what does it mean to be shallow in choosing a dater?

Question

likewise above...see Andrew in Chinese, told me Im as shallow as a shower...we were talking about a girl I liked and what not..but tell me what being shallow means...

Answer 1

Normally someone who is shallow likes someone only because of their looks, and will only date someone because of their looks....they normally dont care if they have a crappy personality or how the person they likes treats others....you are normally just shallow because looks are all that matters to you.

Answer 2

There is no standard definition of what constitutes "depth" in this sense, but usually an individual is considered deep if they seem to be interesting, original, creative, philosophical or intelligent. By contrast, somebody who appears superficial, naive, materialistic, petty, unimaginative or conformist is likely to be denounced as shallow, although simply lacking intelligence is not a criterion on its own; a number of people called shallow may have relatively high intelligence, but may be concerned with aspects of life that are superficial.

Answer 3

if u look at them and there ugly and u don't like them that means that u are shallow. Or if u see right through there personality.

Answer 4

It means you're not looking at the whole person. You may be just stopping at her beauty and not appreciating her personality.

Answer 5

it means that you just look for beauty in the outside rather the inside...its actually a bad thing...since your looking at girs for what they look like and not what their like

Answer 6

it means you only go for girls you think are hot or that you don't seem to care about them as long as they're good looking.

Answer 7

it means concerned only with what is obvious (I got that from dictionary.com
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