a little extra?

Please no answers about personality...I know that is important but I think we look at people before we ever learn their personality.

2007-07-29 08:34:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I've been on and off with this guy for a little over 2 years. We got in a huge arguement and didn't talk for almost a month. About a week ago we hung out with some of his friends and one of mine. At the end of the night when I got home he sent me a text that said "It was nice seeing you tonight." The next day he called me to hang out again I'm guessing... but I was busy and I called him back later to say I was gonna be gone for 4 days in Indianapolis for tennis. He didn't contact me the whole time in Indianapolis. Is he interested or what?

2007-07-29 08:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this doesnt make sense
why should he care
we hate each other my broher and i
why does it matter to him
im in love with his best friend
trying to get ovver him
why wont my beother allow me to date any of his friends
???????????

2007-07-29 08:30:11 · 12 answers · asked by Stussy 2

im talking to this hot white guy who is into the d&s lifstyle(dominance &submission).
he says he loves to be controlled and told what to do and that he loves taking orders and he need a girlfriend who he can worship.
he told me that his last girlfriend was his ruler but she begin to get abusive(slapping,punching e.t.c)
he told me that his last girlfriend ordered him to sleep on a hard floor with no sheet...and like the OBEDIENT submissive guy he is he did it.he loves to be at a woman's beck and call 24/7/365.i asked him just to test him...i said to him ..."if i called him at 3 am asking 4 him 2 drive up to ohio from new jersey to see me would you do it and he said yeah cause he love to be obedient.i dont live in ohio though i just ask him that to see what he say.
now this sounds like fun to get involved in something like this but at the same time im not used to being controlling but i wanted to try it....what u guys think...should i try it.....you only live once?

2007-07-29 08:29:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we work at the same job and i have a suspicion about this guy that works there also.i think he wants to hook up with her if he hasnt already.what can i do about all of this?

2007-07-29 08:28:32 · 1 answers · asked by mcready777 1

My best friend is having a real problem, she wants her and her bf to break up, but SHE doesn't want to do it, she wants him to break up w/ her, she's been asking me what to do, and I'm clean outta advice....what can I tell her??

2007-07-29 08:28:03 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Bean♥ 1

because it sure feels like a breakup.shes moved out of my place,we havent slept together in 3 weeks,and we dont even go out anywhere like we used to.she barely calls me anymore.i just want her back.

2007-07-29 08:26:03 · 5 answers · asked by mcready777 1

while my girlfriend of three months was over at my apartment recently, i left my diary on the kitchen table. and while i was in the bathroom, she opened it and read parts from it. It turns out that the page she read contained information about her she did not like. I wrote : " she has two kids from another relationship and no formal education yet she wants to have another kid with me. How are we gonna take care of all these kids... when i came out i saw her put the diary away. but she denied she had read anything. two weeks later she exploded in anger about how i dont love her and wrote all these things about her wanting to have kids with me. who is at fault here. my girlfriend who read my diary without my permission or me for writing unflattering things about her in my diary? she claims i should not have left it in the kitchen so she is not guilty of invading my privacy rather am guilty of writing bad things about her i have no business writing.

2007-07-29 08:21:55 · 30 answers · asked by Rebel 1

Im 13 and in the 8th grade! All of my friends have boyfriends! I dont know why I dont have one? Im not really ugly haha But I have red hair..Is that why? I dont get it lol Im not really mean either!

2007-07-29 08:19:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I came across and old flame (online) after 10+ years. If a guy was only saying hello to be polite and had no interest in maybe going out one night to catch up then there is noway he'd give his ex his cell #....am I right? I think it would have been more like saying hello and see what the person's been up to and leave it like that..... if a guy has no interest in seeing the person again (even as friends) he would not give the person his cell #. Tell me if I am wrong.... should I hold out hope of seeing him again?

2007-07-29 08:19:19 · 2 answers · asked by olivia200170 1

help me please i like a guys whos older than me i think me might ike me but idk he wont go out with me b/c hes too old and his dad wouldnt approve of it my moms fine with it but he says its not really legal but i think he likes me but doesnt want his dad to be mad at him what do i do do i go out only with a group of friends or just let him go p.s. i really think i like him alot!!helpme please!!

2007-07-29 08:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by confusedchick 1

Is it normal for a man not to be interested in sex at the age of 25yrs.

2007-07-29 08:13:46 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

..gift a special girl has given you for your birthday? (i' not talking about anything sexual...so forget it)

2007-07-29 08:08:36 · 16 answers · asked by rave_runner 2

I called my brother this guy I like who happens to be my best friend but I called him this guys name errr OMG what do I do??

2007-07-29 07:47:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The girl I like has been in a lot of bad relationships with guys who are complete assholes. She is a very sensitive person and an amazing person that has been hurt alot. She says thats she is about ready to give up on relationships because she is tired of getting hurt.

I am not an asshole, I am very respectfull, have good morals and have been told I have a good personality

How do I make her see that I am for real, that I am not an asshole like those other guys?

PLease help me.

2007-07-29 07:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by I am Noodles! 3

2007-07-29 07:37:31 · 14 answers · asked by pottie 1

this guy ive liked for the longest time is showing some interest but idk what it means. he once called me a lezbo just to be playin ,i said you wish. an then he said no im glad you like me. its like wtf? cause he doesnt like make a move or anything. just need some advice. should i make the move or just wait?

2007-07-29 07:33:48 · 3 answers · asked by diamond a 1

2007-07-29 07:29:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm between a rock and a hard place here. The boy I love I'd been with for 3 1/2 years but he got scared that I was too good for him and left me, crushing me completely. The boyfriend I have now is utterly sweet but has emotional swings and gets so insecure where he'll upset me but will apologize profusely for it. He says he loves me and is so kind and I like all his friends and they like me... but I still love my exboyfriend. There's just that insecurity that I'll be doing the wrong thing by going back to him. Things like that that I've heard about never seem to turn out well. What's your view on the situation?

2007-07-29 07:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 07:25:33 · 11 answers · asked by diamondlilgirl 2

what is it about virgins that make guys want to find them so? they are not good lovers because one has to teach them most everything, they learn very fast especially if the guy good with the deflowering.

gal's on the other had is always on the prowl for a lover who give's her pleasure, do men find it difficult to satisfy women sexually? especially the one's who have had kid's ?

now a day it appears women are settling for men with an overflow of money because, when the man peaked out sexually, (which is not too long after their 1st sexual contact) she can use the money as a distraction. everytime she get's a new toy or diamond is like the orgasm she never had.

no sex before marriage. only have sex when you ready to pro-create. not bad idea's really but were they cover ups for relationship's to last longer sexually? we know that once you start enjoying sex stopping is the hardest thing. do u think a school (sex training) would help. why, there's every other school right?

2007-07-29 07:14:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 07:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so, i got this offline message from josh [my best fried who i like] that says i think i like you...and im not sure if its real. We kinda have this thing where we joke around alot, and we kind of kiddingly say we like eachother cuz were bff. But idk if he was serious this time? Or playign a trick??? Help!

2007-07-29 07:11:47 · 8 answers · asked by Lyra never lies to ya <3 1

I'm a teenager and I want to see what older women like in their men and what they don't like. This is an age old question with me and my friends... "How many older women want the same thing?"

2007-07-29 07:08:45 · 7 answers · asked by Jay P 5

If my guy loves me unconditionally... and I love him too and If my parents say that I should be with him for the sake that I could find someone better because he's not that goodlooking??

Are they still right??


What the hell is all this about??


Please explain and tell me..... Life expeirences would really help...

2007-07-29 07:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by Bella 1

Thinking whether I should proceed with the relationship. It bothers me slightly but she's such a nice girl plus she has a small frame so it looks proportional plus she has other great physical features but again she's really small.
Keeping it anonymous considering how touchy the subject is.

2007-07-29 07:00:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

im just wondering if you guys love your gf enough to let them paint your nails with nailpolish and no not BLACK i mean like blue or purple pink and you couldnt erase it right after you got it on you had to keep it on for a week ...would you ???

2007-07-29 06:54:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've known her for awhile and am interested in her, but i do not know if that feeling is being reciprocated. We planned to go to the movies, but should i bring a flower? or is it too much and should i go empty handed?

2007-07-29 06:52:55 · 26 answers · asked by Asaki 2