Me and my boyfriend of almost two yrs broke up in April..and now i have these sudden urges to sleep around! I would NEVER EVER do that...but why am I feeling these urges?! It is freaking me out!
2007-05-31 04:46:11 · 23 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel like dating and not getting serious just go with your feelings. Many people will say I love and them say good by because deep down inside they feel as you do. At least you are being honest about how you feel. Is this what young people do before committing to marriage? Isn't experience better than naivety?
Of course you are fighting your personal feelings with what is acceptable in society. I say to hell with societal views and live life on your own terms. When I get older I don't want to be sitting is a rocking chair lamenting the things I wanted to do but didn't.
2007-05-31 04:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because for 2 yrs you were with one person and now you are wondering what it is like to sample the goods. Nothing wrong with that along as both parties agree and you are practicing safer sex. Have fun.
2007-05-31 11:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be that you miss the closeness and love that you shared with your ex which is causing these urges. it won't be easy to get over your relationship but i think the best way to heal is to spend some time with your close friends instead of sleeping around.
2007-05-31 12:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by skb_leo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a sex drive. Everyone has it, and everyone feels sexual feelings toward someone, most people towards several others.
Most people just don't talk about it. Theres nothing wrong with you for feeling that way; feelings don't have an off switch. That's why people are measured by their actions.
2007-05-31 11:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by smashcruiserarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because,you were with the same guy for two years.You should not act on these urges.To do so would be a big mistake.Start by dating again,then take it from there.
2007-05-31 11:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sexual and you might of had a great sex life with your ex so now you have an urge to have sex its normal many feel like that after a break up. so just try to control yourself and if your going to do your thing please just have one partner at a time
2007-05-31 11:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be because you were having sex regularly before, and now you have to get used to not having it all the time. Try masturbating more. Have a nice day!
2007-05-31 11:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you're just wondering what else is out there that you've been missing . . . wait until you're totally over the breakup before you date anyone else so you're sure you are doing it for the RIGHT reasons!!
2007-05-31 11:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your depressed or just remembering that causes you that.you should try going to the doctor maybe he has a better answer then me.
2007-05-31 11:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It human nature to get those thoughts. As long as you don't act on them don't worry about it.
2007-05-31 11:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jerbson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋