Singles & Dating - 5 June 2007

i have this friend who used to date one of my ex boyfriend's friend...and when she and her ex was having some problems,my then boyfriend used to help her a lot...now that my ex and i have broken up,the both of them seems really close...she is seeing someone else and i think he might still have some slight feelings for me left in him but i cant stand the fact that they are so close...she sends him messages saying that she misses him,that she'll stand by him and...and my ex still tells me stuff about his conversation with her...i'm still in love with my ex but i know that its over and i have to move on but i'm still really bothered by the fact that they r so close,and the other day he told me that my friend is more of a woman than i'll ever be...and it really hurts coz my ex and i used to be closer than close and i'm emotionally attached to him...do you think they might get together?my ex doing this to make me feel jelous?i am still on talking terms with the both of them..

2007-06-05 03:08:15 · 6 answers · asked by broken angel 2

in some financial ways and I always thought he was generous and the sweetest thing ever. I don't ask for anything purposely b/c I don't want him to think I want him for only help. I pay for some things.. lunches,things for kids. Now after a vicous fight he tells me I am spoiled and I need so much help. what the hell is he talking about? He threw in my face that he helped me that once financially. Now my feelings towards him has changed. I no longer think he is a sweet generous guy. I think hes a creep for bringin it up in that manner. How am I suppose to trust him when I do need something? I don;t want to feel scared to ask my own man for something if I need it.

2007-06-05 03:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Teresa 2

Do girls prefer to stay naked at home all the time when they are alone or during their presence with their spouses?

2007-06-05 03:02:35 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Bean 2

basicly theirs this women ive been trainning with shes on the level and fun to be aorund and generaly quit a impressive women but shes a weight lift/body builder hes face is pretty and that but a bigger than most women and most normal guys which is impressive but aint realy the sort of women i realy go for but i kinda of like her what are your thoughts

2007-06-05 03:01:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he wants to get to know me, he spends most of his free time (days off) with me. He calls me about 4 days a week and on the days he doesn't call, then he usually texts me at least once. Is this guy a player? Is this something you would do if you truly liked the girl? We usually see each other about 2 times per week (movies, dinner, etc). I'm clueless!!LOL..Please help!!

2007-06-05 02:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Siren_Cin 2

This guy I've known for about 3 weeks tells me I'm really cute and he loves talking to me. We talk every day for about 2 hours on msn, and he's recently stared text messaging me.
I would say he likes me because his actions and words suggest that, however there is this other girl who lives down the coast that he likes and is just about to get together with.
We've been hanging out heaps lately, pretty much every second day. He kissed me on the cheek when he was leaving a nightclub and said he's sorry we cant be more than friends because of the other girl.
I dont want to be second to any girl. I feel so angry because the girl he's after is a b*tch.
He asked me to hang out tomorrow, and I said yes. I asked him 2 c me this sunday at a club n he said he cant cos he's goin down the coast to see that girl.
He msgs me and n tells me im cute and flirts with me.. he kinda knows im into him and hes NOT after an easy lay with me.
What the hell is he doing?

2007-06-05 02:57:46 · 15 answers · asked by jeska102 1

2007-06-05 02:55:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said he was going to call but never did.

He was too busy like for a week and in fact TOO busy that he couldn’t even answer my call.

He’d disappear for a week and then came back and started talking bullsh!ts like “I’m so sorry.. I was so busy.., My phone is not working.. bla bla bla”

Now, he’s gone and don’t know where the h ell he is.

But I know He’d come back again someday soon.

So, My question is…
If he ever texts or calls me again, what should I say to NAIL him?
p.s. I don’t want to sound like a total ***** and I don’t want to sound mad cos he might think he’s something.
I want to say something steadily and makes him ‘hands down’ and realize… he isn’t as great as he thinks he is and that he can’t always play girls that way.

Thanks!


I am going to dump him.

2007-06-05 02:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by Melrose 1

I'm 21 and I haven't had any relationship since 15.
Am I depriving myself much? Is love essential to life?

2007-06-05 02:53:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 02:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by flaai 1

but he hasn't told me he loves me...is that normal...we have been together for a year, and get along great...and says I am very lovable...he just doesnt yet, and see's no reason why we wouldn't be together forever, So why doesn't he love me? He has been stressed lately and says things are getting better now, so he will have more time to focus on his heart....ahhh what should i think....I love him so much....

2007-06-05 02:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there something missing? It just seems that guys are not interested in being involved with me. Like when it seems it is time for the next step they bail. I like sports and having a good time. I think it is important for each person to have time on their own so I really don't care if a guy is out with his friends as long as I get some time with him. I am intelligent and have goals in life. I'm usually laid back and go with the flow. Some guys talk about how great I am but its really funny that they don't want to take a chance on me. Sorry but I am just kind of down right now because I thought someone really like me and I guess I was wrong.

2007-06-05 02:49:21 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

2007-06-05 02:49:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl I really like at work. She is really pretty and sweet, but english is not her first language, and when I flirt with her, I don't think she gets that I am flirting. Any suggestions?

2007-06-05 02:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by The Teacher 6

2007-06-05 02:42:18 · 25 answers · asked by missTQ 2

I'm in the process of moving in with my boyfriend and I'm feeling so irritated recently, and wondering whether or not I made the right decision. Will these feelings subside as I get more settled into his house?? I hope so.

2007-06-05 02:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by curious 1

I never really had any serious relationships in my teen years. Then when I was 18 I (regrettably) had an affair with a much older, married man. It lasted 3 tiring years and its done now. And I'm wondering (although I'm not wanting one right now) if I will be able to have a 'normal' relationship with a guy now? At the moment I'm completely put off by guys because of him, but in the future I would like to be in long term relationship. Is this possible for me anymore? and if my future man asks me about my past lovers/boyfriends..how would I go about answering that, because the affair isn't something I want to brag about?

2007-06-05 02:38:07 · 5 answers · asked by Danu 6

Ok so yes we broke up he went to the races with his friend for the weekend...but i wonder if he slept with another girl...I wonder because when he broke up with me he went to call me jen slipped and called me ashley which is my real name...But then when we got back togeather he was doing things in bed that he has never done before y is that could it be because he is afraid for me to find out or what is it if you know the answer leave me one and thank you for all your help!

2007-06-05 02:35:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you like a girl/boy to keep you on your toes or do do you prefer the easy life?

2007-06-05 02:33:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know if ive posted about this yet...but my ex and i dated for almost two years...about 5 months ago, he decided he didnt want to be with me any more...we had broken up for two weeks previous to this time, i think it was like a month and a half that went by and he left me again...i know i shouldnt care, and that i should move on, but its like, hes sticking in my life for some reason. he wont talk to me for three weeks at a time, then bam, he unblocks me on msn and asks how im doing, or texts me randomly. when we first broke up, he talked to me alot more. i dont understand why he keeps me in his life, its been months, and he says he wont take me back. why the hell is he still keeping contact with me? he says we will never be able to hang out. so like, why? why keep doing this to me?

2007-06-05 02:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by creepout 2

how do u use it?

2007-06-05 02:26:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 02:04:46 · 32 answers · asked by veronica r 3

My bf & I av been seeing eachother for 8 Mnts now,got intimate 4 monts after and we've been good since then.he's a man's man.and I love him to pcs,I know i want to spend the rest of my life with him.he's very gentle with me,never holds a grudge,he's not verbally or emoitionally abusive,he's very objective,he says he's sorry when he's wrong&accepts when his flaws are pointed out,he corrects me in private and he so sweet[trys to sing to me],though he gets insensitive sometimes,it's not on purpose.tells me he'd never hurt me,luvs a lot of things about me.He gets verbally unxpressive with his emotions and he shuts me out and that hurts he doesn't no this.he looks at me & i know he cares.but he's nevr told me 'HE LOVES ME' & i wonder why,he has not doubt about the way i feel about him but why won't he just tell me ?
2> In all of 6mnts we made love 12 times do you think thats ok,is his libido [ok,average,high or low] I'll be 26&he'll be 30 both of us this year.Finally do you think we'r ok?

2007-06-05 01:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by beautyliz 1

2007-06-05 01:44:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to understand the problem. I seriously have kids 17 and up hitting on me. Or married men fall all over themselves to meet me.can someone explain why a self confessed happily married man would do that? And why do teenagers try hitting on women that could be thier mothers?

2007-06-05 01:42:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend loves me a lot but she doesn't wanna marry me till i walk without crutches cos iam handicap.she always says my family won't accept u till u'll be able to walk without 'em.the problem is when i try to walk without crutches i spend more time to get to work and move from a place to another:it takes me half an hour for 7 meters.inaddition to thati work almost of my time i can't find a free time to workout.i got one day off that's sunday but it's not sufficient to hit the bull's eyes and fulfil her dream.plz what's that? if i can't make it then she refuses.can we call it love? thanks my friends

2007-06-05 01:38:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a relationship with a man I love for 2 1/2 years. He's going back to school after 20 years and spends a lot of time with that and volunteering at church. I respect his activities but he lost his job last December and it took him 3-4 months just to put a resume together. He still pays his share of the rent and expenses (from some sort of trust or fund) but I have a hard time respecting his lack of willingness and effort to find a job. He's been looking more lately, but I'm at the point where I'm questioning him as a person and potential partner, as well as the whole relationship now. We've talked about marriage in the past, but I don't know about even staying together for now.. Does anyone have any experience with this? Thank you--I appreciate it.

2007-06-05 01:32:17 · 12 answers · asked by impermanence 1

My mate told me that he'd been thinking about me all day... Is that normal for a guy to say that to me? he's never said anything like that to me before.
It was quite out of the blue actually.
I mean awhile ago he'd been acting strange around me like, avoiding me like every time I'd go next to him he'd be like oh and walk to the otherside of the room and just flutter around me like nothing & then he'd come back & yeah. But that was ages ago lol he seems to be his old self but he got angry at me one time b\c I ignored him when I was at the mall with my friend but I didnt think it was him b\c it didnt look like him but it mustve been b\c he got pissed at me til the next day.

I mean whats up with that? Guys help me!! Why would he do that? I mean hes not angus anymore, when I talked to him, he was right after that lol.

But anyways do you guys always to your girl FRIEND that you think about them all day???

2007-06-05 01:29:15 · 13 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4

I met this boy.. and we ended up goin out for 4 and 1/2 months.. we broke up.. over something stupid for about 2 months and ended up going back out.. and we have been going strong for about 3 weeks now.... does relationships usually work 2nd time around.... .. and honestly things r goin better this time than last time

2007-06-05 01:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by blondie_witha_brain 2

so this is how it goes, we (me and some of my friend) went to this waterfall, we went under the falls and stuff( the ususal), anyways..among the friends(girls and guys) i had, there was a new girl in the group, i never met her or talked to her b4..so when we were going under the falls, she would often ask me to help her ( this wasnt surprsing, cuz most of them needed the help cuz the current was fast), and then when it was time to take the group pic..she choose to stand beside me(close!), andways, then we slowly started to talk ( the basic convo, where you from and blah blah!) and then she would support me when i picked on one of my friends...and after this..i would catch her lookin at me (occasionally)..and thats how the day ended, talk and looks..was this girl intrestested in me?..or was it just me..?

let me know what u guyz think...

2007-06-05 01:26:25 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 2