Well, long story short; I was at a bus stop one day and gave my jacket to this woman because it was cold. I gave her my number and said I'll pick it up some other day. She told me her age. 28 years old, and she has three kids in South America. She also had a wedding ring on, but said she's not really committed, her husband is in South America also. So anyways, she calls me a couple times to talk, and it goes alright. But then I start ignoring her for a good four months, but she still calls all the time. I just broke up with this other girl, so I'm thinking, why not hook up with this 28 year old. She always calls me sweetheart, says she misses me, and wants to sing me songs she wrote.
Should I be freaked out; Is she trying to kidnap me or something? LOL
But she's nice, pretty cute, and I wouldn't mind having some fun. What does she want though?
I live in LA and am 19 by the way...
2007-06-05 19:57:07 · 16 answers · asked by asaahii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of older ladies dig younger dudes, she's in her sexual peak. Go for it, she'll probably buy you stuff, she can be your sugar mama!! At least for a little while...
2007-06-05 19:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by ṡ๓υгƒєtt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she is older isn't that big of a deal in my opinion, but she is married and has 3 kids, and why is she here but the rest of her faimily still in the "mother-land". See if you can find out what kind of relationship she has with her husband; if they are separated or getting divorced it would probably be OK to date her, but if he still thinks of her as his woman, he could very well be hitting town and have a bullet with your name on it! Also you might want to find out ahead of time (in case you get along real well with her) where are the 3 kids going to be living?
2007-06-06 03:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not the problem, as long u 2 love each other then its ok. U can just try to hang out with and see.
2007-06-06 03:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't walk RUN away from this man! I have had friends have a similar situation as yours (women with kids in other countries or a husband that they don't "see" anymore) and let me tell you it wasn't pretty. She can be just using you for you know...papers...older women though..know what they are doing when that "special night" comes...oh boy. Just be safe. :)
2007-06-06 03:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you think her husband feels? What about her children? Just because shes not committed doesn't mean she isn't married. Plus she is too old.
2007-06-06 03:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ugly Duckling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay away from her she has 3 kids and a husband as you said do you really want to deal with all of that
2007-06-06 03:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by Chaos theory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstly, do you really want her to cheat on her husband with you?
second, do you think its a good idea? i mean she might want to start something serious as shes older than you...
personally, i wouldnt do it. find girls more your age, who aren't married already! =]
goodluck!
2007-06-06 03:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't do anything with her. She has three kids and she'll have one more. Find someone younger, single, with no kids.
2007-06-06 03:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lobster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd stay away from married women.
2007-06-06 02:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to leave her alone..she is married!
How would you like it if someone cheated on you?
2007-06-06 02:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋