however he doesnt even tell u.. its u who discover that it was a lie.. what u do u next.. would you trust him as same as u used to do it before. And you havent met the person ever in ur life, its just the internet stuff..
2007-06-05 10:39:32 · 15 answers · asked by Dimps 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't trust anyone I met over the internet.
That's just.. not very smart.
2007-06-05 10:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Meghan :D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two sides to this query:
If the person who lied was one you have met in flesh and blood, then you can always give him/her a second time. You can break the lie to him in many ways.
A 'small lie' is a 'lie' after all. One lie does lead to main other lies. It is a chain reaction.
But, you can still trust that person if you feel that the lie was innocent and not about any grave matter concerning you.
BUT THE INSTANCE YOU HAVE MENTIONED IS DIFFERENT.
Over the internet have you contacted that person.
Now, tell me one thing. without knowing much about that person how can you demand trust from that person?
First tell him straight in your email about the lie.
Next, see what he says.
Then, gauge his reply.
Finally, you are the better judge to continue the contact or cancel the link!
2007-06-05 15:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Nilutpal Gogoi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship has ran it's course. If he joins another scout group or finds a different job, there will always be another woman to turn his head. He is not willing to stay faithful to you, if he loved you he would. He is using you until the next woman comes along. You can't live the rest of your life wondering and worrying about him with another woman. This will only prolong the heartache misery and worry. I'm sure you deserve to be treat a lot better than this. Don't let this man treat you like this any longer, end it and find a man who will be faithful, love you and make you happy. This man does none of these things for you. Once trust has gone its over. There are lots of good men out there. But remember you will only be treat the way you allow others to treat you!
2016-05-17 13:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lie is a lie. Be sure you have the facts and have them properly. People can tell you anything on the internet because they don't have to face you. The obscurity of the internet allows anyone to be or say anything that anyone else will believe. Those that hide behind false identities and lies are dangerous. Beware of anyone anywhere that lies to you. Trust has to be earned, not given freely. Don't trust anyone until they have earned it. My advice is move on. . .
2007-06-05 10:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the lie was all about. Because my ex lied to me about him having a relationship with my sister b4 he knew me and he said he didn't tell me because he was protecting me. Now come on, do u really believe that? You have to tread in carefully when u r dealing with people u haven't met if he told such a small lie and didn't tell u about it God knows what else he is lying about.Do yourself a favour and get out of there while u can
2007-06-05 10:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its related to net ..as u r telling , then no wonders coz ppl do lies very regular bases, particuraly to whom they knows them only through net, i had also experinced that..and like u did , i found my self that ..that person had lied ...
But ...that might be all about net, its hazards of net..so better is..if u r so sensitive that, a small lie of that person on net...leads u to ask a question here, then its better for u that, in future never allow anyone on net to come close to yr heart, never position any one on net to very special place in yr life.....here on net most of the time ..we dont have to shaw each others faces ..so honesty matters more but ppl lie here ...i dont know why!!!
2007-06-05 17:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
internet friendship should be totally cut off. Sometimes we can't even assess the true nature of a person with whom we have had a long association for a long period, such e-frienships are to be forgotten as passing showers.
2007-06-05 10:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by kanya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd trust him, only that's in person, so NO i would not trust him cuz you met over the net, I agree with the first answer
2007-06-05 10:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you trust someone that you met over the Internet? I am sure that he is telling you MORE lies, that is probably all he does
2007-06-05 10:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a chance for him. If again he lie to me just drop my friendship with him.
Ammu
2007-06-05 18:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by Madurai Malli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋