My cousin wife, 23 years, is student like me from Turkey in London. My parent put her in same room with me because I am only 20 years. We like gossip speaking. One night I see her touching and make excited me. She not know I pretend for sleeping. Later, we both enjoy for watching and touching one another. She have very pretty shave bikini area. Sometime we have the hug in the bed.
Now her husband my cousin coming now to see her and she and I now confused.
But in my culture I have marriage proposal from long time to parent friend- I must marry to boy since 13 years. I must to marry and bear the children too- and she must have the children otherwise there be shame on our family and our family honour.
But I love her so much, she very pretty and her parfum very nice. We both in love and very love to touch the other, but must have the children and the husbands.
What for I should do? Please for your help? Is very difficult for me in my culture? I know no-one my friend able to helping me.
2007-05-31 23:36:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a big difference between lust and love. She's married, you're not. Don't destroy a marriage.
2007-05-31 23:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by cashew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this thing confuses you,better have a second thought about this.
This experience is something new to you thats why you are presently enjoying it. But life is not to be based only to this kind of stuff.
Believe me, if you would marry and would have a family of your own, you would realize that what you did in the past is not worth it.
The family is very important. Good character, good integrity, good relationships are always steady cornerstones which should be your priority.
Whether both of you are homosexuals or just experimenting, the answers are there- which path would you like to take?
Is it only pleasure which you are seeking?
But if things become highly difficult for you both, then be extra careful. The consequences of being found and discovered would really shatter your whole life.
2007-05-31 23:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by nomar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you live in a very closed traditional society and as i understand you like woman and not man, they will never accept that... there are only two lines of action:
stay with the family and accept your faith...geting married and having children, or takeing your life in your one hands, leaveing your family to live on your own. but you cant have them both if you stay with your family you will have to give up on your self, and if you wona live your life your own way you will have to give up your family. I can relate cause I come from the Jewish world and it's not that different, lackly for you you have a way of escape, you live in uk it's a free country...good luck
2007-06-01 00:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can run away to another country or stay there and go on with the family's wishes. If you love each other, don't listen to others, just do what is right for you two.
2007-05-31 23:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what going on is just lust dont worry to much if you like women thats cool if you like men thats cool too i know what your saying about what your family want from you but ask yourself WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOU dont live life only to keep others happy you also must be happy remember your 20 you have a life time in front of you do whats right for you if family members love you they will be happy when your happy good luck
2007-05-31 23:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by jackmeeko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lesbian. Get used to it . It won't go away. You can do what your parents and cultural upbringing want you to do and be miserable. Most people are scared to be themselves and allow others to run their lives. You see these people everywhere. Every once in a while I meet someone who follows their own interests and desires and in spite of the struggles they are content, vibrant and alive. WHO ARE YOU GOING TO BE...you?
2007-05-31 23:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by bob w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer call him. i realize it relatively is far less annoying pronounced than completed. Do something. do no longer think of roughly him. Wait awhile in the previous you confer with him, possibly a month or 2. If he has fallen out of love with then you he's love wasn't genuine.
2016-11-24 21:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by buono 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my country , we are able to do what we want to do. I wish I could give you advice, but I really don't know enough about your culture.
2007-05-31 23:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see dear you both are girls and what you are doing is wrong just stop it and get married to the person with whom you have too and start a new life and have kids, this might led you to very harmful situation, i hope you understand. you both should stop this immediately and carry on your future.
2007-05-31 23:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by puppy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not being able to be helping in this thing as I am busy with sheep that I be herding in field. But I hear from brother of other friend that London like that all time an no one care and you can do it in street....
2007-05-31 23:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Knownow't 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋