Okay. My bestfriend, who is a guy, meet this girl off the internet. He had a good first date with her at a restaurant. Then she invited him to her house. Well, he is alergic to cats and she has three. He also said she has a dirty house. Well , they fell asleep watching tv. She woke him up at 1am and they went to the bedroom to sleep. At 5am she woke him up for a booty call. after that he left. He doesn't want to see her again because of her Dirty HOUSE! How does he let her down without her thinking it was the sex? Thanks!
2007-05-31 04:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by catdogpenny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ps, he just moved back home with his parents cause of lost off job, now he's working but needs to save up for own place. He isn't dirty she is....He is trying to have a relationship, that's why he just stayed to sleep until morning, he wasn't expecting anything. She offered it. Does he just quit talking to her?
2007-05-31 04:36:39 · update #1
well he shld tell her hes allergic to cats as well as her house
2007-05-31 04:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still likes her - he should just invite her to his house - and say he simply can't stay at hers because of her cats - you can't argue with a medical condition!
Or if he doesnt want to see her again - whats worse - someone telling you your house is dirty - and therefore not wanting to see you, or leaving someone wondering whether they are not good in bed?
2007-05-31 11:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why should he care if he hurts her feelings? Even if that is the case, he can't stop seeing her without hurting her feelings. Just no way around that so don't try, all that does is make it worse. When a person tries to not hurt someones feeling when breaking up, you are more likely to do just that.
Just tell him to stop talking to her, after a while she will leave him alone. Works out the same way.
2007-05-31 11:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should of said umm i am alergic to your cat.. I don't think it will work out.. we can be friends... from right there.. why did he keep on staying there until 5am?? huh??? so your best friend need to learn how to tell her stright up... is that make sense???
For me I always find something between us I will not ingore it and keep on going??? that crazy.. now he bang a woman??? damn... what kind best friend you have???
Again he should of told her beginning and notice the house is dirty and he done nothing??? so his fault his mess and he is dirty and he need to clean up himself.
2007-05-31 11:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can meet somewhere else like at a bar and if they want to be intimate again they can always go to his house instead...
2007-05-31 11:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Mac Dre!!! 707 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell her that this is not going to work. We r 2 different people and we don't have any thing in common.
2007-05-31 11:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get rid of your cats and clean your house. Maybe he'll come back over then!
2007-05-31 11:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by 46&2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to clean and he will stay..he saw the house dirty but had sex so he cant complain to much...
2007-05-31 11:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what he thinks about her house and cats, and also how he feels about her.
2007-05-31 11:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him what he sees.this would b the best explanation.
2007-05-31 11:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by micky007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋