Singles & Dating - 5 June 2007

My question is unusual as this older man is friends with my father. We met at a party, not knowing who each other were and got a long so well. At first he wanted to see me again and a few text messages were exchanged. Then the next moring he sent one saying that we shouldn't see eachother again because "if anyone found out it would be damaging for both of us". Now i don't know what to do, I don't want to just give up on it because I havn't felt this way about someone I have met in so long...I just think strong genuine feelings shouldn't be ignored when they arrive in your life by chance!
(I am 19...20 next month...and he is 37, he has been married but was separated 6 years ago and he has two children, one is 6 and one is 10)

2007-06-05 23:58:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 23:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my age 25

2007-06-05 23:52:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. Im 16, almost 17 and me and my first boyfriend want to have sex, but Im sooo scared.... I dont know what to do or say and Im realy embarresed about asking people for help on this topic... but I need help! Whatwas your first ttime like? Im so scared! Should I be? Advise?

2007-06-05 23:50:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 23:48:29 · 4 answers · asked by anjish 2

This is not the first time.Guys are always very nice to me on the first few dates,smsing and calling me on a daily basis to send their regards and concern but yet after 3 dates,they stopped calling and smsing me. ...or their contacts with me become less regular(contacting me only when they wanna date me).can someone explain why?

2007-06-05 23:42:54 · 3 answers · asked by gurmet 1

My gf used to be so attractive. She was 5'6 and 108 lbs, but now she weighs 118 lbs. We've been together for only 2 years but she's gained all this weight. I can't stand looking at her most of the time because I just imagine a big tub of fat when I look at her. She's gained 5 lbs per year and by the year 2017 she will weight 168 lbs and I can't have that. I mean if I have to stay fit and look good, she should too. So should I just break up with her and find someone else?

2007-06-05 23:41:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend has another phone that he is using to text someone??..i dont know why, there is nothing to suggest it, its just a feeling ive got, ive asked him and he said 'dont be stupid, what would i gain out of it?' he tells me how much he loves me etc and proves hes home by ringing me from his landline every hour but i just cannot get rid of this feeling....

2007-06-05 23:39:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 23:38:49 · 9 answers · asked by xxx 1

2007-06-05 23:11:35 · 3 answers · asked by bedroomeyes 1

Right now I've been dating this girl for the past 2 years and our relationship is great, but I also have to other gfs that Ive been dating for the past 3 months and the other for two weeks. Its been hard keeping track of all the activities and remembering what I told one and not the other. Should I keep them, or should I get rid of one and maybe the other later on.

2007-06-05 23:07:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long did it take. If she had someone else, did she never come back? Just found out mine has someone else only a month after we broke up. I am sad about it, but wonder if it is a rebound or not. She broke up with me.

Please no responses saying get over her. Just your experiences

2007-06-05 23:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by D 1

Is one enough to destroy the relationship or will you give him more chances? What if he breaks off with the other girl and humbly apologizes to you and makes amends?

2007-06-05 22:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, in a classroom setting, would you always try to sit beside him or would you sit away from him because you are shy?

2007-06-05 22:36:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 20yo and i have never had sex before. Any advice on how to deal with your first time?

2007-06-05 21:45:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had sex with one guy without portaction for a long time now.. I came postive with HPV and STDS does that make me a **** because i only been with him and gotten this?

2007-06-05 21:42:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of months ago, this guy I worked with whom I liked very much and we got on very well, did not seem too keen to talk and when I asked if he meant that I don't call him again he said that was close to what he meant. He also said we could not be friends which was very upsetting. I then said I would never contact him again. HOWEVER, now I need him to provide a reference for me and I want to contact him to check if he has been contacted by the reference checking people because it is crucial that they contact him, but I am afraid to in-case he does not like that. I will not call him but I thought I might text him. Do you think it is ok if I text him asking him if he has been contacted by them yet? What would you do?

2007-06-05 21:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by SK 1

My ex does.

2007-06-05 20:58:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a prisons officer and usually I achieve a very good orgasm and satisfaction and consecutive go on several session in a given time period with my partner specially on days that I achieve something in my profession like controlling riotous prisoners and stuff. My gf who waits for me at home always expect me to have the same level of enthusiasm in sex but it's not the same thing everyday..what cud be the problem?

2007-06-05 20:53:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 20:51:17 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

Also some site to teach streaptise

2007-06-05 20:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by teatimetrivia.blogspot.com 2

He never tells me, yet when I tell him I love him he say's "WHAT FOR"!!!
We do have a very special bond tho, we speak our own language.

2007-06-05 20:47:33 · 2 answers · asked by Mary P 1

She is my assistant and we are together almost 15 hrs a day.She is attractive,full of life,jovial and understanding.She is liked by everyone in my Institute as she is very helpful.She has unique personality and everyone in her company automatically gets relieved of all the stress,even our patients express this.When I am away from her I get upset,irritable and depressed.I feel I am going mad and cannot live without her.What should I do?I am 47 yrs old and God!she is so young....

2007-06-05 20:44:31 · 22 answers · asked by keith r 1

friends, i just want to ask for advices whether you have experience it or not on how to forget your past..like, when you hate it if you see things, or been into place you have bad memories and you want to forget them..but anytime I think about it, it keeps haunting me down..let me directly tell the point..having had bad relationship with a guy for just a short period of time..but cause so much pain and now all i realized is that I never love him but only pity him..and hate him now...what I struggle is the place, the things , the memories that keep affecting me and bring me bad feelings...how can I forget them and overcome them???

2007-06-05 20:32:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have not dated much of my life due to being overweight.

I have lost 38 pounds and going!!!

My parents want me to get married but they don't realize
that I need time to see what is out there. Plus I am finishing
my BA and want to go to law school.

Because of this I want to get married like 2 - 4 years
from now.

One of my parents is unhealthy and really wants me to
get married so they can see my children. But I want to
make sure I have resources to support my future
children and my parents. I am torn, is it okay to wait?

2007-06-05 20:28:25 · 12 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2

I like this guy, and he really likes me. (Hes like whipped!!)
But he doesn't have a phone... Well he does, but it is a house phone, and hes always out playin basketball n stuff!!

I know you probably are thinkin that he just doesnt want to give me his # but Ive known him as a friend for a long long time!!!

What to do???

2007-06-05 20:21:20 · 15 answers · asked by jay 2

how long should i go through the starring thing before i should say something? the mystery of wether she likes me is too much

2007-06-05 20:11:17 · 8 answers · asked by fiasco! 1

A) Guy/gal who loves you and wants to be with you in the long run, but the love is forbidden as well as long-distance. (Lasting years.)

B) Relationship with guy/gal; the type that would last only 3 months or so.

2007-06-05 20:05:52 · 15 answers · asked by pertinential 5

ok i just posted a question, and said a some things wrong. Ok I dont spoil all the girls.. just the one that like me. and not all the time. and i am my self when im around her.

2007-06-05 19:59:18 · 10 answers · asked by Mickael P 1

Well, long story short; I was at a bus stop one day and gave my jacket to this woman because it was cold. I gave her my number and said I'll pick it up some other day. She told me her age. 28 years old, and she has three kids in South America. She also had a wedding ring on, but said she's not really committed, her husband is in South America also. So anyways, she calls me a couple times to talk, and it goes alright. But then I start ignoring her for a good four months, but she still calls all the time. I just broke up with this other girl, so I'm thinking, why not hook up with this 28 year old. She always calls me sweetheart, says she misses me, and wants to sing me songs she wrote.

Should I be freaked out; Is she trying to kidnap me or something? LOL

But she's nice, pretty cute, and I wouldn't mind having some fun. What does she want though?

I live in LA and am 19 by the way...

2007-06-05 19:57:07 · 16 answers · asked by asaahii 1