I met this boy.. and we ended up goin out for 4 and 1/2 months.. we broke up.. over something stupid for about 2 months and ended up going back out.. and we have been going strong for about 3 weeks now.... does relationships usually work 2nd time around.... .. and honestly things r goin better this time than last time
2007-06-05 01:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by blondie_witha_brain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe the break did you both some good and made you realise how much you liked/missed each other. If things are going better now then I wouldn't worry about it. You can both learn from the mistakes you made before and your relationship should be stronger for it.
2007-06-05 01:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by BarrenDan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention why the 2 of you broke up... all you wrote is something stupid. Well, if the something stupid was a small thing, yeah, I think it could work the 2nd time around. But if it had to do with another girl, jealousy, etc... unless you have the trust in him, it'll be hard.
Think about it. Depending on the reason, think he'll do the same again?
If it's worth it, then try. If not, hey, move on.
BTW, going out for 4 1/2 months is nothing, sounds like high school romance. Being together again for 3 weeks... not a long time.
2007-06-05 08:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes relationships work out better after a period of seperation. However, you have only been back together for 3 weeks. Allow things to take a natural course...go slow, nurture the renewed relationship and allow yourselves to get closer and build a strong foundation. Do not rush things, don't overanalyze everything that he does, based on past mistakes. Give everything a fresh start and see how it goes.
Good luck!
2007-06-05 08:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Second time around is not a problem if the fight was over something minor. You have to learn to work through disagreements over the long-term, however, so next time it happens and things get emotional...take a few deep breaths, listen, communicate in a positive way and work through it.
2007-06-05 08:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. They usually work for a bit the second time. But most people end up breaking up again.
2007-06-05 08:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't doubt the relationship now. Go with the flow and see how it works out.
2007-06-05 08:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the people some are better twice and some arrent
2007-06-05 08:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by skitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋