2007-07-28 23:19:47 · 27 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
..i can manage...i'm sure
but I want her back...because she is not my past, she is my future...
2007-07-29 08:29:53 · update #1
well,yes... it has been 6 years that I haven't heard anything from her. And I haven't seen her face for 7 years. Last thing I got from her was an SMS saying;
"Do not call me, never ,ever again. For the moment, the SAT exam is the most important thing I've got. And I don't want anything or anyone involved in my life until the exam..."
Her wish was pretty clear. I loved her sooo much. So much that I've let her go. Because I loved her. I know she loved me once too. But now, the fcuking SAT was more important for her. I did let her go, but it hurted a lot. I was crying all the time. At home, at class, at work, at shopping, allways crying. My hair was long enough, so I could hide my eyes (tears) behind my hair... Before that SMS she sent, last thing she had told into my face had been " Promise me that you will find somebody else to love, and believe that you can... By time you will forget about me..."
After 7 years, I can say that this fire, the heart ache, the love, it all fades; but does never dissappear...
Still, whenever I hear a nice song, it is her smile that rushes into my mind, its the moment she first kissed me...
But it is just a nice feeling, there is no pain.
I am sure you can go on. It is pretty normal that you still want her to be with you. But don't insist if she does not want you. And don't worry, it is not a sorrow, but a sweet memory of your love that is waiting for you in the future...
2007-07-29 21:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Remzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats how I feel when I am deeply in love. However, in the past, I even thought I would commit suicide when I was jilted like those Hong Kong movie stars used to do. I was going through a very very difficult time. I really thought I would die. It nearly ruined me. It took some time for me to (you cant forget everything) get my feet back on the ground. then the cupid's arrow struck me again. The same feeling of putting your whole life in somebodys hands came again. Then !!! I was broken hearted again. I went through a very bad patch again. If not worse. I have healed and it happened again after 5 years of emptiness. I am now thinking of what you asked. My answer is still yes. Its really part of my life. What if the worse happened again? I dont care now. I am not prepared for it for come what may. I am just too involved to hold back. Like the saying goes... Life still went on after each ...... Well, by all means. Come what may. Live for now. The Chinese always said: Care not if it will last forever, just be glad that you have once had it. (Bu cai hu tian zhang di jiu, zhi cai hu cheng jing yong you.) If you have been through it, you will know how true it is.
2007-07-29 11:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Vico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is a part of my life but for sure I will manage with out him if he were to leave now.
2007-07-29 06:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by linda c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih i think it's really hard to say who will stay and who will leave your life..u know they say that people come and go..but the most important thing is that they became a part of your life and of your memories..they somehow taught you something..they made you feel loved..but as they say everything comes to an end..your love will stay or go in one way or another but i think you shouldn't be thinking about losing them because it will really hinder you from giving them the best..you should be enjoying the moment with her..make everyday the best day of you lives together..
2007-07-29 07:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question would be, "why would they leave?" and, maybe they didn't have to leave, maybe something could be changed or corrected. Everyone has feelings, some deeper than others, and it depends on that level of feelings, and what part they played in my life, how many things we had in common, how dependent we'd been on each other, what plans we made and what continuing dreams we had, etc. that would affect my feelings,and how long I would pine.
2007-07-29 11:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got it. and it sucks right now cause he told me that he wanted me out of his life when I asked him that. and to go away.
now I am sad, I don't want to keep going but I know I have to regardless of his not loving me like he said.
I hate it. I can't stop thinking about him and how happy we were just days ago together laughing and enjoying things together,
but now, it all changed in a blink of a tired eye. one day great. and the next morning, well, I made it be what it is now. me gone and him happy I left like he told me to.. go away. so I did. what else can a person do when you are told that?
It doesnt matter how much you love someone, if they don't love you in return, how good is that?
2007-07-29 06:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel something like Catherine and Heathcliff's love for one another now for someone very special. He's my soulmate and I'll be devastated if someday we have to separate for some reason. He's very much a part of me that I see his face and hear his voice everywhere I go.
Lovestruck hehe...
2007-07-29 06:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is always part of life even if it is beast or a bird or human being . So far human being is concern LOVE if restricted to spouse one should have no sex before marriage with any one.After marriage only with spouse. One should be honest ,devoted and loyal to family and society ,It is true love. Love for sex is lust and no love for person.
2007-07-29 07:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is...But without any enthousiasm, just for having been together, having shared many things together..Just because there is understanding,and always good will by both parts to resolve the problems if there are
2007-07-29 06:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I always deal with the hurt and insecurities in order to move on. I have the authority and the power to be in control of my negative emotions. Hurt people never make good decisions.
2007-07-29 09:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋