Singles & Dating - 4 June 2007

Unfortunately he found out that I've been fantasizing about somebody I know from online. I'm never going to meet him for real or anything, but now I feel guilty and like I cheated on him. He says he's not mad. Do you think that's true? How can he be ok with it?

2007-06-04 17:25:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy for 6 years online, he's the person I go to for everything, and I'm basically in love with him. I'm 17 and he's 21...we want to meet but he is scared he could go to jail just for meeting me with my parents right there. He could go to jail for 10+ years. Could this really happen? Should we risk it because this could be the only chance to meet in the next few years? What are your views on this?

2007-06-04 17:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4

I heard many ladies are into Korean men b/c of the hit drama "Winter Sonata."

Also, b/c for some reason they are seen as smart, highly intelligent guys.

2007-06-04 17:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this girl for about 2 weeks now. We've been kissing, cuddling, and all that jazz. But today, she seemed upset, and was ignoring me often.

Is she about to break up with me?

2007-06-04 17:23:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 3 years, and have lived together for 2. we just recently had some trouble when i caught him having online affairs, we worked through it and i am 100% confident he is not cheating, but for some unrenounced reason he has little to no interest in a sex life with me.... and when i question him on it he says he likes to be coaxed into it, or that he doesn't always feel like having sex that he's tired and stressed out about "work Stuff". But it makes me feel dirty, and like i'm forcing him into sex with me, because i'm always trying to initiate it, and 3/4 of the time he makes some excuse why he doesn't want it... and it usually leaves me feeling self-conscious and depressed about myself, and I'll let it go for a few months then i usually end up blowing up or breaking down, but nothing ever gets solved. I've invested hundreds of dollars in lingerie, sex toys, books, games, get away trips for us, but it's like i'm invisible. what should i do?

2007-06-04 17:20:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

has a gut, owns a Saturn with 100k miles,lives in a duplex next to a practicing witch, chain smokes, only gets second hand women from his friends and is overwhelmed in credit problems,has a bad case of athletes foot, wears jeans to all occasions, and takes anti depressants|?

2007-06-04 17:17:39 · 22 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3

I asked this question earlier tonight but I just wanted to get some new advice...Recently we've been fighting more and more but we're always okay at the end of the night. She is my best friend, we have never been more, and I think that I want to be - but I realize it will never happen... I just am so sick of hurting and I just want to walk away from her... Tonight was another fight - any advice?

2007-06-04 17:17:35 · 17 answers · asked by pblitz08 1

so pretty much every guy ive been interested in lately has been treating me like crap and im getting sick of it. I was best friends with this guy for about 2 years and i fell in love with him but he never liked me. he admits that he used me to do stuff for him because he knew i liked him. yet after are arguments and despise his meanness i kept going back to him. And it seems i pick out guys who are mean and yet i keep going back and talking to them. any advice on how i can stop?!?!?!?!

2007-06-04 17:05:07 · 35 answers · asked by .:Jessica:. Go Spartans! 2

Do you find Asians attractive?
If so, what attracts you to them?
And, what race are you?

2007-06-04 17:00:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently went to visit an old friend from high school. There were definitely sparks! I think hes a great guy and would make me very happy, only thing is we live a bit of a distance apart. I considered moving to live with him, but I have a good job and like the area where I live now. I'm afraid to make such a drastic move, but my intuition tells me this guy may be "the one" Should I stay where I'm content or chance it for love?

Alright, I want to revise this a bit. The two of us have a been friends for years. We've been seeing each other and talking almost every day. A long distance relationship seems a bit scary though. Not for commitment purposes but simple because we both enjoy each others company so much. It honestly hurts to miss someone so much.

Thanks for the other advise though... I somewhat remember him saying that he'd consider moving up with me. That has to prove something, that he really cares. Is it fair though to make him find a new job and leave his life behind?

2007-06-04 16:56:39 · 14 answers · asked by mommy2be08 2

of them are teens in high school) I'm really getting the vibes from them and find myself pressed with issues that are trivial, and immature. It's upsetting because I feel like I have to wait for these kids to grow up which hinders my own personal growth. Why can't everyone just agree?

2007-06-04 16:55:07 · 1 answers · asked by shhhhhhhhhh 3

Hey, I kust moved from Florida to Connecticut. I am new to this place and just finding it dificult to find some place to meet a girl. I am 24 and tired of the bar and club scene, anybody got any ideas?

2007-06-04 16:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by visions of gandhi 1

i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is almost 18. he will be leaving for colloege in nashville this september. we are very much in love with each other and i do want to be with him always, but my friends well me i'm too young. i'm so confused...

2007-06-04 16:45:25 · 54 answers · asked by Havok♥Chaos 1

Well my bf realy likes me we have kissed lots but we have never had sex and tonight he asked me to come over should i go or stay? HELP!

2007-06-04 16:31:48 · 46 answers · asked by Shayna 2

My friend hooked up twice with a guy she's known for a week and the second they had dry sex, when he dropped her off at home he did not say he'll call her later or anything all he said was bye and gave her a kiss. He has not called since then, and she's worried. Should she wait for him to call back or should she call him?

2007-06-04 16:14:29 · 17 answers · asked by Nebel6 2

im 17, i have posters of almost completely exposed women in my room. my mom doesnt mind but she says its disrespectful to women. i dont get how this is so????? im putting them on my wall. its not like im throwing darts at them. i whack off to them. this means i admire their beauty. how is this disrespectful? the women who pose like this want me to ejaculate to them, thats why they do it. do u agree with my mom or me?

heres one of the posters i put on my wall

http://img395.imageshack.us/img395/6774/crc2020in3.jpg

2007-06-04 16:13:33 · 6 answers · asked by Bob S 1

ok theres this boy i really really liked and we talk like everyday no joke and he is always saying im beautiful and he told me he liked me

but we were tlking online a minute ago

and he said omg i just got a girlfriend and im trying to act like im happy for him yet i just want to scream

what the crap im right here whats wrong with me??

but i fell like its my ault for not asking him out when i had him

what do i do??

i feel so numb

2007-06-04 16:12:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well. I always thought that this girl liked me and I was pretty confident about it but when I asked her out she said she doesn't have the time for dating. I accepted it and moved on. Our friendship didn't crumble after she rejected me but it was as strong. She would still say hi and maintain eye contact. Well, today I saw her. She froze up and couldn't finish saying the word "Hi" to me. She then stopped the eye contact and looked down on the floor and we passed by each other. I was not dirty or anything because I was wearing my suit for my interview. What happened? It was just so awkward.

Also, I don't want to ask her what was wrong with her because it would just make things more awkward

2007-06-04 16:10:14 · 12 answers · asked by john23213 1

im in a friends with benifits relationship. i want him to want me to be his girlfriend. i know thats what he wants to. i want to back off and tell him im looking to find a serious relationship and cant mess around with him anymore, to see what he does. should i?

2007-06-04 15:56:39 · 15 answers · asked by bqbalchick 2

Should i break up with my boyfriend? His name is Nate and we have been together for 7 months. He never calls! My friends hate him because he is rude 2 them. He is aslo sometime rude 2 me. :-( He is sometimes sweet though... Their are lots of other boys that want to go out with me so it's not like i will be single long so..... I don't know what 2 do! PLEASE HELP!!!!! Should i break up with him?????

2007-06-04 15:54:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you ever feel like you're being pressured?

2007-06-04 15:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by shhhhhhhhhh 3

I'd been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I recently found out that he has married someone else. And he wasn't even man enough to tell me. I found out when I saw his wedding photo in a magazine. How crummy is that? And yet he continued to call me as though everything between us was still good and when I asked him about his new marriage he acted as though he didn't know what I was talking about and HE had the nerve to get mad! I just don't understand how he could not tell me. Why would he do that? Did he think I was so crazy in love with him that I would continue to see him even after he married someone else. Hell, I didn't even know he was seeing anyone else but apparently I was wrong.

2007-06-04 15:43:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend said he would. I think he's full of it

2007-06-04 15:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by Tom 1

I prolly sound so desperate or watever, but i really want to kno what you guys think! I mean one week you go for one type the next time another! Come on, Tell me wat goes on in your head when you see a girl! What do you notice most about the girl?

2007-06-04 15:32:30 · 17 answers · asked by confused. 2

I like a guy a lot. Every night he calls me and we stay on the phone for hours. Not too long ago we had our senior prom and he asked me to dance with him and I did. To tell the truth, I felt like we were the only 2 people there. Today in school he was holding me and biting on my arm and ear. My friends told me that he wanted to ask me to be his date 4 the prom but he was shy. I feel like Fantasia is singing her song "When I see you" to me because the things she mention in the song I constantly do. I tingle inside when I hear his voice. When I dream about him, I don't feel like getting up. It seems like every time I think about him, I get a phone call and its him. Is it true that if you're thinking someone they are usually thinking about you 2 ? My mom always tells me to follow my heart but I don't know what to do. We graduate on the 27, What should I do ? If you have time, listen to Fantasia song then give me advice so you can get a better picture of what's going on.

2007-06-04 15:30:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm reposting this one. Wondering what you're thinking if it bothers you and if it does is it old fashioned values or just jealousy that is the cause?

2007-06-04 15:27:52 · 15 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2

I think they do. You over analize things when you know a lot of information. I think you become dull just for the simple fact that you do not know the current trends. I wouldn't trade laughing my butt off almost pissing my pants at the stupidest things like jokes (being rick roll'd even though I didn't know what it meant) for being knowledgable about non-fictional information.

2007-06-04 15:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it's not exactly real life, but the TV show The Bachelor seemed to support this idea. If it is true, then is it best to make the guy work in order for him to like you?

2007-06-04 15:09:48 · 3 answers · asked by L K 1

2007-06-04 15:06:43 · 9 answers · asked by estrella 2

2007-06-04 15:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by princess 2