I like this guy, and he really likes me. (Hes like whipped!!)
But he doesn't have a phone... Well he does, but it is a house phone, and hes always out playin basketball n stuff!!
I know you probably are thinkin that he just doesnt want to give me his # but Ive known him as a friend for a long long time!!!
What to do???
2007-06-05 20:21:20 · 15 answers · asked by jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plan ahead?
2007-06-05 20:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Yo Spliff, where the cheese at? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your question...he 'doesn't want to give you his number' because he doesn't want you calling the house. Either HIS choice or his parents. If you have to ask, you're too young anyway. Just continue being 'long long time' friends. When he's ready for more..he'll let you know. Enjoy the friendship, don't ruin it by chasing him. Some guys really don't like aggressive girls. They want to be in charge. Respect yourself and let him have his time 'playin basketball n' stuff'. Sounds like he's more into the 'guy stuff' at the moment. Good things come to those who wait...
2007-06-06 03:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my book, if he can't afford even a basic cell phone or an answering machine for the house phone, he can't afford you as a girlfriend! Also, if he knows you are so interested in him and makes so little effort to keep in touch; I wonder how interestred he really is.
2007-06-06 03:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. If he wanted a phone than he would have a phone. I say just let him have his space and do him. You don't want to come off as this controlling chick. Men hate that. Let him chase you. Sounds good to me.
2007-06-06 03:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take 2 aspirin and call him in the morning. Seriously, he might not be as smitten as you think. That sounds like a lame excuse. He might be trying to tell you something in a nice way.
2007-06-06 03:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by gulfbreeze8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know people actually managed to build and sustain relationships before there were phones??? so it may be more time consuming than with one, but more personal & romantic too. you just need to make a bit more effort, once things have progressed he will probably get one to be in touch with you more!! obviously he hasnt had the need for one-till now!!!
2007-06-06 03:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
respect the fact that he hasn't been washed over with the wave of commercialism..good on him for having no mobile...or what you americans call a cell phone
2007-06-06 03:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by Moral Kiosk 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, till he finally gets a phone..tell him to call you whenever he's at home.And if he really likes you, it's a great excuse for him to come see you often
2007-06-06 03:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do girls think they deserve to be able to contact you at all times? It's so warped. JUST BE COOL!!!!
2007-06-06 03:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use the olden days method... send love letters....
2007-06-06 03:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by aUDREy TTT 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋