Singles & Dating - 31 May 2007

come off as easy. how do i play hard to get but let him know im interested and it could possibly happen one day?

2007-05-31 23:48:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-31 23:44:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because i have always heard a girls point of view about losing their virginity and about the emotional effects (and the pain).
But what does it mean for a guy is it just as important to you as it is for girls?
and when you lost your virginity how did you feel afterwards?
Also before you first had sex, did you feel scared eg. about not being able to perform, taking your clothes off in front of another person.

2007-05-31 23:43:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin wife, 23 years, is student like me from Turkey in London. My parent put her in same room with me because I am only 20 years. We like gossip speaking. One night I see her touching and make excited me. She not know I pretend for sleeping. Later, we both enjoy for watching and touching one another. She have very pretty shave bikini area. Sometime we have the hug in the bed.
Now her husband my cousin coming now to see her and she and I now confused.
But in my culture I have marriage proposal from long time to parent friend- I must marry to boy since 13 years. I must to marry and bear the children too- and she must have the children otherwise there be shame on our family and our family honour.
But I love her so much, she very pretty and her parfum very nice. We both in love and very love to touch the other, but must have the children and the husbands.

What for I should do? Please for your help? Is very difficult for me in my culture? I know no-one my friend able to helping me.

2007-05-31 23:36:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i havent seen my bloke since we came back off holiday,he dumped my suitcase outside my door without even letting me know it was there, we had no rows on holiday it was great,we had a argument just as we got back on land, havent heard from him for a since, ive tried txtin him and my friends have aswell but he hasnt replyed back, he loved my mates as much as me. why wont he get back in touch with me. ( the argument by the way was about him not telling his girl-mate that he went away with me for the week, never met her,so i got mad and asked him if he was ashamed off me, i am a model by the way x

2007-05-31 23:29:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

m 15. I like this boyand we were chatting and stuff on msn (althogh i do know from schoool and have seen him round) i asked him if he wanted to ring me since i was going near his house so we could meet up he said yes... later that night i ang him to see if he was coming out he said he might do and i said can you ring me if ya do and he said yes. ... so the night went on and he didnt ring me but on the way home on the bus i saw him out the window near the shops.. why didnt he ring me? is he not interested?
At this point i thought he clearly wasnt interested in me and was going to leave it. however that night he text me and asked if i still wanted to meet up.. itext him back saying "you dont have to meet me if ya dont want to you know".. he told me he did so we arranged he would come to my house today.. did i do the right thing? is he going to come to my house or was he being a ****?? im so confusd please help me..

2007-05-31 23:26:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19 and Irish ....is it our accents that ye hate or what???

2007-05-31 23:25:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl at chruch she call me cute alot of time and satre at me alot and one time i was telling a joke on the street i was whit my firends and she was there and everyone luage and someone say hes so funny and i hear the girl wispering i like him lound she was telling her firends and after i hear hes cute like 2 or 3 times and when i look at the girl she keep on twisting her hair and keep on looking at me and say hes cute like 3 or 4 times lound and when we meet at chruch she stare at me and rub her sides and looking at me was this girl talking about me?

2007-05-31 23:22:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this lad on Army camp and his name is chris and i like him but i have a boyfriend call ken please help.

2007-05-31 23:07:10 · 12 answers · asked by Alice G 1

I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks and we recently disscused how we feel about each other. she said "i don't know what i feel but i know i want to hangout with you when i can." i asked a friend about this and she said that it sounds like she's interested but not totally sure yet. What do you think?

2007-05-31 22:51:09 · 18 answers · asked by face_melting_guitar_solo 2

i woke up this morning after having a very long dream about my ex. we broke up because he cheated on me, but in my dream he kept talking to me when normally we just ignore eachother when we see eachother. he was apologising and talkng to me and making me laugh like he used to. and now i can't stop thinking about him even though he is with the girl how who he cheated on me with. i cant believe how stupid i am! is there a medicine or a spell that can make me just stop have feelings for him??

HELP!

2007-05-31 22:40:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who is in a relationship with a guy that hits her... You see I have feelings for her and care much about her safety. her boyfriend is a drug addict. What should I do she likes this guy... Should I tell her I have feelings for her or beat this guy down... All in all, I just care about her safety

2007-05-31 22:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

In theory, it seems that everyone respects monogamy.
But in practice, sounds like most guys are having casual sex.
How many wait till marriage?

2007-05-31 21:16:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got drunk in new years eve and my sister had a party cuz it was her birthday and invited all her friends wich it turned out to be all guys well anyway i got drunk and the next day it turns out that that nigh i was flashing all her friends. they even recorded it!!!! but know the problem is that they want me 2 do it again and every time i go 2 a party the try to get me drunk what should i do?

2007-05-31 21:03:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

you havent been in a relationship for 8 yrs since you got divorced in which left you heartbroken, time goes on and you meet someone you fall in love with but she is very insecure, do you help her or walk away

2007-05-31 20:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

As the years went on, we wrote to each other on what was going on and how he had missed talking to me. On one occasion he never wrote back to me at all. I was getting worried as to why he hadn't written anything for a long time after I had already written 6 letters to him. Well, just when everything seemed hopeless and sad in my life, I got a note that said: "Meet me at the fence where we used to talk about things". I went and saw him there. I was happy to see him, but he was broken-hearted and sad inside. We hugged until we couldn't breathe anymore. Then he told me about the divorce and why he hadn't written for a long time. He cried until he couldn't cry anymore. Finally, we went back to the house and talked and laughed about what I had been going and to catch up on old times. But in all of this, I couldn't tell him how I felt about him. In the days that followed, he had fun and forgot about all his problem and his divorce. I fell in love again with him. When it came time for him to leave back to New York, I went to see him off and cried. I hated to see him leave. He promised to see me every time he could get a vacation. I couldn't wait for him to come so I could be with him. We would always have fun when we were together. One day he didn't show up like he said he would. I figured that he might have been busy. The days turned into months and I just forgot about it. Then I got a call one day from a lawyer in New York. The lawyer said that he had died in a car accident going to the airpor, and that it took this long till everything was settled. It broke my heart. I was shocked about what took place. Now I knew why he didn't come that day. Again, I was broken-hearted. I cried that night, cried tears of sadness and heartache. I asked questions: "Why did this happen to a kind guy like him?" I gathered my things and went to New York for the reading of his will. Of course, things were given to his family and his ex-wife. I finally got to meet her since the last time we met at the wedding. She explained to me how he was and how he always provided. But he was always unhappy. She would always try everything but she couldn't get him happy, as he was that night at their wedding. When the will was read, the one thing that was given to me was a diary. It was a dairy that of his life. I cried as it was given to me. I didn't know what to think. Why was this given to me? I took it and flew back to California. As I flew on the plane I remembered the good times that we had together. I started reading the diary and what was written. The diary was started with the day we first met. I read on till I started to cry. The diary told of him saying that he had fallen in love with me that day I was broken-hearted. But he was too afraid to tell me what he had felt. That is why he was so quiet and liked to listen to me. It told of how he wanted to tell me so many times, but was too afraid to say anything. It told of when he went to New York and fell in love with another. How the happiest time he had was seeing me and dancing with me at the wedding. He said he imagined it was our wedding. How he was always unhappy till he had no choice but to divorce his wife. How the best time in his life was to read the letters written to him by me. Finally, the diary ended when it said, "today I will tell her I love her". It was the day he was killed. The day I was going to finally find out what was really in his heart. So the moral of the story, If you love someone, don't wait till tomorrow to tell him/her. Maybe the next day will never come at all..

2007-05-31 20:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

LOVE OF LIFE
It all started when I was 16 years old. While I was playing outside on my farm in California, I met a boy. He was an average kind of boy who teased you and then you chased them and beat them up. After that first meeting in which I beat him up we kept on meeting and beating each other up at the fence. That only lasted for a little while though. We would meet at the fence all the time and we were always together. I would tell him all my secrets. He was very quiet he would just listen to what I had to say. I found him easy to talk to and I could talk to him about everything. In school we had separate friends but when we got home we would always talk about what happened in school. One day I said to him that a guy I liked hurt me and broke my heart. He just comforted me and said everything would be okay. He gave me words of encouragement and helped me get over him. I was happy and thought of him as a real friend. But I knew that there was something else about him that I liked. I thought of it that night and figured it was just a Friend kinda thing that I was feeling. All through high school and even through graduation we're always together and of course I thought of it as being friends. But I knew deep inside that I really felt differently. On graduation night even though we had different dates to the prom I wanted to be with him. That night after everybody went home I went to his house and wanted to tell him that I wanted to see him. Well, that night was my big chance and all I did was just sit there with him watching the stars and talking about what I was going to do and what he was going to do. I looked into his eyes and listened to him talk about what his dream was. How he wanted to get married and settle down. He said how he wanted to be rich and successful. All I could do was to tell him my dream and cuddle next to him. I went home hurting because I didn't tell him how I was feeling. I wanted to tell him so bad that I loved him but I was too scared and frightened. I let my feelings go and told myself that someday I would tell him just how I felt. All through college I wanted to tell him but he always had someone with him. After graduation he got a job in New York; I was happy for him but at the same time I was sad to see him go. I was sad also because I didn't tell him how I felt. But I couldn't let him know now that he was leaving for his big job. So I just kept it to myself and watched him go on the plane. I cried as I hugged him for what I felt was going to be the last time. I went home that night and cried my eyes out. I felt hurt that I didn't tell him what I had inside my heart. Well, I got a job as a secretary and then worked my way to a computer analyst. I was proud of what I had accomplished. One day I got a letter with an invitation to a wedding. It was from him; I was happy and sad at the same time. Now I know that I could never be with him and that we could only be friends. I went to the wedding the next month. It was a big occasion. It was a big church wedding with the reception at a hotel. I met the bride and of course I talked to him too. I fell in love one more time. But I held back so it wouldn't spoil what should be the happiest day in his life. I tried to have fun that night but it was killing me inside watching him being so happy and me trying to be happy covering up my sadness tears inside of me. I left New York feeling that I did the right thing. Before I left on the flight, he came running out of nowhere and said his good-byes and how he was very happy to see me. I came home and just tried to forget about what went on in New York. I had to go on with my life.

2007-05-31 20:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys with long hair?Is anyone else attracted to that?

2007-05-31 20:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he looks up at me then down at the floor then says hi to me smiles and watches me walk away, got into an arguement and acts like we broke up which is hard to do since we didnt date, says im smarter and better than most people im amazing at everything i do, said I WANT to hear YOU play and he never types in capital letters, when he first met me he froze and stared at me for 2 minutes my friends noticed this and him cranning his neck to look at me, after the arguement we havent spoken cause im stubborn and so is he. before we met in person my friend saw him look right at me point at me to his friend then talk to his friend then they both looked over, everyone says he likes me. now my question is does he like me and if he does why doesnt he just do something.

2007-05-31 19:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by lizbeth_lizzard 1

so here's the thing.. i'm seeing this guy for a few months.. everything was great we text message and stuff.. but not long ago he text messaged me saying dat he can't text message me oftenly he gave me reasonable reason dat doesn't need to be displayed.. but since then he never text messages me.. i wanna call him but i don't wanna sound too desperate.. but if i don't call him this problem is really haunting me.. i wanted to ask my friends for help, u noe one of my friends ask hom what is going on but it will be too obvious.. i need ur help guys.. please...

2007-05-31 19:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-31 19:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend are living together and we have been together for a year, im 24 and have been married already to an a abusive man, i moved in too quick with this new guy..so im moving out, probably in about 4 weeks, waiting for my place to be ready. But i feel really disconnected already from my boyfriend and it doesnt feel good at all, its painful and almost is like driving a knife in my guts, i actually feel sick to my stomach..its just hard to still be living together, after knowing ill be moving out soon, ugh, its just not a fun time in my life right now and im not sure how to go about these feelings??...i have trouble with men and need to be on my own, but i will miss my boyfriend alot..so much, i love him. In order for us to have any sort of future together i need to figure myself out first! He said he would wait a few years for me..so i can get my crap together. Anyways, im just sick of this sick feeling and not sure how to cheer up

2007-05-31 19:39:24 · 4 answers · asked by *CoUrAgE* 2

We have great sex but I want to put him overboard. What can I do that will drive him crazy?

2007-05-31 19:37:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

opinions?

2007-05-31 19:29:15 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah 2

If I tell her he'll know because she'll start avoiding him and I may lose him and her as a friend what should I do I don't want to see anyone hurt or scarred for life?

2007-05-31 19:28:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23 years old, I have two children and just got out of a six year relationship. I have been ready to move on for quite sometime, but having two children seems to scare men off...help!

2007-05-31 18:57:42 · 36 answers · asked by aihsacak 1

If so,which online site?

2007-05-31 18:39:37 · 7 answers · asked by Life goes on... 6

What is a healthy relationship these days?? What would be considered "normal" and a "healthy" relationship between a couple, guy/girl, in their early 20's. I haven't had normal, quality, or even very nice relationships, with men for a couple years now. I forget what a gentleman is or even what a respectful guy is for that matter. All men seem to want is one thing(sex, of course). I just want a REAL relationship with a guy, instead of games/sex/lies and weird *** behavior from them! I want something that is true, that can be built upon. What is it with guys?! Or am I just dating BOYS? Any suggestions/advice, would be great. Thanks! :)

2007-05-31 18:39:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam a great guy but iam so lonely lots of girls look at me but i dont know how to react around them. sometimes if i get to know a girl it feels like she dosnt care anymore it feels like she thinks iam boring or something what can i do.

2007-05-31 18:38:35 · 7 answers · asked by jeffry 2

My boyfriend of four years is always soooo busy with school, work, his fitness training, and college baseball. He never has any energy to go anywhere or do anything! I feel very bad for him when he comes home from a hard day at work beat red from the sun and drops down on his bed because he is exhausted. However, I do feel there are times that he could put me before some of his trips to the gym or before he offers to play baseball for teams on his only day off and tells me he cant go to the lake or spend the day with me when I have not seen him all week. He is still very sweet to me and I know he is doing good things for himself and its not like he is out drinking all night, but i get pissed off when im lonely every day of my life, I feel like i dont even know him anymore. How should I act, Should I be supportive and put my feelings aside, or should I keep getting pissed because i am?

2007-05-31 18:28:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous