Singles & Dating - 31 May 2007

Hey, I'm mixed. I am half Filipino and half American-Indian. Does that make me less unattractive? I think I am unique... and somewhat attractive... what do you think?

2007-05-31 05:55:13 · 15 answers · asked by Sooo. 3

He finished with me six weeks ago and i was absolutely devestated, he ended it because it was too full on for him as he's 22 and i'm 24 and he didn't think we wanted the same things and he felt he was too young to get in a relationship. We were together for 18mths and lived together. I moved out and rented a studio on my own (where i am now) and went on a few dates to distract myself but nothing serious. i met a nice guy who has overwhelmed me with his interest and i can see serious potential but i met my ex last night and he's now saying he doesn't know what he wants anymore he thinks he wants me back. i'm so in limbo, how do i make a decision on what to do???

2007-05-31 05:52:58 · 24 answers · asked by Laura B 1

Hello! I need a guy opinion here, he told me that he girlfriend cheated on him, after they were 3 years together, and now he doesn't want any serious relationship...We've dated once, instantly develped eye contact, made out, but didn't sleep together, and since then talk on the phone almost every day. I like him and he seems to like me as well. We're going to meet once again and talk about his past expiriance...Do you think he's afraid of being lied and cheated once again?

2007-05-31 05:45:44 · 13 answers · asked by Maria D 2

Oh no this is very bad.
I have written previously about a guy I know is bad for me and has too many red flags.

Still I am being swayed by this toxic boyman.
He is nearly mid 30s and his issues are as follows:
1. -Self proclaimed vanity & shallowness. He wants lipo & hair plugs even though he is more handsome than Ewan Macgeror & a young Brad Pitt.
2. - Bad with money. Cheap and an overspender.
3. - Drinks. A lot. Regularly. 4-7 times a week.
4. - Had a horrible heartbreak when his exFiancee left him before wedding. Has admitted missing her even though its been a year.
Why on earth am I being smitten by him ?
Because he says all the right sweet things and is very charming, has shown vulnerability, somehow spins his faults to sound sad and endearing, we think the same way, same humor, both want marriage/kids, same religion/politics and I find him hella hot. And then I justify liking him because I'm aware of my own faults and still think I am worthy of love, so why not him.
I AM so screwed. I just looked in the bathroom mirror and yelled at myself how f^cked I am.
And it's not that I don't have self esteem or other options. I have several really great guys who want to date me but I feel cold towards them.
I've gone out on two dates and thought about mr. toxic the whole time.
One guy kissed me and i honestly imagined mr toxic's face instead.

If one of my friends or a daughter, if I had one , told me about this guy I would freak out on them.
I'm just comforted at least that he keeps wanting to see me and I'm putting him off. But dont know how much longer I can.
Can anyone talk sense into me ?

2007-05-31 05:39:36 · 26 answers · asked by shirishria 1

hello my name is andrea and well i need some help ive tried to explan to my bf that sometimes im really busy but he just doesnt understand and stuff you can tell her all the time but he doesnt lisen i dont want tobreak up with him but i dont know what to do about it and this summer im going to the usa and he wants to go but its only to b e family and even if i tell him no he gonna anyways that just how he is!but i want to know how to get away from him so i dont get mad anymore he like wants to know my ever step where i am why im there how do i fix the problem???

2007-05-31 05:19:46 · 5 answers · asked by it never ever ends 1

ok so I've been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now. and well he has a drinking problem. Not that he drinks too much but when he does drink he goes crazy. He gets mad at everybody around him and it's caused him to get jumped a few times. anyways he got rough with me a couple times but he's just totally different person when he drinks. He has told me he won't drink anymore because i told him that if he does i'll leave him because he's risking him flipping out and hurting me or someone else. Well I love him very much but I like to go out. I don't go out often probably just once every 2 months or something, and I feel that I don't have a problem with drinking and it's only gonna be so long b4 i can't go out to clubs and stuff so i want to enjoy it. since he would never let me go alone I want him to go but not to drink. Does that make me a *****? I really love him , but when he's been drinking he has hit me, hit other people, got arrested, beat up, and busted my windshield

2007-05-31 05:19:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm friends w/ this girl, who use to know i had a crush on her. i really love her now, but she has a bf, who isn't very supportive of her so she comes to me with her emotional issues. i asked her for advice about this girl i found out likes me. the girl i like said
"go for it, just make sure u aren't involved with anyone else first. It's amazing how much someone can like another person but not be willing to make the move. It's amazing how many people you might be able to get with who you won't get with because you think you have no chance. But actually you do have a chance. Take those chances :)"
then i said what if u like a person who is inv. with someone else, she said "so what if they are in a relationship? maybe they aren't happy. u should at least tell her."
does she know that i am talking about her? what should i do?

2007-05-31 05:03:07 · 12 answers · asked by the w 1

2007-05-31 05:01:53 · 10 answers · asked by Cowgirl 2

Everybody can have a free smile on me. - think about the last time that it hurt because you laughed that much....no matter how long ago.... now think again why you laughed.

You now should have a free smile on your face.

Your welcome :)

2007-05-31 05:00:14 · 21 answers · asked by michael k 1

2007-05-31 04:58:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

like when i walk w/ her she looks so pretty n show her cleavage but i feel bad cuz other guys are looking at it but its mine

2007-05-31 04:53:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If all three of these girls were standing talking to each other which one would you approach first?

www.myspace.com/62230510
www.myspace.com/55753312
www.myspace.com/105677454

Purely superficial and extremely shallow I know, but I am curious to know which one guys find most attracted and WHY!.

2007-05-31 04:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by tjnw79 4

Me and my boyfriend of almost two yrs broke up in April..and now i have these sudden urges to sleep around! I would NEVER EVER do that...but why am I feeling these urges?! It is freaking me out!

2007-05-31 04:46:11 · 23 answers · asked by Shannon 1

well a few days ago I was driving around for no reason and i caught my daughter kissing a guy, I went in to check it out and the guy she was kissing wasnt her boyfriend!!! well my daughter's boyfriend is abusive and if he found out about this he would probably beat her, i only allow her to date him because he is quaterback of the football team, fame is in his blood, I was just thinking that he should know about this, I know i am wrong to allow him to date her but he is way bigger than me and would probably hit me or something, besides whenever I tell on my daughter to him he gives me a cookie, not just any cookie a ben and jerry cookie, those cookies are huge if you didnt know... anyways should i tell on her? I think that he has the right to know, oh yeah she is 15 so I think that she will learn her lesson this time...

2007-05-31 04:42:39 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous

not just looks but personality

2007-05-31 04:37:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't see any problem at all. What do you think?

2007-05-31 04:29:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok...say you have a girlfriend or boyfriend that broke up with you for somebody that think doesn't deserve him/her. Then they break up and your ex calls you toa see what you are doing(sometimes daily)
and you tell him/her that you miss them alot and they miss you alot to...do you think you'll end up going back out with them again??

2007-05-31 04:28:28 · 2 answers · asked by Megan R. =] 1

tell me everything, from the best to the worst, craziest, most creative, zaniest, quirkiest, etc....

2007-05-31 04:28:14 · 2 answers · asked by houndingme 2

2007-05-31 04:25:32 · 43 answers · asked by thischick 2

she cursed me out.. i mean i am a good looking guy I can't be with someone who looks like a cow..

2007-05-31 04:25:15 · 31 answers · asked by John A 1

Okay. My bestfriend, who is a guy, meet this girl off the internet. He had a good first date with her at a restaurant. Then she invited him to her house. Well, he is alergic to cats and she has three. He also said she has a dirty house. Well , they fell asleep watching tv. She woke him up at 1am and they went to the bedroom to sleep. At 5am she woke him up for a booty call. after that he left. He doesn't want to see her again because of her Dirty HOUSE! How does he let her down without her thinking it was the sex? Thanks!

2007-05-31 04:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by catdogpenny 3

2007-05-31 04:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by Charles B 2

i liked this guy, and he knew about it, but he would always try not to be around me. Like if I stood near him he would go somewhere else, or if i was walking by, he would try to avoid walking near me. if he doesn't like me, i could understand why he ignores me, but why would he take it this far?

2007-05-31 04:17:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

wow i was talking to my best guy friend late, see he called me at like 1 and we talked to 5 30. Um, he is acting like he likes me, but i am trying to avoid the subject, cause last time he did that, he almost ruined our friendship and i shunned him for four months. And when we were talking on the phone, he said, " i love you princess." And i didn't really do anything about it cause he was kinda out of it. But the night before we were up late on the phone and he said that i made a cute little grunting moaning noise. Its just so awkward cause he is my best friend and i can and do tell him everything. I don't know if i should just let it slide and forget about it, but i don't wanna ruin our friendship because he is so sweet and i love him so much (not in that kinda way). He is like the ultimate best friend and i don't want to screw that up again. If you have any advice our similar experiances, please answer!

2007-05-31 03:53:54 · 7 answers · asked by mekaylahall 2

I was wondering what guys think about a woman that they may have a "relationship" or "friendship" with. Do they look at her like she's cheap or a whore or like she doesnt deserve respect or is not respecting herself?

Or do they look at her as someone they have a relationship with that isnt stressful, that they feel comfortable with & free of drama, and they actually appreciate this person alot?

Is there anything wrong with having a relationship with a guy that involves sex because you have a strong sexual attraction to this person & you also like them alot but you dont really want anything serious & binding, like a "promise" or "marriage" down the road - or a commitment as if you were in a committed relationship? Does this have to mean that the guy has no respect for the woman & is just out to "have his cake & eat it too" or use the woman for sex only?

2007-05-31 03:51:59 · 15 answers · asked by LaLa 1

My ex and I were together for almost 4 years. I bought a house and he lived there with me and another roomie. In that time, he only paid rent three times in 1.5 years. He is 25 and only had to pay $400/ month to live there. The only time we go out is if I pay. He just takes and takes and the minute he had any money he bought something for himself. I didn't even nag him for the first year because I thought he was going through a rough time and I saw that this was a pattern. I am all about standing by my man and i did that for a long time. I love him but I didnt see a future with him since he is too lazy to even be able to take care of himself. I felt like his mother and that does not help the sex life. He moved out a few months before we broke up and now lives with his friend, my cousin, and pays him nothing to live their either. He said "I would rather take advantage of my friends then my girlfriend". I am so hurt. Should I have continued to support him?

2007-05-31 03:43:50 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie V 1

2007-05-31 03:34:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 4 years it looks as if me and my fiance are calling it quits, This is the hardest thing for me to go throw and can you give me some advice on how to get over this, it hurts real bad but I also know its for the best he has to many issues and baggage and an ex wife who is crazy. But I love him and spent alot of time with him, what kind of things help to mend a broken heart????

2007-05-31 03:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by shorty 1

At the age of 17-18, how would you feel if the person you truly, deeply love, the love of your life, accidentally gets you pregnant? He will always be there for you forever, no matter what.

1. Would you keep the child?

2. Would you feel like your life is ruined?

2007-05-31 03:18:27 · 21 answers · asked by Nicky_Nolstorm 1

2007-05-31 03:15:55 · 30 answers · asked by Stephen O 1