Singles & Dating - 27 May 2007

Sometimes he's nice, sometimes he's lovely, but most of the time he makes me feel like for him having a gf is a chore. He's incredibly sensitive to the idea that someone might be telling him what to do e.g. it was my birthday and we went out for dinner. He left for a cigarette when I was still eating my meal and cracked up at me because I was upset he left me to eat alone. Apparently that means I'm even telling him when he can and cannot have a cigarette. If we have a fight his behaviour becomes violent and he punches and kicks things and trashes my house. Of course, he usually has a few drinks in him. He moved himself in not that long after we started going out, because he doesn't have time to arrange to see me. He has better things to do.

Then he'll be lovely for a while, he'll be sweet and I'll melt, feel sorry for him and forgive him.

You know, after typing this out and listening to it I'm disgusted with myself for being so soft.

2007-05-27 23:49:33 · 28 answers · asked by kalimiel 2

k, my boyfriend (15), doesn't txt me everyday, i'm always the one who seems to be txting him first, but when i do, he always replies to my txts and we talk until midnight.

I know he likes me, but when he doesn't txt me each night, are his feelings the same? is he still thinking about me?

i can't help thinking because i am the first to txt him, i am going to look clingy.

is it just a guy thing? like they know you care about them and they really care about you but they forget to tell you that?

opinions please :)

thank you.

2007-05-27 23:36:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been seeing this girl for the past 2 months, she loves me but i dont love her. I would prefer us to go back to how we were afew months ago as friends but am worried that if i tell her i want to break up and just be friends she'll be devistated. Im just fed up with the fact she wont come over to my house, everytime she wants to see me i have to go there, she doesnt like films, i love them, she doesnt like ne sports or excersise, im very active. Were just not ment for each other. How do i break up with her nicely without hurting her too much?

2007-05-27 23:31:33 · 30 answers · asked by grezzor 2

he says have a good weekend to me when im alone when he had never spoken to me before
he's always looking over
i was told he was looking at me for ages in class
i catch him looking at me and he looks away
i made a move and talked to him for the first time recently, he blushed and was nice
everyone says he does like me what do u think? i like him too but we're both shy
i added him on messenger & my guy friend told me he was online and i told him he hadn't accepted me so he asked the guy i like why (theyre friends) and he said he didn't know it was me until after he denied my request and asked my guy friend if i was upset and to say sorry for him

Why didnt he just add me back? he couldve asked my friend for my screenname or maybe he didn't because my friend told him i went "away" (because i did)?
I'm scared to add him again incase he doesn't want me to add him or incase i seem obsessive, he rarely comes online

2007-05-27 23:31:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

also how should i resolve this problem so i can sleep better, my consience is getting the best of me

2007-05-27 23:31:07 · 38 answers · asked by younginc07 1

Is it ok to have crushes even when your in serious relationships. If so how do you deal with them if someone just wants to have a fling and needs someone to show some affection. nothing long term.

2007-05-27 23:30:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous 1

i like my guy mate and i kinda told him once. i accepted he wanted to be friends and now its been like 5 months since then. He's teasing me alot and i'm getting pissed off a bit cua he's calling me things on msn in a jokey way. At skl he smiles at me alot and stares. i'm getting the feeling he starting to fancy me and every quiz online says he fancies me bigtime. My friends told me not to look to into it and dont expect too much too soon and take it as it goes. i get them but i just cant help my feelings. what shall i do. He gets all shy around me at skl. yesterday he gave me his mobile to text him. he was like 'oi text me cuz i got to go' , i was like i dont even have ur number and he made up some cute story saying he gave his number to me at the beginning of term lol ....i think i would notice that i didnt have his number like ever.lol i think he did this cute excuse on purpose to get my number.. anyways..do u think its possible he likes me? and no way am i asking him out.

2007-05-27 23:28:32 · 5 answers · asked by exotic 2

21 years old and I fell for a 18 year old guy or should I say a teen. Is it bad that I like younger guys?I mean i would'nt ever date a guy under 18 that would be just crossing the line.!!!

2007-05-27 23:17:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello.Now I am wondering what makes men attractive and what men need to become attractive in order to successfully ask a girl who I like out. I am a international student and sometimes cannot speak English well. i look silly then. Please give me your advice. Thank you.

2007-05-27 23:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 23:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by pink 1

I am not talking about pleasing her in a sexual way or anything I am talking about how she always seems so bummed out. She doesnt ask me for anything though so shes not a goldigger. I really love her but I cant seem to find the personality in her that made me love her to begin with. We have been dating for a month if that helps with answering. Thanks

2007-05-27 23:10:55 · 4 answers · asked by spenmafia 1

2007-05-27 23:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by nelly 1

Should i be mad???
My BF is on the phone with me and he is also on his cell phone talking to his cousins cousin...in another language and she's a slut...and she wants him. I'm finding it hard not to be mad or annoyed but he has not even said a word to me in 7 min!!! Please help..i need advice...i never really get mad or Jealous...but i'm annoyed.

2007-05-27 22:32:53 · 14 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4

my ex is so different now she flirts and acts like nothing but i know she is hurt cause she texts me in the middle of the night, y point is why do they change and what do they look for is it just someone to mess around or even deeper?

2007-05-27 22:30:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive got a long distance relationship so me and my bf talk on the phone or either online... soo well i havnt talked to him since like 5 days and 5days ago he called as well n said i love u n ect n told me he wouldnt be online cuz he has work for like 3 days...ive been waiting 2 days for him to show up n i thought about writing offlines but then im like maybe he expects that. so well i called him today and he said "hello" and after i did he hung up..im trying to think positive that maybe he had UNI or waz at UNI or either sumone was there with him like his parents or siblings so he hung up...n i dunno do u guys think he did tht purposly..n does he miss me?

2007-05-27 22:04:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious to see what people think.. I AM really nice though. I get along w/everyone. I'm just not all that attractive. I've had boyfriends but I haven't found "the one"... I'm just curious if you all think it's possible for an unattractive girl to find a good guy... Please don't take this as I have low self esteem. I don't. I know I'm a great person.. just not a bombshell.

2007-05-27 21:46:34 · 20 answers · asked by YO Mama 2

So my wife thinks this is just another place for people to "hook up" and has been on my case out it.

I think she's just paraniod.

What are YOUR thoughs about it?

2007-05-27 21:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7

We have been together for almost 5 months now. We have lot's in common and we both want the same thing in a relationship. He lives about 5-6 hours away and I hate being away from him. I want to move down there and be with him. I'm just a little afraid on what my family will say. I want to be with him deeply. I love him and he loves me. Please, give me some good advice about this. I'm 23 years old. This is my FIRST real relationship with someone. Meaning, this one is real then the others I've been in. I've been hurt really bad with other guys I've been with. My boyfriend supports me all the way. He sticks up for me and protects me. He cares for me. We both cried together. We have a special bond. He makes me really happy and I make him really happy. I just hate being apart from him.

2007-05-27 21:39:54 · 18 answers · asked by Beautiful Soul 1

..would a guy Keep kissing you?
i am worried, because i am just barely experiencing kissing for the first time from this guy.. and he Knows they are my first kisses.... but i wonder if he thinks i am a bad kisser... he doesn't Tell me i am good or compliment me or Anything like that.. but he does Smile really hard at me afterwards... so does that mean he likes them? or is he just being nice and polite or something??

2007-05-27 21:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by sweetaction 2

how should i console my best friend who just had a break up. it was her first relationship and she is missing him bad..she says she wants him back, made an attempt by calling him up again. they spoke for just 5 minutes and kept down. now she again wanna call but i said no as now he should call her. tell me what should i say to make her feel better. i was never in any relationship so dont have a clue.

2007-05-27 21:18:01 · 4 answers · asked by aint_i_hoot_madonna 1

what does it feel like?

2007-05-27 20:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Xx.Emo_Rainbow.xX 1

I know a few attractive girls who never dated in high school, and I never thought it weird, but a few of my friends think it's odd that I haven't had a boyfriend. I never really wanted to go out with anybody and am actually afraid of actually telling a boy i like him and starting a relationship. Is that weird?

2007-05-27 20:56:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anna 2

and she has never had a man in her entire life, and has been
single all her life, what does it mean?

2007-05-27 20:52:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

you're ideal lover. you only get 1 word remember.

2007-05-27 20:49:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

How frequently and how long each time. this is assuming you are with your ideal partner.. say Brad Pitt.. but with the ideal equipment..

Also.. how can he tell when you are fully satisifed(without asking)

And how can he tell when you aren't in the mood(without asking)..

Because you ladies know you won't tell.. guys are just supposed to know,, haha

2007-05-27 20:45:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 20:43:47 · 9 answers · asked by Singletary 2

SO i have msn but i have yahoo internet. which msgr is better? Any one have yahoo msgr. i have no friends on that s-h-i-t.

2007-05-27 20:21:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. I was having a chat with my wife about some movies we watched. We got chatting about a movie we watched called "THE DEVILS REJECTS"
She asked me If I fancied one of the actresess in it (Sheri Moon Zombie). Deep down she new I found her attractive but I initially said I didnt like her. So she kept on at me saying...YOU DO! YOU DO! So I admitted that Sherri Moon Zombie was an attractive women.
Her reaction to this was appauling. She made me feel like a pig for finding another person attractive.
Here are some of the quotes she said to me....
" All you men are the F**ING same, you can never just like one women!!"
" You find a her attractive, shes the oppisite to what I look like. Why do you fancy someone who looks completely different from me?"
" Dont you dare moan at me when Im on a diet, beacsuse you havent got the right to! coz you fancy a SKINNY blond"

These a just a few quotes that she hit me with. She made me feel as though Im not allowed to find other woemen

2007-05-27 20:20:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 12 years old and need help I am so hornny. What do I do?

2007-05-27 20:10:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-27 20:09:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous