my BF friend tells me hes cheating on me !! wat do i do !?

Question

ME--->> hey whats u been doin ?
i aint talk to yu in a good while ..


bf FRIEND--->>o chillin about to go to the strip club with yo man rickey.

ME-->>what he aint tall me nuthin bout goin to no strip club !


bf FRIEND--->> o yea me and yo man rickey goin now, so i talk to u later on big head.

ME---->>nah huh .
ya`ll well he better not do nuthin he ain`t suppose to !
and ight i`ll talk to yu later on .

bf FRIEND --->>girl rickey was on dem girls dam they was all on him im hatein.

and so ever since yesterday night i haven`t talked to him about my bf rickey called me today like 2 hrs ago . but i`m still so mad at this incident that happen last nite . and i just don`t know what to do .
but part of me thinks that my BF friend is lein cus he did once before tell my BF rickey how i told him that i was single and didnt have no Bf. . but i am goin to call my BF and talk about it with him. i just dont want them two to stop talkin ! & get into a fight .

Answer 1

Move on. He could pass on STD's to you... and god knows what else. Don't try to get even, it's petty and let's the other person have one over you too "you cheated too"... why stoop to that level. Just tell him it's over and cut ALL connections. Best way to get over a break-up... don't talk to him, get out with friends, and get busy.

Answer 2

You should start on nice to him and then just act like nothing happened. Then when you can confirm that all of this did in fact happen, start giving him what he really deserves. You should find another man to go out with fakely. Then when he has to talk to you, slowly tell him what you learned. If he admits it is all true, just say that you don't want to hear about something like this again or it's over! And if he doesn't admit it then keep having a relationship with him but slowly back out and add on to the other man you were faking with.

Answer 3

The truth is that you cannot be 100% sure. The fact is that people tend to use themselves as the yardstick by which they measure others. This means that a trusting person would likely be a trustworthy person. A highly suspicious person could be hiding something. etc. Sometimes a dishonest person can mislead you, so it pays to be cautious. eventually their true colors will show.

Answer 4

the only way to know for sure if your bf is cheating on you is to catch him or ask him about it.

sometimes hear-say isn't enough to go on. we have friends (sometimes) that would rather see us miserable than happy.

first you should tell your bf that his homey dimed him out saying he was all up on some girls when they went out the other night. then ask him if it's true. that should get your conversation going.
HOWEVER if your bf accuses you of not trusting him then he may be trying to throw you off the truth.

Answer 5

You need to talk to Rickey and his friend about it face to face. It is important to know the real truth!

Answer 6

well u shoudlnt believe something unless he tells you himself. what u should do is approach the problem face on. just talk to him. tell him that someone was tellin u that he was cheating and see if he can face you. if he doesnt look you straight in the eyes then that means he cant be honest with you to your face. if someone tells you the truth they must look u in the eyes. if they cant then something is up. just ask him whats going on and if he says yes then find someone else. your better off with out him.

Answer 7

Dump him. Meet new guy in English grammar classes.

Answer 8

Dump him, going to strip clubs isn't his only problem.

Answer 9

i didnt read it but if he is cheating on you just make sure he is first teach him a lesson then break up with him!!!!!!hes a jerk that doesnt deserve you

Answer 10

Just get another boyfriend.