I told this guy like a week ago that I liked him cause I did and I was pretty sure he liked me. I was right and we've been talking for about a week, but haven't hung out yet and he hasn't asked me out yet or anything. I feel like he's moving too fast and he's like saying things that I'm not ready for yet. but I don't want to tell him! do you think if I ignore him he'll get it or should I tell him? what should I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings
2007-07-29 18:22:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him to slow down. You haven't even gone out yet.
You're not going to rush into anything......
2007-07-29 18:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by zanthus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that u think that he is moveing too fast for u and your not ready for this stuff aleast not with him and u just want to be friends or u think u guys shouldnt see each other if u don't want to b his friend and if u dont want to say that then put it in your own words
2007-07-30 01:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've hung out - but not dated, and he hasn't asked you out yet, but you feel like he is moving too fast?
I think you enjoyed the chase...but one you "caught" him, decided that you didn't want him after-all.
Tell him that you thought you liked him, but after getting to know him better feel that it would be better not to date.
The guy deserves some sort of truth from you.
2007-07-30 01:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umfirst tell him to slow down maybe its justthe moving to fast stuff
& ignoring is just plane rude - I'd personally want the truth - put very kindly - rather than be ignored - put yourself in his shoes what would you prefer if someone was technically ditching you ??
2007-07-30 01:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by T. M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, tell him you think hes moving too fast and needs to slow down a lil.
if you dont, you should let him know, somehow that wont hurt his feelings too much, b/c if you drag it out, or just ignor him, when you finaly end up telling him, hes going to feel worse after you waited
2007-07-30 01:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by alexmark221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One week is not enough time to take a complete idea about him
If you really like him you wont ignor him try to get closer to him
you can begin and break the ice
best wishs dear
2007-07-30 01:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by ^-^ engineering student ! ^-^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people dont talk how do they know whats going on in each others minds. Men and women's largest problem is communication.Read some books on boundaries now so you can begin a good relationship.
2007-07-30 01:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by dove2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore him, nobody wins in that situation. His feelings will get hurt, and you will feel bad for hurting his feelings. You have to just be up front and honest with him. Guys don't get hints.
2007-07-30 01:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth you are moving to fast for me sorry I just want to be friends.
2007-07-30 01:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went from hot to cold in a week. If you ignore him you're being selfish. You started it now be woman enough to end it with respect.
2007-07-30 01:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by gagirl01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋