He got another job and works till like 8 everyday.. and this extra job is mostly to pay for modifying his car.. it makes me feel like he would rather spend time working to pay to make his car look better than to spend time with me.. and everytime we hang out after his work he leaves work like at 8 but then on other days hell leave like at 6.. but never that early for me..
but i hate pressuring him to come to my place because i live a half an hour away since he comes late and he has to wake up early the next day...
when we have a plan like him coming he cancels a lot or tells me hes coming later than he was planning because something comes up.. he seems to be sorry for all this and says hes worried im going cheat because he works too much... i dont no what to think...
he says he needs to pay his bills.and has a lot of responsibilities...
we used to have so much time together before he got his other job.. i miss it a lot...:-(i dont no if he will continue when college classes start again
2007-07-26 15:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by not happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its true.. i love that hes not a bum and hes responsible i love that! but then... it gets so hard.. i miss him!!!
i will be gone in december for a month so.. he will have to go through the same thing... hopefully he will understand and wont cheat on mE
2007-07-26 15:12:42 · update #1
i love this guy very very much.. and i belive he sincerely does love me too
i keep telling myself to trust him and be supportive...
but i get insecure sometimes..
am i being needy?.. its not too much to ask for right...?
2007-07-26 15:16:01 · update #2
I think if he really loved you he would manage to find time to spend with you. Obviously, on his list of favorite things, you come after his car and those "things that come up". You say he is worried about you cheating; I wonder what he's up to!
2007-07-26 15:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he knows the importance of having a job and paying the bills. Looks like he might make some girl a good husband one day. Your best bet is to hang on to this one and be a little more supportive. You never know... he may be saving up for something special for that special someone... Might be you. =)
2007-07-26 22:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Primalstorm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend, I CAN DEFF RELATE! My boyfriend is in police academy and we barely get to see eachother! IT SUCKS! Honestly girl, we have it good, would we rather our guys be bums that sit on the couch all day? =]. My Grandma always tells me "absence makes the heart grow fonder" and I deff agree with that! If you want to talk more about this please dont hesitate to email me! Im sure we could talk this out and it would make both of us feel better, cause im in the SAME situation as you are! ttyl!
2007-07-26 22:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by answer queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he might be telling you that he is working but really cheating on you. But most likely he is working. He probably does love his car more. Hes a jerk dump him. Sorry to be so harsh.
2007-07-26 22:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by D.A.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if hes so worried that your going to cheat to do something about it! Give him an ulimatum: either start spending more time with me like we used to or see ya bye!!!
2007-07-26 22:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start hanging around with a close male friend then when he asks you what you have been up to tell him you have been with your friend. He might not tell you but he will be really jealous and want to spend more time with you.
2007-07-26 22:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by lambdog04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really like him. Well, have you told him how you feel? I know how lame that sounds but really, have you said, Hey, I still exist? Cause otherwise if he keeps it up, you should tell him that any guy who puts his car before you obviously doesn't deserve you.
2007-07-26 22:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Yalerower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably cheating on u. if cancels alot hint hint
follow him to "work" and see if his "work" turns out to be a strip blub. anyways, good luck! <3
2007-07-26 22:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same with my boyfriend we hardly see eachother because he works or just cant hang out. its very hurtful and feels like he doesnt put you first. maybe you shud tell him how it makes you feel.
2007-07-26 22:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by shark23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry u feel that way, its sad to know a person can be that way. i dont know what to tell you other than apologize for ur bf's actions. its uncalled for n childish.
2007-07-26 22:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋