k, my boyfriend (15), doesn't txt me everyday, i'm always the one who seems to be txting him first, but when i do, he always replies to my txts and we talk until midnight.
I know he likes me, but when he doesn't txt me each night, are his feelings the same? is he still thinking about me?
i can't help thinking because i am the first to txt him, i am going to look clingy.
is it just a guy thing? like they know you care about them and they really care about you but they forget to tell you that?
opinions please :)
thank you.
2007-05-27 23:36:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well in my opinion i believe he cares and thinks about you its just that some guys (like me) have to have someone start the conversation for them.
2007-05-27 23:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by furystar101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he does like you, a lot of guys would rather wait until you txt them so that they don't look clingy... like it's okay to have the girl run after them but uncool if they do the same thing. The best thing would be if you skipped texting him for a night every few nights to avoid looking clingy... and other than that just do what feels right and don't play games because people see right through that... good luck!
2007-05-27 23:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Brush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion? make him sweat out the fact that you may not always be the one to txt or call first. dont give him the power of knowing you will always txt him or call him first. after about a week of him NOT txt you. drop him. he is not worth it. if he starts calling or txt first, then you can start back up again. not every time though. see what i am saying?
2007-05-27 23:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sending txt every night. It might become routine and if for any reason one night you are not able to send him any txt he might get wierd ideas about the relationship. Also it is better always not to be "clingy".
2007-05-27 23:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Angelic Scars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldnt txt him tonight and see if he says anything tomorrow and if he does you no he still thinks of you because he was waiting for a txt from you but if he doesnt say anything say it to him that you want to no why you always txt him first and you want him to txt you sometimes!!
2007-05-27 23:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of guys just don't know what to say first. I'd bet if you didn't text him so often, he would start texting you more often if he really cares about you. Don't expect him to do it all of the time. Some guys are just that way.
Just don't sit around and wait for it. Enjoy your life. If he texts you great, if it doesn't don't feel so insecure, there's always tomorrow!!
2007-05-27 23:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you put him to a test. dont txt him for a while and see what happens. but i think he doesn't txt you because he knows you will text him.
2007-05-27 23:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its a guy thing. Sometimes though it depends on your guy. Your guy is probably not the type who sweeps you of your feet. I'm not saying he's not a good boyfriend. Maybe he really just wants you to be first to text.
2007-05-27 23:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need to text you every night. Why don't you just not text him one day & see... if he doesnt text you then don't worry. Maybe he is just letting you make the first move all the time because he's used to it now, i dont know..
2007-05-27 23:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.well..its not a guy thing.maybe he is shy to talk to u 1st. besides your boyfriend is 15 u might possibly be younger..its hard but its kinda of the truth..both of u r still young,u find your soul mate once u r older and independent
2007-05-27 23:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by james t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋