i havent seen my bloke since we came back off holiday,he dumped my suitcase outside my door without even letting me know it was there, we had no rows on holiday it was great,we had a argument just as we got back on land, havent heard from him for a since, ive tried txtin him and my friends have aswell but he hasnt replyed back, he loved my mates as much as me. why wont he get back in touch with me. ( the argument by the way was about him not telling his girl-mate that he went away with me for the week, never met her,so i got mad and asked him if he was ashamed off me, i am a model by the way x
2007-05-31 23:29:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What has you being a model got to do with any of this? Do you think it makes you eligible for special treatment by the opposite sex or something?
Alternatively, to copy one of your recent answers.... "Who cares"......
2007-05-31 23:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lily & Stu Too 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you were together or who paid for the holiady.
He could be a nice bloke. On the other hand, imagine the conversation in the pub with his mates:
"...yeah an' she paid for the bleedin lot too!"
"You lucky b*****d! Did s*** your c***?"
"Oh what? And the rest n'all! 4 times a night at one point! Pure bliss man! Never 'ad a f*** like it."
"Geez you're so lucky! So when're seein' 'er next?""
"Nah...dumped 'er mate! Good fur 1 thing only!"
Man stares into his pint before taking a swig.
"And she models where?"
"'ere I'll show you..you want 'er number?"
On the other hand...you could CALL instead of 'texting' or GET OFF UR AR** and go to his place and demand an explanation! What if he's in hospital or something?
...............
2007-06-01 06:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by SEJ71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he made this decision when you were on holiday and instigated the arguement so that it would give him the excuse for dumping the suitcase.
Maybe he dumped you because you are a model - you seem to put a lot of stock into that statement. It shouldn't matter what you do or who you are.... being a model doesn't make you better than anyone else.
2007-06-01 06:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people tend to fear change and would rather stick with what they know than face disrupting a routine that "works well". Having to mould their lives and alter their daily routine is a scary thing, not knowing if the new order of things will be any better than the life they already know.
One off arguements are a poor excuse to end a relationship, it usually signifies the other party has something to hide. I imagine your flare up was instigated more by the fact that he refused to comment on your allegations, am I right Louise?
So in this case, you be better off forgetting and move on.
2007-06-01 06:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well model by the way, do i detect a little bit of an ego going on there, maybe he is just not interested and don't know how to tell your ego that you are now part of dumpville.
2007-06-01 06:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sonell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may of decided that he was bored and rebelous so he went of with his girl m8!Or he may still love you but his phone is broken and he is trying to get it repaired!II sugest you visit his mum and dad and ask them of his where abouts!Sorry if im not much help coz im only ten so i dont realy know these things but any ways its good to help people who are confusion
2007-06-01 06:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Enyx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity has a way of completely mitigating physical beauty and rendering a person quite ugly. Perhaps the jealousy was just too much for him to endure...
2007-06-01 06:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He was probably taking one last week of fun before turning himself in for jail time. Be patient and good luck.
2007-06-01 06:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me Louise like he doesn't know what he wants - or he has found something we wants more than you - to just disappear like that is very strange........ The sadi thing to guess about this is that he went back to his ex unfortunately !!!
2007-06-01 06:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Peter M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your response to some of the questions you have answered, I am not surprised he has left you.
2007-06-01 11:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by david t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋