I mean my boyfriend isn't a bad person, he actually is really sweet, but i feel that sometimes he cuts in on my friend time. I have a friend that moved out of state and recently came back to visit. She's my BEST friend and her and the rest of our little clique wanted to go out. He got pissed and i wasn't really able to spend time with her, because he said she has a "reputation." What do i do?
2007-05-27 10:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a new boyfriend.
If he's going to be controlling over you hanging out with your girl friends now.....what else will that lead to?
Their little quirks that bug you...they don't go away, they just get worse.
Just remember that.....
Don't settle....you'll find someone better out there. There are PLENTY of men out there....better ones....who ALLOW you to have friends....
Just something to think about....
2007-05-27 10:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a trust issue. I also feel that is was not right for him to cut in on the time spent with your best friend. You have to put your foot down and tell him that while you understand where he is coming from that he cannot dictate who you see and when. Your friend has the reputation not you. If he controls you this much now, I just wonder how much he will do it in the future. Be a strong woman and voice your concerns. If he truly loves and trusts you, then he will understand. I wish you luck.
2007-05-27 10:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? In any case why are you letting his pissyness cramp your time with a friend from out of town? It's her rep not yours, if he doesn't trust you then yours is going to be a sad relationship. Get out now if he is controlling. You will be sorry if you don't stand up for yourself and set the limit on his demands now.
2007-05-27 10:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why didn't you invite him to go along? Maybe he felt left out and wanted to meet your friend. My best friend that I haven't seen in 7 years is planning to visit this state this weekend, and my husband is coming along. It's not a control thing, either. That's how couples do things.
2007-05-27 10:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to shut the hell up, you're not on his personal time clock and from what you heard, he has a bad reputation thinking that you should be. Then dump him.
2007-05-27 10:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sit your boyfriend down and let him know how you feeling, be real with him and hope that he is doing that in return. Tell him that you are old enough to know right from wrong and that he needs to trust you more.
2007-05-27 10:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either talk to him about it & make him understand its not okay to try & manipulate you in that way, or you'll have to break up with him (in my opinion), bc if he's trying to control you like that- its not a good sign.
2007-05-27 10:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by Muffingirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ain't going to cut for you. You are wasting your time with him honey. Get rid of him and get another one.
2007-05-27 10:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Grad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that mf to get a life. He needs friends of his own..
Tell him I said so!
Dont let him run your life
2007-05-27 10:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Brookyn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋