Singles & Dating - 29 July 2007

so theres this guy. I really like him and he's just getting over someone.. we've been hanging out a lot but in a group of people. normally he's kind of always near me and today we (everyone in the small group we were in) got in the conversation of homecomming (i know, a while away but oh well) and he said i was going with him... it might be kind of stupid, but i was wondering if this could be a way of saying that he likes me...??

2007-07-29 15:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by Contained L♥ve 2

I would like advice on a subject, I met a man who I am completely attracted to. We talk on the phone we make plans to get to together. We spend time with one another and have a great time. He and I text one another all the time. He runs a business that take him to other countires from time to time. We broke up a while ago. We saw each other on the streets of London for the first time in over a year. I was informed that he was a father to a son, but he has no plans to marry the mother. The mother was an illegal African from Kenya. They hooked up for a short time and the result was his son. He blames himself for our brake up. He wants me to give our relationship another chance. ( Did I mention that the reason we broke up was the fact that he traveled so much and had very little time for us. ) Now he has cut back on travel time, and he wants me to come back to him. I still love him but I'm not sure I am able to deal with his baby by another woman.

2007-07-29 15:09:59 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

I saw this bulletin on myspace and i was wondering if this is what guys really think...:From a guys point of view:


We don't care if you talk to other guys.


We don't care if you're friends with other guys.


But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.


It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.


We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.


Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait
till the morning.


Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/
cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.


Don't tell us we're wrong.


We'll stop trying to convince you.


The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.


Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the

2007-07-29 15:04:56 · 12 answers · asked by iris09 2

i am crazy for this girl (one of my best friends) i hv known her for about 5years now and we are very close...but i think i am in love with her (2years now) i want her and i am ready to give up everything for her (well almost) but i done't know how to ask her?? i mean i am good with girls but this one is an icky situation...if she says No i will feel real occurd around her :( but i still want to be her friend what can i do to see if she has the same feelings for me. if not how can i convince her???I never thought i would be asking a question likethis on internet lol

2007-07-29 14:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by stifmister 1

I recently had an impromptu date with a man I have been friendly with for a while. The date ended pretty heated and I have seen him at our usual hangout since then and we have hung together but he doesn't call, etc. he has two children that he has pretty often and is not always "free". Do you think it would be alright to send a card with my number in it and a note to give me a call sometime? or would it be better to ask a friend (mutual) for his phone number and call or send a text message. I'm also open for suggestions.

2007-07-29 14:59:05 · 7 answers · asked by skcubog 1

My boyfriend of nine months just told me He'd be the happiest man alive if we had sex. But shouldn't being with me make him happy? I'm serious, am I not doing enough? I want to be a good girlfriend, and I told him I'm not ready. Why won't he listen?

Thank you for all your time.

2007-07-29 14:58:39 · 35 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4

Ok well see i liked this girl for about 2 months. i couldnt rll her for awhile because she wasnt over her ex so i waited ,which i rarley do. im used to jumping into thing. so we've finally been going out for about 2 weeks now and im strarting to question if i like her. i do this with other relationships too but when i think about it i get knots in my stomach. AM i just aquestion our relationship or am is it like now that ive finally got her i dont want her? anyone else every go through this?

2007-07-29 14:57:20 · 2 answers · asked by hxckid92 1

I told my friends at the end of the school year that I liked this boy and by now it has spread like wild fire. What should I tell him when I see him, he is bound to know by now. We are great friends, but I don't think he likes me like I like him. So what should I say when he approaches me and brings it up? I don't want our friendship to get ruined!

2007-07-29 14:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 14:53:06 · 1 answers · asked by allie_lonski 1

what things do you girls use

2007-07-29 14:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by lissete 2

Has any mature person had any luck with Craigslist personals?
I am more interested in your long distance romance sucess story.

2007-07-29 14:46:03 · 3 answers · asked by white tiger 3

Are looks and the way girls dress that important to guys? Do guys care more about looks or personality?

2007-07-29 14:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Stacy 3

I have liked this guy for a long time (about a year now) and he likes me too. But he's had this girlfriend for two years. He's always flirting with me, smaking my butt, running up to me and grabbing my sides, and just saying remarks. Well him and his girlfriend broke up and he asked for my number, so I gave it to him. Well we were calling each other talking to each other. But now he and the girlfriend are back together, but he's still calling and I can't help but wanna talk. He's always told her he'd get rid of her for me and he even flirts with me when the girlfriend is right there. Was it wrong of me to keep answering , and what should I do?

2007-07-29 14:26:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't think so but my gf is in love with them and wants to get them...

2007-07-29 14:24:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 14:20:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Examples:

- cologne
- aftershave
- freshly-washed clothes
- nothing (you like guys who smell "natural")
- baby powder
- sweat (from playing sports or working etc.)
- cigarette smoke (just kidding)
- something else.

2007-07-29 14:20:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok be aware i know not ALL guys do this....but I am curious why is it that when I am split from a boyfriend and simply looking for a conversation and maybe a night to hang out to get over my ex that guys feel the need to try to sleep with me...it's not like the first thing i want after any break up sex....and I make it very very very clear that I am merely looking to talk and hang out strictly platonic yet i get the lines like "fu*k me i'll help you get over him" or "well what if us hanging turns into sex" it may i don't deny that I would just rather not feel pushed into dropping my pants and grabbing my ankles right after a break up...please explain this to me....because I am chalking it up to a) either men being pigs....or b) those men being sleazy

2007-07-29 14:17:04 · 15 answers · asked by TPete 3

He is always grabbing my butt ; should i let him ?

2007-07-29 14:14:53 · 17 answers · asked by Paula D 1

Because of health problems I was born with I'm never going to be a super strong athletic guy, lucky for me (financially at least) I'm smart. I'm also very funny (just ask me). Can smart & funny overcome poor looks?

2007-07-29 14:06:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 14:04:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

mkay
who would you most rather to date?
and tell me why?
just by looks.
and a bit more.

both same age..
tell me how old do you think they are..
yess one of them is me
=D
#1[[stephany]]
http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o230/stephany_april/me-3.jpg

http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o230/stephany_april/-1.jpg

http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o230/stephany_april/peace.jpg
•loves to have fun
•very romantic
•loves to go out
•short [[5'1]]


#2 [[daniela]]
http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o230/stephany_april/Friends/stephany13.jpg

http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o230/stephany_april/Friends/danii.jpg

http://i121.photobucket.com/albums/o230/stephany_april/Friends/51465237291384-t.gif
•crazy all the time
•doesnt like taking it fast at all.
•tall [[5'8]]

2007-07-29 14:01:29 · 1 answers · asked by BeautyKills. 2

let's just say theres a girl who doesn't like to go outdoors much because either it can't communicate with people, or justs likes to be alone. can you have or handle a girlfriend like that( well, she likes to go places like amusement park, restaurants, going camping, just doesn't like to be outside with a lot of people she knows) this is actually what I am, so can you handle it?

2007-07-29 13:57:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe it's stupid to be stessing about this stuff. But I can't help it. I'm 20 years old, I've never dated. It's not for lack of trying, it's just others don't find me attractive, I always hear "Your a nice girl but..." I'm always told I have a pretty face but the rest of me is ugly. Yeah so i'm a little fat, i'm quitting smoking and i'm starting to play tennis again and i'm TRYTING to lose weight but it's soo hard for me.
I used to pride myself on being an independant, strong woman. I'm watching all my friends with there boyfriends and babies and happiness and wonder why at the age of 20 i havent even dated? I want to belive that a person can accept you for who you are but i've never seen it. I hate being fat! I'm trying to change it. Do I sound crazy or can i trade myself in for a newer model?

2007-07-29 13:54:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have problems finding nice guys it seems whne i meet a guy or the see me it's like they all wanna get on me or get in my pants what ev u wanna call it. I just get so pissed because every one for some reason thinks im easy and such but i just wanna meet a nice guy who would like to get to know me then on me

2007-07-29 13:42:13 · 11 answers · asked by hayley_cheergirl7 1

My boyfriend wants to have sex but i dont want to. I dont feel ready and want to wait till im married. But he doesnt want to wait, but says he only wants me. He wont leave me alone i told him its over but he wont listen, and wont keep his hands to himself...HE JUST WONT LISTEN. What would you do?

2007-07-29 13:40:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

...and he broke up with me the next day. He coaxed me into having sex with him, even though I wasn't ready. He's 17 going on 18 and I was totally in love with him...I still am! Is that the only reason he was with me? For sex? I can't believe it. I can't. I feel like dying...:(

2007-07-29 13:39:07 · 13 answers · asked by . 1

well, my crush and i have been talking recently and he came though we both have nicknames/petnames for each other already, he calls me "sunshine" sometimes. i think it's a term of an endearment and it has nothing to do with my actual name such as all the other names we call each other. what term of endearment should i use for him that can convey the same level of endearment as "sunshine"? also, any tips on how to get closer to him and not mess things up for the two of us? thanks :-)

2007-07-29 13:29:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

See through me!

2007-07-29 13:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my friend met these two really nice girls at the pool that ended up giving us their numbers without us asking. We went on a double date with them to the movies a week later. It went well except for the fact that there were these awkward silence moments. This has never happened to me where i just didnt know what to talk about. My date was the one starting most of the conversations and I felt kind of weird not being able to think of anything. I feel as if I seemed to her as the quiet, boring type, but I'm really alot more fun and talkative. That same day before the date I woke up really early to help my friend move.So afterwards, i was pretty tired. When should I call her, and if I should call her, should I appaulogize for being kinda boring. I dont know if she still likes me. We talked alot on the phone before the date and things were fine. What should I do? I havent felt this way about a girl in a long time and I really like her. Would it be wierd for me to call and appaulogize?

2007-07-29 13:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by Dr. Man 1

So I was watching Louie Theroux and he was doing a show called "Extreme Bodybuilding". Most of the sattire was focused on Women's Bodybuilding and the men that were so enamored with them. Now I'm not talking about slim and sexy, I'm talkin' about Arnold huge women with biceps bigger than most of our legs. These women can eat nails and crap steel! I can appreciate the effort and dedication it takes to get to that point, but they look like dudes and some even sound like 'em. Now, all guys have their preferences I know, but I couldn't lay down with a woman that was twice my size, muscle wise and could beat me up and I'm one feisty s.o.b. Is sexual desire towards these women a sign of borderline gaydom or a like of being dominated. Trust me, these women could dominate who they wanted unless their men were muscleheads too.

2007-07-29 13:16:38 · 2 answers · asked by Pontius 3