Me and my boyfriend are living together and we have been together for a year, im 24 and have been married already to an a abusive man, i moved in too quick with this new guy..so im moving out, probably in about 4 weeks, waiting for my place to be ready. But i feel really disconnected already from my boyfriend and it doesnt feel good at all, its painful and almost is like driving a knife in my guts, i actually feel sick to my stomach..its just hard to still be living together, after knowing ill be moving out soon, ugh, its just not a fun time in my life right now and im not sure how to go about these feelings??...i have trouble with men and need to be on my own, but i will miss my boyfriend alot..so much, i love him. In order for us to have any sort of future together i need to figure myself out first! He said he would wait a few years for me..so i can get my crap together. Anyways, im just sick of this sick feeling and not sure how to cheer up
2007-05-31 19:39:24 · 4 answers · asked by *CoUrAgE* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least you've decided that in order to get yourself together, you have to move out on your own. You've pointed yourself in the right direction and now you just have to follow through. Sadly, I have no effective suggestions as to how to cheer you up. I can only say that you have taken the most effective action, the "cold turkey" approach. It's great to feel wanted, but we all have to learn to stand on our own two feet at some point. It's better to learn now.
2007-05-31 19:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by rec4lms 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but I don't understand, you can either live together or you can't. what does time have to do with it. if you can't live with him now why do you think you will be able to in 6 months or a year or what ever.
I really feel for you but by moving in and now moving out has really hurt your relationship, big time.
finding the right person isn't just about the person, its timing as well, obviously your timing is out I just hope you guys can recover while you sort your self out.
don't let your ex still hurt you by ruining your chance with this guy or future partners. remember whats important in life. family, fun, laughter, happiness.
2007-05-31 19:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cooter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have figured him out before you moved in
2007-05-31 19:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LEARN TO BE HAPPY ALONE!!!! Until you do this, you will never be happy with anyone.Period.
2007-05-31 19:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋