ive got a long distance relationship so me and my bf talk on the phone or either online... soo well i havnt talked to him since like 5 days and 5days ago he called as well n said i love u n ect n told me he wouldnt be online cuz he has work for like 3 days...ive been waiting 2 days for him to show up n i thought about writing offlines but then im like maybe he expects that. so well i called him today and he said "hello" and after i did he hung up..im trying to think positive that maybe he had UNI or waz at UNI or either sumone was there with him like his parents or siblings so he hung up...n i dunno do u guys think he did tht purposly..n does he miss me?
2007-05-27 22:04:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he tells you that he's going to be "unavailable" for a few days, and then hangs up when you call, there are BIG RED FLAGS awaving! He's trying to get some space between the two of you, for whatever reasons.
To find out what, you have to talk to him, if you can in person, and see what is going on. Even if he's uncomfortable with that, know that it is the very least he owes you.
If he had classes, he could have told you so. No one hangs up like that just because there is family there, more likely to do that if another girl is there, one who is unaware that there's someone else.
Take care girl!
2007-05-27 22:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming you've known him long enough to gain his trust and he's gained yours... hmm. i've been through this same situation so i'm gonna tell you from a guy's PoV.
there are a few possible things that could have happened..
1. if you trust him enough, then something really did come up and he just can't talk.
2. since long dist. relationships are not as "real" as regular ones, there were times when i still felt single, so i just didn't really pay much attention to her calls. but eventually you will talk to him and everything should be ok.
3. he's got other priorities in his life. unfortunately, and let's hope not, but maybe you're not one of his main ones. (i don't think it's this though.. but i had to include it)
i can't give you the exact answer because only he knows, but i can tell you if you trust him enough and you've known him long enough, he does miss you and somethings bothering him. you should be hearing from him soon.
2007-05-28 05:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by eiknarf737 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about coincidences! I just logged into your answer after my guy hung up on me saying he wont be online, but he loves me. And we have a distant relationship too .. He's in the US, I'm in downtown Asia!!!
Don't worry, trust your heart and intuition. I'm pretty sure he loves you, esp.since he called you and told you - 3days means 3days - you should wait!!! Perhaps someone was around him after all ... why don't you send offline messages telling him about what you are feeling, or sms him. If he doesn't reply in, like a week, you better investigate as to what's happening.
Good luck and I hope everything works out fine for you!
2007-05-28 05:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by DollyBrownEyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but I think he was with another girl. Long distance relationships are very risky!
2007-05-28 05:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋