We have great sex but I want to put him overboard. What can I do that will drive him crazy?
2007-05-31 19:37:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I say difficult I mean difficult to please.The sex is great thats not the issue but I really want to do something that will drive him overboard. He's always making a big deal about pleasing me and making things extra special and I want to return the favor. He won't tell me what I can do some I'm doing my research. Please give me some input.
2007-06-02 16:05:44 · update #1
Bring friends
2007-05-31 19:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Big Daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking him point blank might not work. See, some of us guys tend to not want to be very open about some of the kinkier, more playful things we'd like to try in the bedroom, for fear of freaking out or offending our woman. Some guys can imagine wildly freaky stuff. I recommend you research some on the web and take note of different sexual kinks, fetishes, roleplays, and positions you find that you would be willing to try and haven't tried already. Then, pick either the one you like the most or the one you think he will like the most (be honest!) and just strike up a casual conversation about it with him. Maybe that you saw it on the web and was just curious. You have to show some interest in whatever you discuss so that he doesn't defensively come back with "Oh, NO No...I'd never do something like that!" If you hint at some genuine interest, it opens the door for him so he can confess to his fantasies if it truly interests him. Trust me...90% of what you could ever possibly come up with he would probably be willing to try. This sets up the possibilities of surprising him in the bedroom.
2007-06-09 02:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by luckynjoe4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your question exposes your wrong value system from the 'get go'.
You should NOT be having sex with anyone you are not married to. This is sin against yourself, the other person, society and of course, God.
You are breaking the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 7th (especially), 8th, 9th, and the 10th Commandments.
You are terribly in sin and in serious need of repentance and fogiveness and a changed lifestyle. You can write me if you need serious counsel and and willing to change.
gomitch2
www.gomitch2.com
2007-06-08 23:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by gomitch2 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I almost agree with Shaleen but instead of a finger, surprise him with a friggin frozen zuccinni in his ****- Get him good girl!
2007-06-09 01:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dizzle O' Diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out what he likes. say something like "i saw the strangest thing online today...." and tell him about bondage or some other sexually exploring thing that you haven't done. see what his reaction is.
then wait a few days and spring it on him.
email me and i will tell you what really put my bf over the top. ha!
2007-06-08 17:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hand cuff him to the bed, then leave and come back mabey 10 minutes later and have wild......well u no!
hope it works :]
2007-06-09 00:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more information:
How is he difficult, if you have great sex? Do you have great sex together, or with other people?
2007-06-01 02:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by mrquestion 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk on the phone while with him...I don't know if I understand your question. Do you want to dump him? Overpleassure him? To pleassure try deep throating.
2007-06-01 02:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by orejitas285 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn some yoga.
2007-06-01 02:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hide the remote with the beer.
2007-06-01 02:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋