...and he broke up with me the next day. He coaxed me into having sex with him, even though I wasn't ready. He's 17 going on 18 and I was totally in love with him...I still am! Is that the only reason he was with me? For sex? I can't believe it. I can't. I feel like dying...:(
2007-07-29 13:39:07 · 13 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what...he doesn't deserve you! You deserve much better...someone who loves you for who you are, who would do anything for you...who cares about you no matter what! A lot of guys will do anything or say anything to get in your pants...that was a choice you made...I am sorry it turned out like this. He is an a** to say the least. The best thing to do is to try and forget about him. Move on with your life. There are plenty more guys out there...who will love you for who you are! Don't settle for anything less.
2007-07-29 13:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this but if he didn't talk to you at all about what happened and he broke up with you and he coaxed you into having sex then he probably was just with you for sex. He would have asked you if you were ready.
He's not worth it, I know you don't believe it and you feel like you can't believe that you did what you did and probably don't know what to do but things will work out. He's immature and a jerk. You deserve so much better, guys who would do anything to be with you. Just move on and have faith that things will work out. I'm sorry you lost your virginity though to a guy who would dump you after the experience that you and him shared. I wish you could get that experience back. Trust me, everything will be fine. If you need to talk then you can e-mail me. I'm 15 too.
2007-07-29 13:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by kkminnie17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry eh, yea he totally did you in on that one. Most people that are in it for sex at least wait a while to break up but this guy is a hardcore dick. You can be guaranteed that he has probably tried it with other girls to. So you don't want him back. Its not the end of the world though if he was so worried about getting into your pants I'm sure you can find a nice guy who's not just out for a throw in the sac ... Good Luck eh
2007-07-29 13:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by njcodemus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let him get you down, you will definitely find another guy that will treat you SO MUCH better. as for the still being in with him part though..you have to move on, what he did to you wasn't right. he most likely from the very beginning was only interested in sex with you. what an a s s. next time, it might be better to date someone more closer to your own age, 2 or 3 years might not seem like alot now, but trust me it is. he is apparently not mature enough to handle a relationship. keep your head up, best of luck.
2007-07-29 13:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by soccergirl#7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sooo sorry
its guys like that who give the rest of us a bad name
you can do one of three things at this point
A- relize what he was doing and vow to never let that happen to you again and leave the situation with a higher understanding
B- have a bunch of your friends go over to his house and pay him a visit with some plyers, a grinder,and a car battery with cables
C- Move forward in life and when the day yo ufinally find someone who truly loves you hold on to that and remember that sometimes we have to move through the valley in order to see from the mountains
hope you have better luck from now on
good luck and hope this helps
2007-07-29 13:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by mortifiedsmallpenguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also sorry you were hurt.
That is why some people advise young women to concentrate on other things rather than entering into sexual relationships. Your boyfriend was very immature and selfish to do what he did.
Be careful from now on. Good luck, sweetie, and feel better. Your bad feelings will not last forever.
BTW, I hope protection was used.
2007-07-29 13:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what he wanted.
Probably got a couple points for it.
You on the other hand need to know thathe was never in love with you. He took advantage of you.
The next time you see him, if he is a smart a** about anything, kick him in the nuts.
The Rat
2007-07-29 13:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are going thru this.. but generally guys do that to us. I can't come up with words of encouragement. I wish you luck and strength to move on. Once my mother told me not to trust men.. didn't understand what she meant by it until this exact thing happened to me. Not all men are jerks.. we just have to trust our instinct sometimes. Wish you luck.
2007-07-29 13:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents about it. That is why you should never allow to be pressured into sex. But it has happened. Get some counseling and know that not all guys are like that.
2007-07-29 13:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats horrible! that guy is a jerk and im verry sorry you had to experience that. "what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger" dont let him ruin your world. grow from this and just think of it as practice. your going to find someone that will be much better for you and you'll be okay. don't worry.
2007-07-29 13:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly47 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋