I have been with this guy for over three years. We get along really well. He is obsessed with his jeep, which i dont mind cause i like it too. But he tends to spend a lot of time and money on it. I gave him some money so he can work on it. And now every time i talk about saving for our future he blows it off. I love him to death but im tired of not having the assurrance i need. He use to talk about our futures all the time and all the things he wants for us but he spends his money so fast im not sure that is possible. I don't know what to do plz help.
2007-05-27 08:59:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit him down and talk with him about the plans you both had, and where you both want to go now. Plans change all thoughout your lifetime but if it can be helped they should not change to the point where you loose sight of them. Good luck
2007-05-27 09:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself, 'I'm tired of not having the assurrance I need. Is that who you want to spend your life with?
2007-05-27 16:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him for a walk at night through a park where their are plenty of bums and tell him this is how we will end up if you dont stop spending money on your pee shooter, good luck
2007-05-27 16:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋