I have a friend who is in a relationship with a guy that hits her... You see I have feelings for her and care much about her safety. her boyfriend is a drug addict. What should I do she likes this guy... Should I tell her I have feelings for her or beat this guy down... All in all, I just care about her safety
2007-05-31 22:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try talking to her about leaving the relationship. She doesn't need that crap. No woman deserves that. Make her realize it's an unhealthy relationship and that she needs to get out before it's too late. I feel bad for girls like that who fall for the bad eggs =[
2007-05-31 22:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by fuzzyhamster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive always said when watching Jeremey Kyle "god why does she stay with a guy that hits her i would be straight out" But i then think hang on im actaully with a guy that treats me like ****. So i feel sorry for your friend thats not what she wants from life but she loves/needs him so its so hard for her to walk away from that.
If a nice guy told me that he cared and was worried about the way my man was treating me....i would see it as an ascape and hopefully your friend would aswell so i would tell her at least then you know you have tried either way.
Just dont beat him down he may take it out on your friend and you could make the situation worse for her.
Good luck
2007-05-31 22:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is really lucky to have someone like u in her life! Well its up to u! But she needs to realise that he will never stop hurting her and that one day he might go to far and kill her without thinking! No woman deserves to be beaten up like that! U need to be there for her and tell her that u have feelings for her. Tell her how worried u are and that she needs to leave him before its too late! If she is too scared to (which is most probably the case) cause he might try to stop her and hurt her even more then he already has then she must get a restraining order against him and u need to be there for her and protect her! Also the druggie needs to be caught out so why not drop a hint to the cops
2007-05-31 22:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make it clear to her that you do not like this guy and you think she should leave but that you will be there for her if she doesnt!!
Sounds strange but she has to make the decision herself. She may not be ready to leave at the moment but when she does she should feel able to come you without being told 'i told you so'. Tell her you understand why she wants to stay (even if you dont) but you will always be there for her no matter what happens!!
You should try to establish the extent of the violence though cos it often escalates!!
2007-05-31 22:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Belinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about getting her out one night, like at your place, and rent a movie about an abusive type relationship, and let her see for herself.............then maybe she would get some incentive to leave him.............DO NOT BEAT HIM DOWN, it will make matters worse on her.........if you care for your friend like you say you do, don't touch him, and don't tell her how you feel about him in front of him..............good luck
2007-05-31 23:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her that you care for her, but she needs to care for herself enough to get away from him.
2007-05-31 22:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to break up with her bf
2007-05-31 22:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋