Singles & Dating - 5 June 2007

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year,and we were best friends before that.We've had our share of ups and downs but we always get through it,and it makes us stronger.Because he hangs around with his best friend's girlfriend,he has become good friends with her,which is fair enough,i have close guy friends too.He is also in a band with her.And sometimes he just mentions her like,if he sees something he will say 'oh she wanted that!'or if a movie is on 'she wants to see that'.It doesnt happen often but the occasional comment.and today someone was on tv and she reminded him of her?i know my boyfriend loves me more than anything,etc,as he is always telling me,and im mad about him.am i just being stupid and jealous?

2007-06-05 11:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a very bad break up with my boyfriend. We broke up in January. I tried to apolyigize, but i think i hurt him to a point where it still hurts him. I shouldn't have said the things i said, or even gone there...I love him!!!! I love him more than anything! If we honestly can never be again, i just want to look in his face, hold him and tell him i am sorry, kiss him then walk away. We were inseprable! And this is all my fault. If i weren't so STUPID i would have taken a different approach and not lost him. I at least need to make a big one last time effort! We were suppose to get married! I know i broke his heart, but there has to be something i can say to make things right again. If i can't i just need to tell him how sorry i am i hurt him , and that i had no intention of hurting him so bad! I am miserable without him. Until i nip this in the bud, i can't move on. I need some advice. So, if anyone out there has been in love, & lost some1, u kno what i am going thru, IT REALLY HURTS

2007-06-05 11:39:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

why or why not?

2007-06-05 11:38:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

or not cuz you are afraid it may change your relationship with him and you might lose a good friend>>>

2007-06-05 11:37:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl who has a bf, but i think kinda likes me back. we were talking hypothetically if it is right to tell someone in a relationship u like them. she said it was okay to tell them. i said that i liked a girl in a relationship but i cared too much about her to put her in a bad position. would u respect this? take it as me really caring? or would u think it made me gutless?

2007-06-05 11:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I from the very beginning discussed being open and honest with each other. The other day he told me that some guy at the gym kept looking at him and even approached him and asked him to go to his place for a drink and more. He didn't do anything, but should I be worried about this. I got very jealous when he told me about it. At first I wondered if he just told me to make me feel jealous, but maybe he just wanted to share it with me. I feel as if the same thing happened to me that I would totally tell him about it as well. Am I worrying for nothing or is it strange that he told me about this? He apparently told his best friend about it as well and the last time I hung out with her she mentioned jokingly if he had told me about the dude that tried to pick him up at the gym. I tend to be very jealous and insecure and don't know if I might be reading into this too much?

2007-06-05 11:32:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys what is the point in sending messages to a girl through somebody else for months if you're not going to ask the girl out?

2007-06-05 11:26:02 · 1 answers · asked by Bird 3

My guy and I have been together for about a year and just recently I let him move in with me for financial reasons. We were spending ALL of our time together anyways so it just made more sense. The other day he had his email up and I decided to look at it (not every single email), but a couple in particular stood out to me. There was a few from some chick that he was trying to meet up with and have sex but then he told her he couldn't do it at that time. There was another one about an ad placed to meet transgender/transexual women, placed by a male around the same age as him (most likely he posted it). So I asked him about it and his first response was "where are you coming from with this?" Then he acted like he had an attitude for me checking his email. Needless to say we didn't really talk about it because I was too upset and just walked away and he sat in the room and continued to play video games and then went to sleep. I don't trust him and he just moved in, what to do?

2007-06-05 11:24:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-05 11:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The father of my child is successful and makes good money(he is in the oilfield bussiness) he can be very mean, mentaly and physicaly abusive.. but I never had to worry about anything as far as money went. when we broke up I met a guy that was my age(21) and he is what I have been looking for as far as a relationship, he treats me like im the only woman in the world, no one has ever treated me like he does, I feel in love with him fast...but he lives with his mom and Grandma..I also make as much or more money than he does, and I am not used to that..I do not know what to do..do I get back with a guy who can support me and my child(the father of my child) and take the chance of being unhappy, but have anything and everything I want and need...or do I go with the guy who makes me happpy at heart and no be able to give my son ,everything he needs...I just dont know what to do...HELP

2007-06-05 11:13:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

alrite im looking for a girl that is a brunette about 5'2''-5'6'' a little meat on her bones, must have an amazing smile and dark eyes.....along with the other obvious features......also i wont date a girl unless shes a virgin and oral virgin........all my friends say im too picky and should just go out with anyone but i dont want to settle on somthing i dont like or dosent have the same morals as me but im getting lonely should i give in

2007-06-05 11:07:39 · 37 answers · asked by dave m 2

I have had strong feelings for her for a very long time. She flirted with me and kept me going until now that its summer. I have asked her to the movies and other places and she always says "I don't know if I can go yet." I realize that she probably doesn't like me. The other day she asked me why I wanted to go out with her so bad and I just blew it. I said because I had feelings for her. All of my past experiences have been pretty rough. I can't stand females.

2007-06-05 11:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i like this boy ant and this boy kevin, kevin has already established that he loves me and i love him too, but the thing is is that i cant get ant out my mind. and every time i try to forget about one of them it just comes back!!! what should i do? *note i already thought about whos the best but i cant seem to evaluate

2007-06-05 11:01:19 · 9 answers · asked by StarStatus 1

2007-06-05 10:59:57 · 2 answers · asked by tiffany k 1

today in class, our teacher just told us to turn to a page. She wasnt listening so she began flipping through pages. soon she raises her book so I can only see the cover, while she was flipping the pages. When I looked at her, I wanted to to tell her what page we were on but she just looked back. Did I make a mistake by not telling her the page? She is the shy type.

2007-06-05 10:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

That is attractive, smart, sexy, has great sense of humor , makes good money , fun to be with , not an alcoholic or drug user, not obsessed with him self or show off and not afraid of commitment?

2007-06-05 10:51:41 · 14 answers · asked by virgo_11214 2

I was cruising in my car, and i got into a small arguement with my gf about Jessica Alba. I said Jessica Alba was probably the Celeb out there. Then she threw her Pepsi on me and it went all over my trousers and white t-shirt!

I really like my gf, but im scared that this could get worse as time goes by... what do you think i should say to her? I dont think throwing Pepsi at me was the best way to solve the argument!!!

2007-06-05 10:46:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

however he doesnt even tell u.. its u who discover that it was a lie.. what u do u next.. would you trust him as same as u used to do it before. And you havent met the person ever in ur life, its just the internet stuff..

2007-06-05 10:39:32 · 15 answers · asked by Dimps 1

around, does he like me?

2007-06-05 10:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by †ღChristian♥Girlღ† 2

OK Im supposed to be from 5'6'' to 5'8'' when Im fully grown. I want to be a movie star/rock star (yeah i know "it'll never happen" but im good at guitar and acting, ive even been paid to be the main char. in a play)
Anyway....
Girls, what do you think? Would this height still be hot for a guy? I have a good body if that helps...

BE HONEST!!!

2007-06-05 10:33:12 · 22 answers · asked by Ted (Guitar Legend) 3

I have only been dating this guy for a little bit of time. Not even a week yet. And he already told me that in a couple of weeks he can see himself falling in love with me. I've never been in love and he hasn't either. I do care about him but I dont love him and I think he's taking things too fast. I dont even know how to react. Should I be honest but I dont wanna hurt him.

2007-06-05 10:32:24 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6

I am not sure what to make of her. Her cat pees on the floor in her bedroom and when it happens she changes into a different person. Usually she will just kick the cat, which does not really bother me. But the other day when the cat did this she put it in the dryer on hot for 2 minutes. I am starting to worry that this is escalating. Should I just get rid of her cat?

2007-06-05 10:30:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey im 15, but im allways with someone 17 & 18. And i know everytime they are playin me just to get some, and i give it to them and i still go with them. Yeah it hurts me but like idk. Im tryin to do not date that old but the guys my age are stupied they play around to much and i hate it. And im allways in trouble bc of me datin them, but how do i stop!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-05 10:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by ~CocoaNut~ 1

Boyfriends birth day??!!??!!??
my crush just asked me out about 5 seconds ago and i said yes!!!!!!! anyways his birth day was 2 days ago and i dont know what to do??!!!!??? please help me??!!???!!
we are both 12 now!!!! and also my brothers and dad r way over potective and im not allowed to have a bf until im 16... and my brother is only a year older than me!!! and we r both in middle school and tight and i think that hes going to figure out sooner or later!!!!!!!!!!! what should i do????

2007-06-05 10:16:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. earlier this year, i went out with this guy. lets call him danny. everything was great. he is SUPER cute and really sweet. but i broke up with him because he ignored me at school and talked on and on over da phone. i still have feelings 4 him. and the only person that knows how much i still like him is my best friend. lets call her lizzie. i was acatually planning on getting bak with him. but 2 days ago, he asked lizzie out! lizzie came 2 me and asked my permission 2 go out with him. i said yea cuz i thought she knew how much i liked him and would b smart enough 2 say no 2 him. well now they r going out. and lizzie no's im jelous about them 2 going out and dat i still like him. she wants me around with her everytime she is with danny. and i dnt like dat. she even had her 1st kiss with my ex-bf!!! and they'v been going out 4 like 2 days!!! me and him went out 4 weeks and nothing like dat happened!! what do i do? i tried talking 2 her. didnt work. im really jelous and angry!

2007-06-05 10:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im currently not happy in our relationship. I feel like he lies all the time, and doesnt really want to be with me. Ive had this conversation before, and i feel like im not initiating the conversation right or he doesnt understand me. Ladies do you have any ideas of how exactly i should bring up this conversation or what i can say to make myself very clear. Im a very blunt person but I cant approach him like that because I always end up hurting his feelings. Please help me.

2007-06-05 10:02:53 · 12 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3

Ok, well my bf said he's gonna give me a treat soon, in other words he's gonna give me oral sex, i really do love him but im still scared,well im just wonering should i find out what exactly he's gonna do to me or should i just experience it first hand? But if anybody can tell me what he mite do then that would be good to, (please dont me mean in ur answers.)

2007-06-05 09:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy i like for two years! yes i know that long. i still think he likes me but he is so very shy, that he hasn't asked me out. i know he liked me before because when i asked him out 2 years ago he walked away, but then sent me a valentine. and recently he actually invited me to study with him at his house and he seemed uncomfortable, figedty, and nrvous. what does this all mean? and should i actually talk with hi aout it? and what should i SAY? i see him tonight . thanks for your help.

2007-06-05 09:57:26 · 9 answers · asked by aleandria 1

Just about anyone can dance around a pole and shake their implanted goodies. How is this *Exotic*? What would be a more appropriate name for it?

2007-06-05 09:51:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not!! I’m 16.
I've had been on the honor roll for seven years (but this year, do to some problems I have, to get a 4.0 GPA).I'm in a lot of good actives and a lot of people know me. I know a little Spanish and a little of Japanese as well. My old crush, Taylor had got beaten up not to long ago over some girl. And he always has put me down all the time, make me feel small. He was a loser from the beginning and I should have seen it. Also I’ve also heard one of them saying “don’t worry, she’s stupid, she believe anything!” I do not believe IN EVERYTHING!!
All my crushes ARE LOSERS, I don't want to end up like my grand mama, it had happen to her the same way as well.
Plus, my old crushes have friends like them and they keep thinking I'm stupid or weird, for the reason that I'm different from the other girls in my school.
One of my friends knows one of my old crushes, and she had said” he is a BIG JERK!”
How can I find some one who treats me right, like a best friend and turn into to my boyfriend someday?
Because, most of my guy friends are very nasty, bi, and gay and some a step above my old crushes.
Plus, three of them live around me and one lives in the city, (the 18 year old).

Please say (nice Things) Thanks!

2007-06-05 09:45:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous