I have only been dating this guy for a little bit of time. Not even a week yet. And he already told me that in a couple of weeks he can see himself falling in love with me. I've never been in love and he hasn't either. I do care about him but I dont love him and I think he's taking things too fast. I dont even know how to react. Should I be honest but I dont wanna hurt him.
2007-06-05 10:32:24 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BE HONEST!!! You do not want to be pushed into anything you are not sure about.... i did that, and I married him, and now....... I'm getting divorced. I didn't love him, but he loved me, and I thought that was enough. I thought that I could learn to love him...... but it didn't happen. Take it slow, and let him know that. TELL him how you feel, that you are not sure where this is going, and you want to take it slow!!!!!!
2007-06-05 10:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by vega_five 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you can't predict falling in love with someone the way he has. it just happens. so if he tells you he loves you that quickly then he just doesn't know what love is. Its good that your level headed enough to know you don't love him even though you care about him. Just tell him that you care about him and you really want to continue your relationship, but that he's moving to fast and you need more time to see if you will fall in love.
2007-06-05 17:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by dancerchic882003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if i were you i would not say the words "I love you," unless you really mean then, it can screw with someones heart. I would just tell him "We are taking things to fast, i like you, i really do but we have only been dating a week & already saying i love you to each other is taking things way to fast. "
if he cant except that then get rid of him. .
2007-06-05 17:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very honest when it comes to the word love...don't wait until her says it...let him know that his comment about "in a few weeks..." made you extremely uncomfortable and you are not the type of person to rush your feelings & he needs to slow down or risk getting very hurt.
2007-06-05 17:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest and upfront with your feelings. If he is laying it on too thick you need to let him know. If he really likes you as much as he says he does, he will take your feelings into consideration and will lay off on the premature "love" talk.
2007-06-05 17:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by lipglossandblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest.
Tell him that you care about him but you are not sure that what you are feeling is love.
Don't let him push you into a level of relationship that you are not comfortable with. That is not loving you but rather using you.
2007-06-05 17:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't feel that way yet, and you think that he's taking things alittle to fast.
Go with your gut, it's right.
2007-06-05 17:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys always try to puch things when they feel like it. but that does not mean you need to get yourself into anything you ll regret.
just tell him that you feel that its too early for anything serious, and that you have the well being of both of you on mind when you say this.
2007-06-05 17:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by roses*are*red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy! If he says it to you just be like "your so sweet" and give him a quick kiss or something, then change the subject.
2007-06-05 17:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after only a week i'm sure he will understand. let him no that you care about him but it's too soon for love.
2007-06-05 17:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋