My boyfriend of a year and a half just revealed to me that he feels like I am his close friend more so than a girlfriend. Although he says he still wants to be with me. I ask him why and he says because I don't do things as far physically as he would like. I am saving myself for marriage, and feel like some of the things he wants to do might put me in compromising positions. So although I like to hold hands, kiss, cuddle, and hug...things of that nature...always letting him know I love him, he still feels as though that's not enough. I asked him if he felt he might want to date other people if he was unsatisfied with me, and it took him awhile to answer...but he eventually said no, he loves me...he's just frustrated at having to wait. I feel like I haven't the slightest what to do. We are in our mid 20s. I don't want to compromise my values, but I can't figure if he truly thinks Im what he wants. He is also afraid that if we get married Ill not change.
2007-05-27
10:55:17
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Heather L
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