I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks and we recently disscused how we feel about each other. she said "i don't know what i feel but i know i want to hangout with you when i can." i asked a friend about this and she said that it sounds like she's interested but not totally sure yet. What do you think?
2007-05-31 22:51:09 · 18 answers · asked by face_melting_guitar_solo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree totally with your friend. At least this girl is honest enough to say that she's not entirely sure about how she feels. she could have lied and said yeah i really like you too... but she's being straight with you. Why not just go with the flow and see what happens? the less pressure put on her, the more favourable you'll be.
2007-05-31 22:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you need to pull away bro... demonstrate some value. You only want her if she wants to be with you. If not, best of luck. Find another girl or 3 to take out so that you not only have a distraction but you also act indifferent when you do chill w/ this girl. You will def lose her if you keep doing what you're doing. Don't hang all over her. The least attractive thing to a girl is a guy that's been whooped... Especially in the dating stages...
2007-05-31 23:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mike M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunds to me like she wants to get her feelings right before she decides to go strong she like you but she wants to make sure how much she likes you incase things dont work out and she ends up getting hurt she wants to make sure is it worth the risk?she gets on with you well but is scraed that things might not work out and she will lose you as a friend..what you need to do now my dear is assure her how you feel about her and that you do not want to hurt her and she should just go woth her heart..i know thats what i would want to hear if i was in her situation......good luck!x
2007-05-31 23:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Irishlass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, you in as a friend and she likes you a little more, but wants to be sure of anything before she starts a relationship, she has probably been hurt or wasted time in pointless relationships before and doesnt want to enter one again until she is more comfortable and sure of her feelings.
2007-05-31 23:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, actually, I share the same opinion as your friend, I think that the girl is interested but not sure yet about her feelings...the fact that she wants to hangout with you can be considered as a positive sign :)..I think,
2007-05-31 23:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by sunny_d7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, im a guy, but hey whatever, This girl i work with and i have been having this same conversation. I think it means she does have an interest. Oh yeah, for sure.
2007-05-31 22:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just that she is unsure how she feels, so you should just let her be, Let her work out how she feels and the only way you can do that is to let her. Give her some time to think and just do as much as you can to help! But don't get in her way! She just wants to get to know you!
2007-05-31 22:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by xStacex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she wants to get to know u better. Maybe she likes ur company and conversation! I do think that she has small feelings for u now but wants to get to know u first to see if it would work.
2007-05-31 23:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she wants to feel you out. If she senses you have strong, genuine feelings for her, then she may reciprocate.
I don't understand why she's so afraid of putting her own feelings (if any) out there. I'm going out on a limb on this one; go with a different answer.
2007-05-31 22:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by bobdanob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has always been a mystery to me as to why men want to make more of what a woman tells them.
She has told you, straight up.
She doesn't know if she feels about you but is willing to "hang out" with you and see what happens.
She doesn't know....
She is going to hang out and find out...
She said what she meant.
2007-05-31 23:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋