Do you have to be Asian these days to get a guy to notice you or what?!?!?

Question

Fine, I admit it alright. Im jealous. All I keep hearing about from men is that Asian girls are so sexy and wonderful and perfect. So do you have to be Asian these days to get a guy to notice you or what?
And for some reason they seem to be extra good in bed or something. Is that it?

P.S. I dont care if your rude, just answer the question. Thanks.

Answer 1

Hi there

I am 100% Cantonese(Chinese) girl living in HK, as a matter of fact, I understand how you feel about us, (I'm just a ordinary one), at the meantime I rather suggestion you to be yourself better to make yourself comfortable than other **** to be who or pretending other to win you like. To be honest, I don't know much about how attractive skills from those Americanize Asian girls that kills those American men to lean on them. One thing I am sure that they are not like the American girls just shouting around and being bitches around. They would show their heart from their inner mind more than than the superficial material treats to their men. Of course not all the Asian girls are perfect by looking and the sexy shape. It's not the main reason to win the lover. I had saw many pairs(Caucasian men and their Asian Missy), the other girl who looks ordinary and not much outstanding, I really don't agree of Brandy I said about content of
"Anyway, I don't see what a man see in an Asian woman. A majority of them have bodies like 12 yr. old girls. Skinny & flat chested. (Maybe they secretly want a 12 yr old, who knows?) lol!"
To be honest, if you have a chance to go to Asian countries like China, HK, Japan, Thailand.... You will know why. Yeah of course little chubby, big boobs and with sexy make-up it's the personal interests, moreover, This is our genetic brought us to this world. And this is one of the very wisdom we proud of that we keep ourselves stay look younger. Do you know a book regarding why Japanese ladies don't get fat? (Also why French ladies don't get fat!) So this is one of good point that American men walks in Asian girls' world, they eat pretty balance, good diet, at least not hearing all time to go out dinner at the high calories restaurant! I'm 32, but some told me I'm look like a kind.. so.....??????

And Asian girls I think they are more have their own intellectual and thoughtful mind to handled different things in their life. And they also have their own sense of humor, they have much strong tolerance heart, they have graceful polite behavior.(That's why got attracts to the caucasian men,.. may be). And when they addicted on drugs and alcohol, I don't think they would go back to Rehab again and again like some of the American female STARS! Because Asian girls don't enjoy to doing something bad again if happen again when they knew it is already. (SOME). This is about their behavior and their lifestyle (except the Americanize Asian girls) I don't mean all American girls are bad as really bitches... But to be yourself, and revise .. what's good to bring out, and what's bad to hide!

And here is one of the online dating site where Western meets Asian, you can check out the details why Caucasian men loves Asian girls by their own words.
http://www.asianeuro.com

If you have a chance to meet some real Asian girls and women and married to Caucasian men , and try to ask them to know some more.

You may think I am non-sense, but when you look at yourself have something else more attractive(No need to do much more make-up! heheehe!) and much confidence to win your men, YOU ARE ALREADY WIN! No need to compare with Asian or other racial! Good Luck!

PS. when you said you "I dont care if your rude, just answer the question." you are already not that kind of superficial American girl type I think! ^_^ Keep it up!

Answer 2

perception and reality.

i seriously doubt there is any trend as you suggest.

there are lots more asian americans today than there were in the past. today there are about 15-20 million asian american about 40 million black and hispanics each and the remainder substantially white americans out of a total population of about 360 million, or about 270 million white americans.

so 15 million asians and 270 million whites. how many males can asians girls account for? not very many!

your fear is unfounded.

some asian girls have all the good qualities and dis arming charm as do all other girls. notice i said "some".

no need to be jealous.

the numbers do not support your concern.

ease up off the asian american sister.

she needs attention, admiration and love just like you do.

ps: i doubt the asian american girl is any more experienced or knows more the any other american girl. there are differences in character and the way things are handled.

its all a matter of perception and reality.

Answer 3

No you do not have to be Asian, I do find them very attractive. I would have to say that personality is more important than what race you are. I Have dated both Asian and non Asian women meaning white and black. I am attracted to a woman's face overall. There are plenty of white women that I think are attractive. The only thing is it seems like they, have bad attitudes or do not notice me at all. I like a woman that is sweet and loving kind, honest, faithful, and that I am attracted to physically at least some what, no she does not need to be a model, as a matter of fact I prefer girl that are more on the cute side than on the pretty side. So no you do not need to be an Asian in order to get a guy. You just have to be yourself and if you see a guy you like let them know. You know it is good when you see a woman looking and you and when you look at her she smiles back in a sweet kinda shy way. The fact is while Asian women are usually more shy about meeting a guy, they at least let a guy know when they are interested, by the way they act. American women just seem to sit on their butt's and wait for Mr. Right to just walk up and say hi here I am. They do not seem to let us know when they are interested. They also seem to like to play a lot of games, like oh, I am hard to get. Yeah, well maybe, but you are easy to forget. I do not think I am asking to much. I am just saying if you like a guy then for goodness sakes let him know some how. Don't just sit there looking around or off into space and expect him to just walk right up, unless you show some interest in him. That is why I think so many men seem to like Asian girls. That and they are nice and very good to guys that they like and love. Once again American women seem to take men for granted. They just expect us to be there when they need us but think little about our needs. Well I will stop I did not mean to gripe that much. That's my take on it. Take care :)

Answer 4

I don't know what's so fantastic about Asian girls.
Maybe I've been around them too much.

You don't have to be Asian.
The guys here like any kind of girl.
My preference is Asian or white.
(( Can't help the fact a good majority of the black community is obnoxious, and the Hispanic community being big all over or "female dogs". ))

Answer 5

I dont think that you do have to be asian,
personally i like girls of all race,
Some guys however just like asian girls, so basically, every guy has his preferance

Answer 6

Yea honestly the guys you are trying to talk to might be asians themselves. Asian girls are pretty but not superior to any other race of girls. If you are cool and cute then I'll talk to ya. Your race don't matter.(But I'm a little more open minded than others)

Answer 7

It's all about your self-esteem girl. If you "Know" your the ****, they will see that! If you walk around "Doubty" then they won't notice you. Look a man in the eye. I love to do this. I was at a grocery store w/ my husband & asked the manager a question, looked him dead in the eye. He got a huge smile on his face, answered me, then complimented me.
Anyway, I don't see what a man see's in an Asian woman. A majority of them have bodies like 12 yr. old girls. Skinny & flat chested. (Maybe they secretly want a 12 yr old, who knows?) lol!
But hey, to each their own!
You don't know what type of man is attracted to you? That's what you first need to figure out. Don't chase men that are typically into a certain type of woman. For example, I find that a majority of white men prefer very thin white women. (Which I'm not) And for me, a white man would have to be tattooed up, and fine as hell for me to look at him. Then hispanic men, their kinda funny. Most want the very thin, fine white/hispanic female-but end up w/ cubby ones! lol! Then the black men, yes the Fine Black Men! MMM! Well, see a brotha know's how to appreciate a curvy woman. Most want a woman w/ large breast, thick hips & thighs. My man's black, can't see what a man see's in a 110lb woman that looks like a twig. lol! Said "I don't want to feel bones when I grab a womans hips, I want something to hang onto!"
So, figure out what kind of man your attracted to and what kind of man seems to be attracted to you.
Not all men are into Asians. (They must not have seen those videos on youtube where the Asian females are taking craps into eachothers mouths!) Nasty Bitches! LOL!

Answer 8

No, you shouldn't be jealous. I don't think Asian girls have an advantage over any other race. Just be be yourself and be confident that you're beautiful and guys will notice you.

Answer 9

Yeah i guess most men find the asian woman very attractive and mysterious and exotic.. So i married one lol

So far the past 3 years have been phuk'n great.

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Answer 10

Race doesn't matter; it's all about the personality. Guys that stereotypically like Asian girls won't see you for who you really are anyways. You'll find someone that will look past your looks and like you for your personality, and will treat you right. Don't worry!